<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239</id><updated>2012-02-14T17:45:01.021-05:00</updated><category term='local living'/><category term='favors'/><category term='springtime'/><category term='news'/><category term='basketball'/><category term='photo shoot'/><category term='tablescapes'/><category term='DIY'/><category term='beach'/><category term='something to celebrate'/><category term='vintage'/><category term='shopping'/><category term='thanksgiving'/><category term='marriage'/><category term='events'/><category term='nature'/><category term='projects'/><category term='art'/><category term='winter'/><category term='inspiration'/><category term='general'/><category term='trends'/><category term='showers'/><category term='gifts'/><category term='birthdays'/><category term='sneak peek'/><category term='deals'/><category term='home and family'/><category term='tips'/><category term='ooh la la'/><category term='kudos'/><category term='imperfect prose'/><category term='weddings'/><category term='kids'/><category term='friends'/><category term='beverages'/><category term='summertime'/><category term='31 days'/><category term='good eats'/><category term='parties'/><category term='traditions'/><category term='Christmas'/><category term='Friday Finds'/><category term='brides'/><category term='fall'/><category term='school'/><category term='faith'/><category term='ideas'/><category term='crafts'/><category term='advent'/><category term='Etsy'/><category term='outdoor'/><category term='giveaway'/><category term='holidays'/><category term='centerpieces'/><category term='design'/><category term='flowers'/><category term='fun things'/><category term='good things'/><category term='entertaining'/><category term='love'/><category term='tuesdays unwrapped'/><title type='text'>Events by Design...</title><subtitle type='html'>...where celebration comes to life!</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default?start-index=101&amp;max-results=100'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>277</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-4706410574227692455</id><published>2012-02-14T08:09:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2012-02-14T08:44:47.447-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='holidays'/><title type='text'>little loves</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-wLBEg6O8Lk8/Tzpjf0SSV0I/AAAAAAAAEDI/by0Olkj7M3U/s1600/IMG_3482.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-XHBarzQRCb0/Tzpi5yoKbSI/AAAAAAAAEC8/cOKeBX9ssGs/s1600/0069_Timberlake.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-XHBarzQRCb0/Tzpi5yoKbSI/AAAAAAAAEC8/cOKeBX9ssGs/s400/0069_Timberlake.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5708984222627818786" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;happy valentine's day to you.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I couldn't think of a more romantic picture than this one.  It's a little "sweetheart" table I designed back in the fall.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Yesterday, as I was talking with a dear friend, we were talking about how little you have to do to &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;celebrate with the ones you love&lt;/span&gt;.  It doesn't take much.  I just adore her &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;sweet&lt;/span&gt; tradition...after the kids go to bed, she makes one big beautiful ice cream sundae to share, and then her and her sweetie watch a romantic comedy together. &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt; love it.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Yes, a beautifully designed tablescape at a &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;romantic spot in an orchard&lt;/span&gt;  would be ideal, but that's not really what it's all about.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;We've never done much for Valentine's Day, simply because we want to truly focus on loving each other in little ways throughout the year.  So, I never expect a slew of roses and flowers...but it was fun to walk down and have my hubby making my favorite breakfast of French Toast, and to have a few flowers and truffles by each of our places. (my daughter wanted to know why I had the biggest box of truffles.  heehee.)  It's little, but to me, it says "i love you."  He'll have class til late tonight, so he thought ahead and wanted to do something special for us all.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;This past weekend, my hubby took my little girl out to a Daddy Daughter Dance, and I went with my son on a date of our own.  They both are so sweet, and just soak up the time we spend with them.  And, also, ummm...when did they get so big???&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-wLBEg6O8Lk8/Tzpjf0SSV0I/AAAAAAAAEDI/by0Olkj7M3U/s400/IMG_3482.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5708984875907962690" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 293px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I absolutely love this picture of her...it's filled with excitement and glee, childlike joy, and yet ecstatic anticipation.  She knew exactly how she wanted her hair, and couldn't wait to surprise her date with which dress she chose.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;I knew he wouldn't care about dessert or conversation, so I spoke his little love language and we went to CiCi's and then onto Bounce U.  He thought it was better than anything he could have imagined.  I loved how excited he was when he heard where we were going.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;My sweet little man.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Kdp9ce5doJE/Tzpf7TorOpI/AAAAAAAAECs/oG8hzuoigs0/s1600/IMG_3488.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Kdp9ce5doJE/Tzpf7TorOpI/AAAAAAAAECs/oG8hzuoigs0/s400/IMG_3488.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5708980950133324434" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-qG_b1aXkUmQ/Tzpf5o2hDkI/AAAAAAAAECg/txyLUSNsry4/s1600/IMG_3486.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-qG_b1aXkUmQ/Tzpf5o2hDkI/AAAAAAAAECg/txyLUSNsry4/s400/IMG_3486.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5708980921468784194" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;So, even though tonight I won't probably won't sit at a table like my "sweetheart" table, I'll pull out a few picnic blankets, and have a fun dessert to surprise my sweetie with when he gets home...and maybe get caught up on &lt;a href="http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/masterpiece/downtonabbey/"&gt;Downton Abbey&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;Here's to hoping your day is filled to the brim with sweetness and love...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;and all the mushy stuff, too.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-2Pz7YpBFJT4/Tzpf4MXd88I/AAAAAAAAECU/ww6CdDE1i9M/s1600/IMG_3482.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-4706410574227692455?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/4706410574227692455/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/02/little-loves.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/4706410574227692455'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/4706410574227692455'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/02/little-loves.html' title='little loves'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-XHBarzQRCb0/Tzpi5yoKbSI/AAAAAAAAEC8/cOKeBX9ssGs/s72-c/0069_Timberlake.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-825257595350446003</id><published>2012-02-09T08:00:00.009-05:00</published><updated>2012-02-09T08:43:49.302-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='DIY'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ideas'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tips'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='design'/><title type='text'>10 min. LOVELY home makeover</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-6NZZFlgoeIg/TzPNJkmTQYI/AAAAAAAAECI/VXykqewUAag/s1600/photo-10.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-e5qD-OPNTZ8/TzPLtFNwSOI/AAAAAAAAEB8/5KDFJvEAZVQ/s1600/photo-6.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 299px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-e5qD-OPNTZ8/TzPLtFNwSOI/AAAAAAAAEB8/5KDFJvEAZVQ/s400/photo-6.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5707129128162969826" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-d__ecdHTznU/TzPJ_v4BbFI/AAAAAAAAEBw/XNgQj9EZ2hw/s1600/photo-1.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-NMn1leS5agU/TzPGnIKKb9I/AAAAAAAAEAI/6Phsva8GniM/s1600/IMG_2188.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Who says holiday decorations have to be what you see at the drug store hanging up that cost too much money and are plastic, tinseled, and tacky.  (did i say that out loud?)   Why not use things that you already have, and just think of them in a new way.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;If you haven't found this out about me yet, I'll go ahead and spill the beans...I like projects that are inexpensive and easy to do.  This applies to cooking...cleaning...decorating...gift wrapping...and on and on. So, yesterday I had the urge to bring in a few Valentine's day pretties, without the fuss.  It took a few minutes to shop the house, but with using the base decor that is already here, I added a few things that I &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;simply love.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Here are my 10 minute makeovers for &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;{lovely}&lt;/span&gt; home decor.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;At Christmas time, my living room sitting table centerpiece was filled with evergreens leftover from the tree trimmings.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-NMn1leS5agU/TzPGnIKKb9I/AAAAAAAAEAI/6Phsva8GniM/s400/IMG_2188.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5707123528315858898" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;I took the evergreens outside, and replaced with my big red candlestick and some fresh greenery.  I'm not a huge pink person, so my V-day color is primarily red. (because that's what I have more of!)  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-G45_SP8tj0o/TzPGoAxtWoI/AAAAAAAAEAU/XkD9cKCUmZc/s400/photo-8.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5707123543514110594" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-4O32Dh2XLqI/TzPGp4I6rAI/AAAAAAAAEAg/3bygDlORS5w/s400/photo-4.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5707123575555271682" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;I love mixing the sullied silver with the texture of the wood and paper flowers.  Even though this centerpiece is a little more understated, it has a naturally romantic look that I &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;love&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;While I'm spilling the beans, I guess I should also tell you that I'm &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;not a big heart fan&lt;/span&gt;. (gasp). But, the kids of course love decorating with hearts this time of year.  So, I found a way to incorporate them, without having them take up the entire house.  Their little hearts can be strung around the house in ways that are celebrating their artwork, without giving me twitches from all the hearts.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Y_GeJqLqwJ4/TzPGt-4vWOI/AAAAAAAAEA4/aEgMG79cUrU/s400/photo-9.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5707123646085945570" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;In another corner of our home, I have this old drop leaf table that I've turned into a desk(ish) of sorts. It's a quiet little reading corner, and I love all the books that came out of my hubby's grandparents home.  So, with a few books about love, and a pretty sign my sweetie made me, now I feel like it's spruced up for the season.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-d__ecdHTznU/TzPJ_v4BbFI/AAAAAAAAEBw/XNgQj9EZ2hw/s1600/photo-1.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-d__ecdHTznU/TzPJ_v4BbFI/AAAAAAAAEBw/XNgQj9EZ2hw/s400/photo-1.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5707127249828932690" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-yZzKl3U3dUk/TzPJ_Ci0GtI/AAAAAAAAEBk/tS6Gxg2efDw/s1600/photo-3.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-yZzKl3U3dUk/TzPJ_Ci0GtI/AAAAAAAAEBk/tS6Gxg2efDw/s400/photo-3.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5707127237660383954" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-27lOMV-TNrY/TzPJ-YqIwMI/AAAAAAAAEBc/34heELh0_qU/s1600/photo-2.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-27lOMV-TNrY/TzPJ-YqIwMI/AAAAAAAAEBc/34heELh0_qU/s400/photo-2.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5707127226416808130" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;My bunting from a former wedding was perfect to hang in our kitchen doorway. I like it so much, I might just leave it there for good!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Y_GeJqLqwJ4/TzPGt-4vWOI/AAAAAAAAEA4/aEgMG79cUrU/s1600/photo-9.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-w5_rIidFTsg/TzPGrn-9s8I/AAAAAAAAEAw/IncdhPgC21A/s1600/photo-6.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-w5_rIidFTsg/TzPGrn-9s8I/AAAAAAAAEAw/IncdhPgC21A/s400/photo-6.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5707123605578298306" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-4O32Dh2XLqI/TzPGp4I6rAI/AAAAAAAAEAg/3bygDlORS5w/s1600/photo-4.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;Buntings are more involved, I know...but a really fun way to make them with the kids is to do them with scrapbook paper.  You can cut out the triangles from pieces of paper you have, staple them over a piece of twine or string, and hang them up to create a beautiful doorway design for any season!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;If you have chalkboards, change out your quotes or scriptures to focus more on love.  That's something I need to be reminded of no matter what the season is!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-6NZZFlgoeIg/TzPNJkmTQYI/AAAAAAAAECI/VXykqewUAag/s400/photo-10.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5707130717135389058" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;What do you have at home that celebrates this season?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-G45_SP8tj0o/TzPGoAxtWoI/AAAAAAAAEAU/XkD9cKCUmZc/s1600/photo-8.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-825257595350446003?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/825257595350446003/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/02/10-min-lovely-home-makeover.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/825257595350446003'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/825257595350446003'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/02/10-min-lovely-home-makeover.html' title='10 min. LOVELY home makeover'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-e5qD-OPNTZ8/TzPLtFNwSOI/AAAAAAAAEB8/5KDFJvEAZVQ/s72-c/photo-6.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-8348099111071508845</id><published>2012-02-03T06:00:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2012-02-03T06:00:09.723-05:00</updated><title type='text'>thrift{y}</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-YLp65TkwocI/TytKKWnlaiI/AAAAAAAAD_I/ILxhEK84v4M/s1600/vintage-wedding-ideas-07.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 265px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-YLp65TkwocI/TytKKWnlaiI/AAAAAAAAD_I/ILxhEK84v4M/s400/vintage-wedding-ideas-07.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5704734894725622306" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I'm styling events and weddings, I get asked a lot, "Where do you find all your stuff for your events?!"&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The off the cuff answer is usually a quick one..."Anywhere and everywhere!"&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And that's the truth...but the longer answer dates back to my love of &lt;a href="http://melissaroddey.blogspot.com/2008/04/yard-saleing-101.html"&gt;yard saling&lt;/a&gt;.  You may not know or remember this love of mine, and with how busy I have been over the last few years, I haven't had as much time to go.  But for years, it was largely how I came to buy anything at all. And it's amazing the things that I found that we needed, from clothes and shoes that were perfect sizes for the kids, to pots and pans that I had prayed for.  I'm so not kidding.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-v6dMWb8p_Pk/TytKK5kmWvI/AAAAAAAAD_g/IkDroCKw4tg/s1600/vintage-wedding-ideas-11.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-v6dMWb8p_Pk/TytKK5kmWvI/AAAAAAAAD_g/IkDroCKw4tg/s400/vintage-wedding-ideas-11.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5704734904108342002" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 298px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Getting married young, still being in school, and having to make one income be enough to support a family of four is not easy. Not that I would change any of it! It just meant that I learned how to do things on the cheap.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;We got furniture from my Grandparent's attic and repainted it.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I found luxury items like "new" clothes, cute shoes and jewelry at Goodwill and Salvation Army.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I slammed on brakes and did lots of U turns to go back and get furniture off the side of the road.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Here's the secret...&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;it's a great way to live&lt;/span&gt;.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I used to feel disappointed that I couldn't just go to the store and get new things whenever I wanted. But, then I came to see how much I valued reusing, repurposing, and not to mention, saving money.  Now, it's become more of a choice, than a necessity, but I still would so much rather buy a chair with a story, than one that has thousands made in a factory somewhere overseas.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;What has this got to do with saving money when you're planning your wedding?!?  Lots, actually.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-cU0wUHINrw0/TytKLJKR84I/AAAAAAAAD_s/fGvBXGv8aNE/s1600/vintage-wedding-ideas-08.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-cU0wUHINrw0/TytKLJKR84I/AAAAAAAAD_s/fGvBXGv8aNE/s400/vintage-wedding-ideas-08.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5704734908292920194" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 298px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;There are so many things that you can get for your wedding from thrift stores.  If you want a vintage feel, get lots of mix-matched white china for your dishes, instead of renting all of them for twice the price.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Or, see what found objects you can get that create the style to your event that you're looking for.  If you love the &lt;a href="http://www.eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/time-for-everything.html"&gt;vintage picnic idea&lt;/a&gt;, visit your local thrift stores and keep your eyes out for old picnic baskets and blankets.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Dresses. Old dishes. Picture frames. Aprons. Yarn. Serving platters. Glassware. Tablecloths. Vintage linens. Suitcases. Books. Jewelry. Wooden crates.  Buttons. Army trunks...need I go on?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-kklMnDknHRM/TytKKcymq1I/AAAAAAAAD_U/YRT6DrO3p_Y/s1600/vintage-wedding-ideas-14.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-kklMnDknHRM/TytKKcymq1I/AAAAAAAAD_U/YRT6DrO3p_Y/s400/vintage-wedding-ideas-14.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5704734896382454610" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;There's a lot of treasure out there, folks...and it's ours for the takin'!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;What others are saying... &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;(here are a couple links to great articles about this!)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Offbeat Bride had a great article about it &lt;a href="http://offbeatbride.com/2009/04/wedding-flatware"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;: here's the start of it...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; color: rgb(35, 38, 26); line-height: 24px; "&gt;&lt;p style="background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: transparent; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; font-size: 16px; margin-top: 0.8em; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; max-width: 610px !important; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; "&gt;"I just want to say that I am having an absolute blast finding awesome, unique, and totally, insanely cheap dishes and silverware for our wedding.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="background-image: initial; background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: transparent; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; font-size: 16px; margin-top: 0.8em; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; max-width: 610px !important; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; "&gt;Last weekend I went to a thrift store and got 40 pieces of silverware (in good condition), 10 wine glasses, and about 5 coffee cups (all attractive, in very good shape) for freaking FOUR DOLLARS AND SEVENTY-FIVE CENTS. I actually cackled on the way back to my car." &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://simplemom.net/"&gt;Simple Mom&lt;/a&gt; reposted her &lt;a href="http://simplemom.net/12-tips-for-thrift-store-shopping/"&gt;thrifting tips&lt;/a&gt; the other week and I loved all she had to say about it.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And, I've found over the years, the more you thrift, the more you'll find.  Don't give up if you just don't see something one time...who knows what will be there the next week!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;http://greenweddingshoes.com/rustic-vintage-wedding-ideas/&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-8348099111071508845?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/8348099111071508845/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/02/thrifty.html#comment-form' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/8348099111071508845'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/8348099111071508845'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/02/thrifty.html' title='thrift{y}'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-YLp65TkwocI/TytKKWnlaiI/AAAAAAAAD_I/ILxhEK84v4M/s72-c/vintage-wedding-ideas-07.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-337530286251967936</id><published>2012-01-31T06:00:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-31T06:00:10.051-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weddings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tips'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='design'/><title type='text'>Roaring 20's Wedding</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ZEbLfZe_4wk/TydiC8Qq_iI/AAAAAAAAD9M/u6TQ4ENl-GY/s1600/409522_10150551606453433_631608432_8887496_1036364266_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ZEbLfZe_4wk/TydiC8Qq_iI/AAAAAAAAD9M/u6TQ4ENl-GY/s400/409522_10150551606453433_631608432_8887496_1036364266_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703635255763336738" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 267px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I knew this wedding would be fabulous from the moment I started working with the bride to be. The bride and groom decided to go the &lt;a href="http://www.eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/go-big-or-go-home.html"&gt;more intimate wedding&lt;/a&gt; route, choosing a roaring 20's theme! Though this wedding was on a smaller budget, it was not lacking in style!  This fun crowd had a blast &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;dressing in 20's fashion&lt;/span&gt;, and partying the night away.  The wedding was held at the bride's sister's house, which was a perfect fit, being an early twentieth century home.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-KQ_HcfZbz9A/Tydkamp-RXI/AAAAAAAAD-4/bbyilNrAO0Y/s400/407740_10150550020118433_631608432_8880436_2130599601_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703637861303993714" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: none; "&gt;We used the foyer to accommodate the guest book area, &lt;/span&gt;along with many vintage furniture accents to create the 20's feel from the moment you walked through the door.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: none; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-FVF8E9o-N_s/TydhP7hJFUI/AAAAAAAAD8Q/Og9dAlwsueY/s400/401357_10150551604613433_631608432_8887474_1080292539_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703634379390653762" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 287px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BQZGwdEYBz8/TydkaFusLAI/AAAAAAAAD-g/O5o9jH5RYCM/s1600/401544_3165215009239_1231301823_33349229_1727179334_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-m6Z8OMUqywE/TydhPrfkWsI/AAAAAAAAD8E/Q3AXO17usqA/s400/396064_10150551604963433_631608432_8887477_84615864_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703634375089085122" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 267px; " /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BQZGwdEYBz8/TydkaFusLAI/AAAAAAAAD-g/O5o9jH5RYCM/s1600/401544_3165215009239_1231301823_33349229_1727179334_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BQZGwdEYBz8/TydkaFusLAI/AAAAAAAAD-g/O5o9jH5RYCM/s1600/401544_3165215009239_1231301823_33349229_1727179334_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: none; "&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BQZGwdEYBz8/TydkaFusLAI/AAAAAAAAD-g/O5o9jH5RYCM/s1600/401544_3165215009239_1231301823_33349229_1727179334_n.jpg" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); " onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: none; "&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-2t9IoWWh3XU/TydhQO4AD-I/AAAAAAAAD8c/4ugnQFFXHWY/s1600/395679_10150551604913433_631608432_8887476_1691384600_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-2t9IoWWh3XU/TydhQO4AD-I/AAAAAAAAD8c/4ugnQFFXHWY/s400/395679_10150551604913433_631608432_8887476_1691384600_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703634384586805218" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 267px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BQZGwdEYBz8/TydkaFusLAI/AAAAAAAAD-g/O5o9jH5RYCM/s1600/401544_3165215009239_1231301823_33349229_1727179334_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;The tables were adorned with oil lamps and arrangements of peacock feathers and art deco accents. They added a bit of the Speak Easy Tavern feel to the reception time.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 267px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-YNKu2gZ8Uj4/TydiY2P8q1I/AAAAAAAAD-U/r93-IbJLQc0/s400/404769_10150551601618433_631608432_8887444_1296607921_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703635632106810194" /&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-y0lL_BBEkIQ/TydkaVpnFZI/AAAAAAAAD-o/MtVnRqh8oVM/s400/402155_10150551606513433_631608432_8887497_547176340_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703637856739071378" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 267px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;The bride carefully chose her gown, shoes, and jewelry to &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;all reflect her style as well as the period she was representing. She completed the outfit with bright red lipstick and a 20's styled hairdo. It was brilliant.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-hNRrNZGqNj0/TydiYS1KsdI/AAAAAAAAD-M/NXuqf1hc88Y/s1600/402652_10150551607633433_631608432_8887514_640942096_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 318px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-hNRrNZGqNj0/TydiYS1KsdI/AAAAAAAAD-M/NXuqf1hc88Y/s400/402652_10150551607633433_631608432_8887514_640942096_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703635622599242194" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-o5GvvJHgvpY/TydiYP8et-I/AAAAAAAAD98/UPkIsrtYX3E/s1600/394861_10150551604353433_631608432_8887469_1912690740_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-o5GvvJHgvpY/TydiYP8et-I/AAAAAAAAD98/UPkIsrtYX3E/s400/394861_10150551604353433_631608432_8887469_1912690740_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703635621824608226" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;I designed an old time Candy Store using period sweets on a sideboard.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-6meN_7QrZnE/TydiEUIbYPI/AAAAAAAAD9w/FURcwlRChQw/s1600/405933_10150551601203433_631608432_8887438_1898042372_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 345px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-6meN_7QrZnE/TydiEUIbYPI/AAAAAAAAD9w/FURcwlRChQw/s400/405933_10150551601203433_631608432_8887438_1898042372_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703635279351079154" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Fvqwzgv4sF0/TydhRG4bJMI/AAAAAAAAD80/Q9sbR126KbU/s400/396137_10150551601398433_631608432_8887440_859524508_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703634399620965570" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 254px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;Guests had been asked to come dressed in 20's style, but for anyone who needed a few more touches to their outfits (or just for the kids to play dress up) we had a few extra accessories on hand.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-RsnD-VqFe_s/TydiD9ayA5I/AAAAAAAAD9k/3xkZyFSrxiM/s1600/406891_10150551607863433_631608432_8887518_954660446_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-RsnD-VqFe_s/TydiD9ayA5I/AAAAAAAAD9k/3xkZyFSrxiM/s400/406891_10150551607863433_631608432_8887518_954660446_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703635273254044562" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;We used silver painted sticks to create an altar area for the bride and groom. We lighted the sticks and hung crystals to give a more enchanted effect.  And, of course, being the 20's, the peacock feathers couldn't be left out! &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Bt7f5RercCI/TydiDiMiebI/AAAAAAAAD9Y/BcuTJjYsHyE/s1600/394106_10150551602248433_631608432_8887456_359272934_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 267px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Bt7f5RercCI/TydiDiMiebI/AAAAAAAAD9Y/BcuTJjYsHyE/s400/394106_10150551602248433_631608432_8887456_359272934_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703635265946548658" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-MyufplapRno/TydhQvNGPjI/AAAAAAAAD8s/6ncbCvT6OUA/s400/407999_10150551602348433_631608432_8887457_306167666_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703634393265225266" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 267px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;It was so fun to see how everyone participated in the theme of the wedding and truly had a blast celebrating...20's style!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Fvqwzgv4sF0/TydhRG4bJMI/AAAAAAAAD80/Q9sbR126KbU/s1600/396137_10150551601398433_631608432_8887440_859524508_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BQZGwdEYBz8/TydkaFusLAI/AAAAAAAAD-g/O5o9jH5RYCM/s400/401544_3165215009239_1231301823_33349229_1727179334_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703637852465409026" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;Special thanks to &lt;a href="http://www.reddinteriors.com/"&gt;Laura Redd&lt;/a&gt; for helping me make this event one to remember!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-337530286251967936?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/337530286251967936/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/roaring-20s-wedding.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/337530286251967936'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/337530286251967936'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/roaring-20s-wedding.html' title='Roaring 20&apos;s Wedding'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ZEbLfZe_4wk/TydiC8Qq_iI/AAAAAAAAD9M/u6TQ4ENl-GY/s72-c/409522_10150551606453433_631608432_8887496_1036364266_n.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-5480157156574885532</id><published>2012-01-30T05:59:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-30T05:59:00.445-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weddings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tips'/><title type='text'>Go Big or Go Home?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-6joWG3xl7F8/TyWjM_QfK_I/AAAAAAAAD7g/kcv8nIEnzWE/s1600/diy-paper-wedding-ideas.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 394px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-6joWG3xl7F8/TyWjM_QfK_I/AAAAAAAAD7g/kcv8nIEnzWE/s400/diy-paper-wedding-ideas.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703143946668944370" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Most of the time when you think of weddings, you might think the best way to go is...well, big. What's ironic though, is that many times when I ask people what they would have done differently in regards to their weddings, the answer I hear the most is that they would have made it &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;smaller&lt;/span&gt;. More &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;intimate&lt;/span&gt;. More &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;intentional&lt;/span&gt; with fewer people.&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;This is also a way to cut costs tremendously.  If you are in a place of needing to keep things economical, the best way to keep expenses down is to decrease the number of guests.  I realize it can be a tricky thing, because many times, families are so big, and friends are so numerous, there's no way to figure out how to lessen your head count.  However, if it means being able to go ahead and tie the knot, it might be best to find a way to have fewer people, in a more quaint venue.&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt; instead of going big, consider going home.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 16px; "&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/--0p5NR4KFxo/TyWjNClHppI/AAAAAAAAD7s/gRo0LHOj0UY/s1600/diy-wedding-centerpieces.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/--0p5NR4KFxo/TyWjNClHppI/AAAAAAAAD7s/gRo0LHOj0UY/s400/diy-wedding-centerpieces.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703143947560789650" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 394px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Some of the sweetest weddings I've had the pleasure of being a part of were held in homes. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style=" ;font-size:medium;"&gt;A home allows for an intimate setting and very comfortable atmosphere for the guests.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style=" ;font-size:medium;"&gt;  Sometimes at a bed and breakfast, or other times at a home large enough to have 50 or so guests enjoying being together.  Just like at most receptions, you don't need seating for everyone. People like to mingle and stand with small plates of appetizers.  If the weather is nice, garden weddings are completely enchanting. Instead of paying the pretty penny for a big name venue, begin to see the possibility of having an exquisite venue in your own backyard.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Sometimes going big isn't possible...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;going home always is.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238);  -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; font-size:16px;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238);  -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; font-size:16px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-STnugEeY0dM/TyWjNu-tUwI/AAAAAAAAD74/ZDtsBmcAJHw/s400/diy-paper-wedding-decorations.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5703143959479276290" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 297px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium; "&gt;Come back tomorrow to hear about my most recent boutique wedding done in a 1920's home. It might just encourage you that it can be done!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:85%;"&gt;picture credits: http://www.oncewed.com/32639/wedding-blog/real-weddings/a-diy-wedding-at-home-ii/&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-5480157156574885532?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/5480157156574885532/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/go-big-or-go-home.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/5480157156574885532'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/5480157156574885532'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/go-big-or-go-home.html' title='Go Big or Go Home?'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-6joWG3xl7F8/TyWjM_QfK_I/AAAAAAAAD7g/kcv8nIEnzWE/s72-c/diy-paper-wedding-ideas.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-3893877289902500727</id><published>2012-01-24T06:00:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-24T06:00:06.747-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weddings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ideas'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tips'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='design'/><title type='text'>a time for everything</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 313px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Qf9oLHn9fmE/Tx4Z-fLp7RI/AAAAAAAAD50/H5_Kb47s274/s400/tea-party-sandwiches-rep0507-de.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5701022739610594578" /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-1lpMKTOM-qc/Tx4Z93PserI/AAAAAAAAD5s/CXMRLuq95fg/s1600/Jen-Alton-Photography.02.Gracie-Lou-Events-Photo-shoot.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div&gt;One of the first decisions that you make when planning your wedding is the &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;time&lt;/span&gt; and date. If you're trying to cut corners, one thing to think about is what time you will set for your wedding. If you set your wedding to be at 5pm, that means that you will have your reception right at dinner time...which also means you will be suggesting that you will be serving dinner.  &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Meal times = lots of food.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I have a sweet couple that I'm working with right now, and they are trying to keep things as simple as possible...in every way.  So, one thing they decided was that they would have their wedding after lunch, but before dinner, so that they wouldn't have to feed their guests an entire meal.  They'll still have a few little things that are easy to pick up and eat while mingling, but they won't have to spend a ton to feed everyone a meal.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The food for the reception can sometimes use up to half of your wedding budget! Think outside of the box...if you know that you need to cut back, think about ways that you could schedule the reception to be at a time that you could get away with not feeding everyone quite so much food.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Remember, selective menu does not mean that it will be dull.  Check out these beautiful, but simple receptions...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;vintage picnic wedding&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;(one o'clock ~ three o'clock)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-EvvRKkiqjXw/Tx4uSuhOLvI/AAAAAAAAD7Y/TkwzSqbc0kM/s1600/vintage%2Bpicnic%2Binspiration.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-EvvRKkiqjXw/Tx4uSuhOLvI/AAAAAAAAD7Y/TkwzSqbc0kM/s400/vintage%2Bpicnic%2Binspiration.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5701045077557522162" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 320px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/--ZsEtFYsoj4/Tx4uR_13ZhI/AAAAAAAAD68/yPCel7qvLR4/s1600/vintagediywedding2.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/--ZsEtFYsoj4/Tx4uR_13ZhI/AAAAAAAAD68/yPCel7qvLR4/s400/vintagediywedding2.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5701045065027642898" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 260px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;(quilts for ceremony and reception seating)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-8ftU_Ye4nHM/Tx4uSEYsdbI/AAAAAAAAD7I/MJ8aQ354z2M/s1600/vintagediywedding.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-8ftU_Ye4nHM/Tx4uSEYsdbI/AAAAAAAAD7I/MJ8aQ354z2M/s400/vintagediywedding.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5701045066247468466" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 274px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/--ZsEtFYsoj4/Tx4uR_13ZhI/AAAAAAAAD68/yPCel7qvLR4/s1600/vintagediywedding2.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;high tea reception&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;(two o'clock ~ five o'clock)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-1lpMKTOM-qc/Tx4Z93PserI/AAAAAAAAD5s/CXMRLuq95fg/s1600/Jen-Alton-Photography.02.Gracie-Lou-Events-Photo-shoot.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-1lpMKTOM-qc/Tx4Z93PserI/AAAAAAAAD5s/CXMRLuq95fg/s400/Jen-Alton-Photography.02.Gracie-Lou-Events-Photo-shoot.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5701022728890120882" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 266px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Pdt8r0cbOcM/Tx4a_tRdwyI/AAAAAAAAD6Y/1LuwPslu9N4/s400/Jamie-R.-Doyle-Photography.01.Gracie-Lou-Events-Photo-Shoot.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5701023860084556578" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 267px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"   style="font-size:130%;color:#663300;"&gt;fun storyboard with this example&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-uhXbYf2sBNI/Tx4Z8XrsUkI/AAAAAAAAD5c/atNaKSW0pIM/s1600/afternoon-tea-wedding-reception-mood-board.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-uhXbYf2sBNI/Tx4Z8XrsUkI/AAAAAAAAD5c/atNaKSW0pIM/s400/afternoon-tea-wedding-reception-mood-board.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5701022703237747266" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 283px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;dessert reception&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;(eight o'clock ~ eleven o'clock)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238);  -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; font-size:16px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-StZrCewnCKA/Tx4cj8fGaSI/AAAAAAAAD6k/NsOGGUjh-O8/s400/dessert_r2.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5701025582155196706" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 267px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-vvAhQ_Vm2OQ/Tx4Z_L6PCKI/AAAAAAAAD6M/Weu1_aQS7FA/s1600/dessert.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-vvAhQ_Vm2OQ/Tx4Z_L6PCKI/AAAAAAAAD6M/Weu1_aQS7FA/s400/dessert.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5701022751617124514" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 273px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-XkIWxCePVGQ/Tx4uR_AqPKI/AAAAAAAAD6w/Z8zMmDohKs0/s400/patisserie-teatime-vintage-bridalshower-10.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5701045064804482210" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 267px; height: 400px; color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; " /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;There are ways to be economic and creative while entertaining your family and friends. Whether or not you have dinner, you can still have a fabulous affair!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:85%;"&gt;picture credits: http://theweddingcommunityblog.com/2011/10/17/afternoon-tea-wedding-reception-moody-monday/, http://stylishperfection.com/?p=519, http://www.elizabethannedesigns.com/blog/2008/09/26/reader-question-dessert-reception/, http://www.brides.com/wedding-ideas/wedding-meals-drinks/2010/09/alternative-wedding-reception-ideas-dessert-receptions, http://www.mywedding.com/blog/nggallery/page-6055/image/11281/page-1/, http://bluelilyevents.blogspot.com/2011/05/vintage-picnic-wedding-inspiration.html&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-3893877289902500727?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/3893877289902500727/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/time-for-everything.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/3893877289902500727'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/3893877289902500727'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/time-for-everything.html' title='a time for everything'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Qf9oLHn9fmE/Tx4Z-fLp7RI/AAAAAAAAD50/H5_Kb47s274/s72-c/tea-party-sandwiches-rep0507-de.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-6882732548646626532</id><published>2012-01-21T09:39:00.008-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-21T10:57:49.079-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weddings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tips'/><title type='text'>The Choice is Yours...</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-cQ6fNHm8VYs/TxrgI9GGDOI/AAAAAAAAD3w/K4VecARkDWE/s1600/1927x300sweders.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ki6xLx4AGlQ/TxrcJGZZVfI/AAAAAAAAD3k/e3TB7OUV2YA/s1600/jean-fred%2Bwedding%2B14.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-RMfCRejQ8M4/TxrcIy29UNI/AAAAAAAAD3Y/JqyLNnqXeQw/s1600/jean-fred%2Bwedding%2B13.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 286px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-RMfCRejQ8M4/TxrcIy29UNI/AAAAAAAAD3Y/JqyLNnqXeQw/s400/jean-fred%2Bwedding%2B13.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5700110322040131794" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You might remember back when weddings were just something done at church on Saturday afternoons...with nuts and mints...and if you were being really extravagant...a cake.  What was celebrated wasn't the wedding...it was the marriage.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;We've come a  long way since then.  Yes, weddings are more personable than ever, and are able to be designed to fit exactly who the couple is, but many times that means &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;more expensive than ever.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The question of doing it on a dime seems like a lost phrase when it comes to weddings. However, even though they have become wonderful celebrations filled with personality and glamour, there are still ways to save.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Just because you can do more than ever these days, doesn't mean you have to.  &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;It will still be beautiful...and it will still be your wedding.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I think sometimes, the biggest hump to get over is feeling this obligation to please the people coming to your wedding.  I hear all the time people say,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;"But, will it be nice enough?"&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Not to rant, but if people are coming to your wedding to judge whether or not it's nice enough, they probably shouldn't be there to begin with.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ki6xLx4AGlQ/TxrcJGZZVfI/AAAAAAAAD3k/e3TB7OUV2YA/s400/jean-fred%2Bwedding%2B14.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5700110327284848114" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 288px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The permission to cut back, is yours to take hold of, and more worthwhile than you might realize. At the end of the day, you will be married...and you don't want to start your marriage with thousands of dollars in debt just because you wanted to show your friends a good time.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Hear me clearly, I'm not saying to just forget about hiring professionals.  I'm saying, &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;choose wisely&lt;/span&gt; where you put your money.  I still stand behind my principles to have people who know what they're doing be in charge of your day. Even the most economical weddings that I have done, have had families that say over and over again, how thankful they are to have someone else in charge of the details of the day. That's a must. You still want good photos to capture the day, and you still want to love the celebration...but this doesn't mean you have to spend your life savings to make that happen.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-cQ6fNHm8VYs/TxrgI9GGDOI/AAAAAAAAD3w/K4VecARkDWE/s400/1927x300sweders.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5700114722834484450" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 281px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Choosing the things that are &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;most important to you&lt;/span&gt; are key with knowing where to save.  If you want to skimp on flowers because they're not that important to you, that's ok.  Or, if you absolutely love photography, and you want to spend a bigger part of your budget on that, you can choose to do so. Spend time thinking about the things you care most about, and prioritize those things within your budget.  That way, you will know how to proceed with other decisions.  The choice is yours...just remember to choose wisely.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:78%;"&gt;picture credit: http://aweddingrunsthroughit.blogspot.com/2010/03/old-timey-tuesday-recessional-and.html , http://www.fashion-era.com/Weddings/1927-old-wedding-photos.htm&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-6882732548646626532?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/6882732548646626532/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/choice-is-yours.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6882732548646626532'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6882732548646626532'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/choice-is-yours.html' title='The Choice is Yours...'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-RMfCRejQ8M4/TxrcIy29UNI/AAAAAAAAD3Y/JqyLNnqXeQw/s72-c/jean-fred%2Bwedding%2B13.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-1449223019658861676</id><published>2012-01-19T08:05:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-19T08:26:33.925-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weddings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tips'/><title type='text'>No Money to Get Married...</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-MSJgvMBgrdw/TxgZlFxNCJI/AAAAAAAAD3M/k0VCmpmfCEY/s1600/SDWedd_120509_109.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 267px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-MSJgvMBgrdw/TxgZlFxNCJI/AAAAAAAAD3M/k0VCmpmfCEY/s400/SDWedd_120509_109.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5699333453431769234" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Lots of times I'll meet women who are engaged...but are still in waiting.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;By "in waiting" I mean, they &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;don't have the money to get married&lt;/span&gt;.  It's a tricky thing.  You're in love, you desperately want to get married, but you don't have the money to make it happen.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;You might think since I'm a wedding planner, I always have clients who have plenty of money to throw together a fancy wedding...you couldn't be more wrong.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Most of my clients are trying to do things economically...and some really have to be creative to find ways to pull together their weddings on little to nothing.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Is this ringing a bell? (no pun intended!)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;There are lots of&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt; ways to save&lt;/span&gt; when you are&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt; planning your wedding&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;One thing I love about working with clients is that you have to get real.  I'm a real kind of girl...I love being able to encourage the fun details and pull out ideas that will represent my couples, but I also challenge my clients to stay within the parameters of their budget...which is where creativity comes in!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Over the next couple posts, I'm excited to share with you a few &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;real weddings&lt;/span&gt; that have been beautiful, simple, and affordable!  There are still ways to hear those wedding bells ring...even when you have little budget to work with!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-1449223019658861676?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/1449223019658861676/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/no-money-to-get-married.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/1449223019658861676'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/1449223019658861676'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/no-money-to-get-married.html' title='No Money to Get Married...'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-MSJgvMBgrdw/TxgZlFxNCJI/AAAAAAAAD3M/k0VCmpmfCEY/s72-c/SDWedd_120509_109.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-1955400683637460073</id><published>2012-01-16T06:00:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-21T09:38:11.382-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='birthdays'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='DIY'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='design'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parties'/><title type='text'>(The After) Birthday Brunch</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-hpaK54h6w70/TxOCav-yctI/AAAAAAAAD24/kYIAcN5yeVM/s1600/IMG_3090.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-vKiZKlPpDDE/TxN_O4okFwI/AAAAAAAAD1M/jL67YX_SFN4/s400/IMG_3123.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5698037847251228418" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-vKiZKlPpDDE/TxN_O4okFwI/AAAAAAAAD1M/jL67YX_SFN4/s1600/IMG_3123.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Turning 30 may not always feel like something to look forward to.  It brings with it the feelings of losing youthfulness, becoming more "mature", and truly being an adult.  However, even though the world and culture around us tells us to fight our age... to "defy" age, there's nothing like embracing the milestone with a good ol' party.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;When &lt;a href="http://www.everydayrecorded.com/"&gt;Alisa&lt;/a&gt; and I first met and talked about her vision, I was thrilled to see all the creative ideas she had.  I knew that this party would be one that I would absolutely love to design.  What's not to love about &lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/alisawindsor/30/"&gt;food on sticks and flowers in tea cups&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;As any event I design, I have a plan of how I want everything to look beforehand, but pulling it all together and seeing it come together, is always my favorite part.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;This is a list of the must haves...something I always like to have when I'm planning.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-rEthJV7cN78/TxN_Ri2O0jI/AAAAAAAAD18/gJ9L94nDPaU/s400/IMG_3139.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5698037892942582322" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;This is how it all came together...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-UULo7bJmjDQ/TxN_QcP9kCI/AAAAAAAAD1k/3lyuACvOyWk/s400/IMG_3095.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5698037873991585826" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-slE93Zm_LNA/TxN_QoQaB4I/AAAAAAAAD10/SnEcKkLpAq0/s400/IMG_3096.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5698037877214676866" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-bPUo3v6z-Tg/TxN_PfFwv_I/AAAAAAAAD1c/_f36ve0NCzY/s400/IMG_3092.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5698037857574240242" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-hpaK54h6w70/TxOCav-yctI/AAAAAAAAD24/kYIAcN5yeVM/s1600/IMG_3090.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-hpaK54h6w70/TxOCav-yctI/AAAAAAAAD24/kYIAcN5yeVM/s400/IMG_3090.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5698041349621838546" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 394px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Tn08mgdhTaM/TxOCZgPEAeI/AAAAAAAAD2w/Yb46xipd3NM/s1600/IMG_3100.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Tn08mgdhTaM/TxOCZgPEAeI/AAAAAAAAD2w/Yb46xipd3NM/s400/IMG_3100.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5698041328215261666" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Vz19SN5gWLc/TxOCZfkbRyI/AAAAAAAAD2g/OENYuDO7FjQ/s1600/IMG_3105.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Vz19SN5gWLc/TxOCZfkbRyI/AAAAAAAAD2g/OENYuDO7FjQ/s400/IMG_3105.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5698041328036431650" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-AoN1egBrV7A/TxOCYav3TlI/AAAAAAAAD2Y/6JlDgc4NKjg/s1600/IMG_3098.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-AoN1egBrV7A/TxOCYav3TlI/AAAAAAAAD2Y/6JlDgc4NKjg/s400/IMG_3098.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5698041309562359378" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-9OYu1cHmM24/TxOCX7IUjjI/AAAAAAAAD2I/JEHhV7Woufc/s1600/IMG_3086.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-9OYu1cHmM24/TxOCX7IUjjI/AAAAAAAAD2I/JEHhV7Woufc/s400/IMG_3086.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5698041301075004978" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; color:#663300;"&gt;It was so much fun, and everything turned out fabulous! And with all the details taken care of, Alisa could truly, "keep calm and turn 30."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; color:#663300;"&gt;Linking up with &lt;a href="http://studiojru.com/blog/"&gt;In the Studio&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-1955400683637460073?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/1955400683637460073/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/after-birthday-brunch.html#comment-form' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/1955400683637460073'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/1955400683637460073'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/after-birthday-brunch.html' title='(The After) Birthday Brunch'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-vKiZKlPpDDE/TxN_O4okFwI/AAAAAAAAD1M/jL67YX_SFN4/s72-c/IMG_3123.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-5009227214840188508</id><published>2012-01-13T06:00:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-13T07:23:54.656-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='birthdays'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parties'/><title type='text'>Before and After 30th Birthday</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-shvmhhNT9O4/TwPLfRNDJjI/AAAAAAAADvg/Hei0_j2UYw4/s1600/Dahlias-roses-ENTERT0505-de.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 313px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-shvmhhNT9O4/TwPLfRNDJjI/AAAAAAAADvg/Hei0_j2UYw4/s400/Dahlias-roses-ENTERT0505-de.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5693618091980957234" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;My friend &lt;a href="http://www.everydayrecorded.com/"&gt;Alisa&lt;/a&gt; is turning 30.  The big 3-0.  And no way in the world, she wants to ruin her party by being the one in charge.  She just wants to have fun at her party...a girl after my own heart.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;So, our&lt;a href="http://throughaglass.net/"&gt; sweet friend &lt;/a&gt;has hired me to do &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/www.eventsbydesignnc.com"&gt;what I do&lt;/a&gt;, so that Alisa can love every minute of her &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;amazing party&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;First, let me say, &lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/"&gt;Pinterest&lt;/a&gt; is my friend.  It allows conversations with clients to go like this:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Me: So what are you thinking about for your party? Any ideas yet?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Alisa: Have you seen my &lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/alisawindsor/30/"&gt;pinterest board for my party&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-WI8KAYQnR6s/TwPJyB8XEmI/AAAAAAAADvU/46WhID8F9A8/s400/alisas30.tiff" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5693616215278686818" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 354px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;And, voila, I have a spring board, and they have a plan. It's a &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;beautiful thing&lt;/span&gt;. Of course, we still have meetings to hash out the details, but that's where we start.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I thought it might be fun to do a &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;before and after series&lt;/span&gt; with this party...so now you have the before. Come back Monday to see the after!  I can't wait to show all the fun details we got to put in on this party!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://studiojru.com/blog/"&gt;Linking up with Jen's Sneak Peek today!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-5009227214840188508?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/5009227214840188508/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/before-and-after-30th-birthday.html#comment-form' title='11 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/5009227214840188508'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/5009227214840188508'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/before-and-after-30th-birthday.html' title='Before and After 30th Birthday'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-shvmhhNT9O4/TwPLfRNDJjI/AAAAAAAADvg/Hei0_j2UYw4/s72-c/Dahlias-roses-ENTERT0505-de.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>11</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-5432169061151632155</id><published>2012-01-11T06:00:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-11T06:00:06.122-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tips'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><title type='text'>The Simple Trip</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(102, 51, 0); "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-YDkzp9Biwb8/Tww8rp73sSI/AAAAAAAADy8/YMsAQSMsafw/s1600/IMG_2982.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-YDkzp9Biwb8/Tww8rp73sSI/AAAAAAAADy8/YMsAQSMsafw/s400/IMG_2982.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5695994349405843746" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(102, 51, 0); "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-t7Hjw1Bl_8I/Tww8qi5GJ5I/AAAAAAAADyg/Akv3fkITiBg/s1600/IMG_3007.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Over the holidays, we took a little roadtrip.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Except it wasn't little...one bit.  We drove approximately (or exactly)...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-sONSd97S69M/Tww86jvYgaI/AAAAAAAADzg/p0Y5EMrcn-w/s400/IMG_3014.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5695994605440893346" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;When my big sister and her kids moved down to Baton Rouge, I knew it was far...but I don't think I realized HOW far it really was. It's a long way down, y'all...and I'm already down South! (not to folks down there...I was called a "Northerner" at least once...you know because North Carolina has the word "North" in it, apparently that makes me a Yankee...heehee.)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(102, 51, 0); "&gt;After researching flying prices, and train travel, I realized that we would have to drive it. I was less than thrilled.  All I thought of was fighting, feeling irritated, and grumpiness that might consume our two day venture down there.  But then, I started to remember.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(102, 51, 0); "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;div style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-t7Hjw1Bl_8I/Tww8qi5GJ5I/AAAAAAAADyg/Akv3fkITiBg/s1600/IMG_3007.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-t7Hjw1Bl_8I/Tww8qi5GJ5I/AAAAAAAADyg/Akv3fkITiBg/s400/IMG_3007.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5695994330335291282" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;When I was a little girl, my family took lots of road trips.  We had no DVD players, no iPads, no mp3 players...am I sounding ancient? You might remember a time such as that.  Anyway, w&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(102, 51, 0); "&gt;e lived in California when I was young, and we would drive from San Diego to Virginia, and back, a couple times a year.  Then, we moved to North Carolina, and we would go back to visit Californina, by way of road trip. Or other fun places like the time we drove from North Carolina to Montana. I loved our road trips.  Yes, my sister and I would often have squabbles, or be scolded, but those trips were some of our best family memories.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-gvzbhPrGtHc/Tww8srHzAuI/AAAAAAAADzQ/1RbKiHhuB9U/s1600/IMG_2925.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; color:#663300;" &gt;We knew for our own safety and sanity, we'd have to break it into two days.  We planned our trip by having lots of car activities.  As we traveled I thought how unusual it was to have unplugged life for a little while.  How wholesome it felt to just have an old school road trip.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; color:#663300;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; color:#663300;" &gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-gvzbhPrGtHc/Tww8srHzAuI/AAAAAAAADzQ/1RbKiHhuB9U/s1600/IMG_2925.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-gvzbhPrGtHc/Tww8srHzAuI/AAAAAAAADzQ/1RbKiHhuB9U/s400/IMG_2925.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5695994366904173282" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; color:#663300;" &gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; color:#663300;" &gt;So, I started to make a list. A simple list of all the things that we had with us, or the kids did to stay entertained for 20+ hours in the car.  I thought if any of you have big trips coming up, it might feel encouraging to know that it can be done...and actually is pretty fun.  Instead of dreading it, know that it can become a fun way to spend quality time with your family.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ShlqFDd38mg/Tww-UkWIdGI/AAAAAAAAD0M/uiVqZq0wv7M/s1600/IMG_2528.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-cU6NBJNry5M/Tww-Tfr5e-I/AAAAAAAADz8/8TkMMYzzr3Y/s1600/IMG_2582.JPG" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); " onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#000000;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-RyVugdKeaWo/Tww-S1Ak90I/AAAAAAAADzs/jprSI-4iKd0/s1600/IMG_2552.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-vTeIYcOC8EE/TwzG_HVZC2I/AAAAAAAAD00/FKaTd6rD-q8/s400/IMG_2989.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5696146416319662946" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;div style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-align: center; "&gt;the excitement of little things (like our pit stops) became pretty funny&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-3NwPOzbMXy4/Tww8sKvMsjI/AAAAAAAADzE/KgtDhIxPojc/s1600/IMG_2968.jpg" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); " onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-3NwPOzbMXy4/Tww8sKvMsjI/AAAAAAAADzE/KgtDhIxPojc/s400/IMG_2968.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5695994358211064370" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); "&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-UT7BcP9EDDw/TwzG9dazdVI/AAAAAAAAD0c/pSQwAs33le0/s400/IMG_2944.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5696146387888207186" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-wzeadBZ-j-4/TwzG_u_ReKI/AAAAAAAAD1E/IQvqEt_0PKQ/s400/IMG_2932.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5696146426964310178" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;So, here's &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;the trip list&lt;/span&gt;. It's kid friendly and budget friendly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;1. &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Snack Bags.&lt;/span&gt; Pack kids their own snack bags filled with lots of options.  You have no idea how much time and money this saved.  I got a lot of individually wrapped things (granola bars, pretzels, goldfish, raisins, etc.) so that they could each help themselves as they needed.  Include a water bottle for each kid - NOT juice boxes - unless you want to add about 500 pit stops to let them use the potty.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;2.  &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Spiral Notebooks. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I got the cheap kind from Target.  Grabbed some of our many many crayons, colored pencils, and markers and put a bundle in each kids bag.  They could draw, play games with each other, write down things we saw, etc. Options of a fresh notebook are endless.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;3. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt; Activity / Sticker Books.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;  Our sweet neighbor gave the kids these as a present right before we headed out of town...God bless her!  They helped a lot.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;4.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;  Duck Tape.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;  I mean, who knew!?! We had a blast making bows, rings, key chains, and just ripping it into smaller pieces.  It did help that it was hot pink.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ShlqFDd38mg/Tww-UkWIdGI/AAAAAAAAD0M/uiVqZq0wv7M/s400/IMG_2528.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5695996151791645794" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;5. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt; Bop It.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;  Ok, if you're one of those who can't stand the noisy toys, this might not be fun for you.  BUT, I will say, it made my kids just laugh until their sides hurt.  They would put it on "quiet" mode, and pass it back and forth...sometimes with a parent in the rotation, sometimes just the two of them.  But, it was a fun way to have a little game, but still not anything with lots of pieces to fall everywhere.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;6.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;License Plate Game.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt; We did the old school license plate game, where you try to find all 50 states.  We came up a few shy, but still loved looking and finding ones we could.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-cU6NBJNry5M/Tww-Tfr5e-I/AAAAAAAADz8/8TkMMYzzr3Y/s1600/IMG_2582.JPG" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); " onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(102, 51, 0); "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;7. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt; Lacing Game.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt; A while back we were given lacing cards, and the kids had so much fun for a while working on those. Then, they were silly and put them up in front of their faces. Apparently, I thought it was pretty funny, too.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"   style="font-size:100%;color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"   style="font-size:100%;color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 16px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-cU6NBJNry5M/Tww-Tfr5e-I/AAAAAAAADz8/8TkMMYzzr3Y/s1600/IMG_2582.JPG" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); " onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-cU6NBJNry5M/Tww-Tfr5e-I/AAAAAAAADz8/8TkMMYzzr3Y/s400/IMG_2582.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5695996133360892898" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"   style="font-size:100%;color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;8.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;  Twenty Questions.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;  Kids loved playing this with us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;9.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Books, books, and more books.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;  Kids each had a ton of books in their individual bags, but our favorite was reading aloud Andrew Peterson's &lt;a href="http://andrew-peterson.com/books/"&gt;On the Edge of the Dark Sea of Darkness.&lt;/a&gt;   A tip for the books, though, let the kids pack paperbacks if possible...they can fit more in, and it's not as heavy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;10.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Be Silly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;  This was definitely the best part.  The kids laughed so much together on this trip. They made up characters with ultimate silly names, and then would make up the voices and story lines to go along with them.  It was so cute hearing them cackle in the backseat. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-1pj-RZp25ns/TwzG9rIxmOI/AAAAAAAAD0o/fxy6Z6Y_C3Q/s400/IMG_2559.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5696146391570684130" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;Any great road trip memories to share?  I'd love to hear!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-5432169061151632155?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/5432169061151632155/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/simple-trip.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/5432169061151632155'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/5432169061151632155'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/simple-trip.html' title='The Simple Trip'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-YDkzp9Biwb8/Tww8rp73sSI/AAAAAAAADy8/YMsAQSMsafw/s72-c/IMG_2982.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-4935596989859800141</id><published>2012-01-06T23:55:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-07T10:17:09.515-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><title type='text'>epiphany mine</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-YsygrsMV9dM/TwhgoD-U48I/AAAAAAAADyU/0RtwJf45pmQ/s1600/IMG_3032.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 299px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-YsygrsMV9dM/TwhgoD-U48I/AAAAAAAADyU/0RtwJf45pmQ/s400/IMG_3032.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5694907970187748290" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;They came in early, their faces only lit by the one small candle in the cupcake.  As I woke, I treasured their excitement to celebrate.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;I read my homemade cards and reveled at their sincere heart of love.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;The boy explained his "mistake" of letter, &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;while Daddy reassured him it was wonderful.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;The girl's eyes could barely hold the sparkle they shone with &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;as she watched me open her gift.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;What treasures I unwrap daily, but on this day, &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;this early morning of Epiphany, they somehow feel more special.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Oh, the &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;gifts&lt;/span&gt; that have been &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;bestowed on me&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;The day went on, and as friends posted words of celebration, and others spoke words of truth and encouragement, I can barely contain the love and &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;gratitude&lt;/span&gt; in my heart.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Thank you for celebrating me.  Thank you for your love.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Thank you for the gift it is to be a part of your life.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-4935596989859800141?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/4935596989859800141/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/epiphany-mine.html#comment-form' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/4935596989859800141'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/4935596989859800141'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/epiphany-mine.html' title='epiphany mine'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-YsygrsMV9dM/TwhgoD-U48I/AAAAAAAADyU/0RtwJf45pmQ/s72-c/IMG_3032.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-4482384828629812087</id><published>2012-01-05T06:30:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-05T06:30:03.569-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='DIY'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='holidays'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Christmas'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parties'/><title type='text'>A Twist on a Tradition</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Bj5w1ChjnMY/TwUxgjCN9VI/AAAAAAAADxw/GpACjISNWDI/s1600/hot-cocoa-4-450.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Bj5w1ChjnMY/TwUxgjCN9VI/AAAAAAAADxw/GpACjISNWDI/s400/hot-cocoa-4-450.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5694011739109979474" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-wdql2h33qws/TwTh0u8L1vI/AAAAAAAADvs/Uau1sG4aOcA/s1600/399914_10150434610182751_651752750_8844358_1938574970_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;Last year, we had a super fun and very girlie&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/01/little-girls-tea-party.html"&gt;Christmas Tea Party&lt;/a&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style=" ;font-size:medium;"&gt;for the girls in my daughter's class.  This year, we continued the tradition, but tweaked it just a bit! &lt;/span&gt;Since the drink of choice last year was the homemade cocoa, we decided instead of a Christmas "tea" party, we would make it into a...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Christmas Cocoa Party!&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;(How cute is that...if I do say so myself.)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;The great thing about this party, is that it could be a Valentine's party, a winter themed birthday party, for either girl or boy, or just fun playdate for the colder months.  Who doesn't love a good cup of cocoa?!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;menu:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;We knew that we would have some of our&lt;a href="http://www.eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/simplest-of-gifts.html"&gt; favorite goodies&lt;/a&gt;, and then some additional Christmas cookies to make it more...well, Christmas-y. We simplified beverages, and had one hot and one cold choice...our homemade hot cocoa, and fruit infused water. The girls had a blast fixing their little dainty plates and definitely came back for seconds...and thirds!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-wdql2h33qws/TwTh0u8L1vI/AAAAAAAADvs/Uau1sG4aOcA/s400/399914_10150434610182751_651752750_8844358_1938574970_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5693924124973061874" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 266px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;activities:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:130%;"&gt;1. craft time&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;Last year, the girls loved the craft time, so I wanted to continue that tradition to this year's party. Because I had no idea what I was going to do up until the day of the party (truly), I figured I needed to use something I had on hand...something that was easy...and something that would be fun for them to use again.  So I decided that their craft would be mini &lt;a href="http://www.eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/easy-diy-christmas-garland.html"&gt;Christmas garlands&lt;/a&gt;!  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-34_T9t51W4A/TwUtz-7DNAI/AAAAAAAADxk/mbm9Nx1OKvQ/s400/397418_10150434613362751_651752750_8844405_909972052_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5694007674967110658" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 281px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-AvAU4kS7Jcc/TwTh1hU2nfI/AAAAAAAADwM/YzfbUfPh6PQ/s400/394595_10150434613277751_651752750_8844404_1647093780_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5693924138498301426" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 266px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;my little sister being "in charge" :)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;It was so cute.  They each picked out their own little ribbons and scraps, and loved making them.  The mini garlands ended up being about 1/4 of the original garland size, so perfect for their bedroom door, hanging on their bed, or just a little flair for somewhere in their room or home.  And, you know me, I love any activity that can double as a favor!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-s5BcTbbskNI/TwU4-E0po8I/AAAAAAAADyI/1xJr8U0qGYI/s400/385966_10150434613532751_651752750_8844408_1280612501_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5694019942977479618" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 257px; height: 350px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style=" ;font-size:large;"&gt;2. toy exchange&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;My daughter has loved playing the gag gift game every year with our family.  She's old enough now to get it, and loves how funny and random it can be...plus the part about opening a present is pretty fun, too.  So, this year, she asked if we could play the gag gift game at this party.  I thought it would be fun if the girls used one of their own toys (gently used and ready to move on!) as a gift.  It was so much fun.  The girls got to each take home a "new" toy, without spending a dime.  They loved the surprise of opening up a gift to take home!  A second little take home goodie.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-zL0P3ECq-jI/TwTiZO_-akI/AAAAAAAADxY/zIWwGIdanwM/s400/407458_10150434614367751_651752750_8844423_1483733655_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5693924752054184514" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 266px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:85%;"&gt;picture credit: http://realmomkitchen.com/654/classic-hot-cocoa-and-a-hot-c&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style=" ;font-size:small;"&gt;ocoa-bar/&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style=" ;font-size:small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style=" ;font-size:small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:130%;"&gt;3.  storytime&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;After all the goodies and festivities, I like to gather all the girls together to read a Christmas story.  It's a great way to share what we believe Christmas is all about with her friends. The girls always love sitting around and hearing a new (or familiar) story.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style=" "&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-76iBqwvO2C8/TwTh1vIPRBI/AAAAAAAADwE/NWbzO7UI-K4/s1600/405235_10150434612137751_651752750_8844383_1315591793_n.jpg" style="font-size: -webkit-xxx-large; " onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-76iBqwvO2C8/TwTh1vIPRBI/AAAAAAAADwE/NWbzO7UI-K4/s400/405235_10150434612137751_651752750_8844383_1315591793_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5693924142203487250" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 266px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I think my favorite thing about this party, is that throughout the year, the girls will remember things about the party, and will ask things like, "Are you going to have us over for..." or, "Remember those little white cookies you made?! Can we have those again!" &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;To know that there are sweet little girls that get as excited about parties as I do, is a joy.  I'm so glad my daughter and I can partner together on fun ideas for gathering people together to celebrate life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style=" ;font-size:16px;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;my stepmom and i being silly hostesses!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-vSokwcPaKeo/TwTh0wMEikI/AAAAAAAADv8/HQST9m4y0DY/s1600/406840_10150434611092751_651752750_8844369_725948532_n.jpg" style="font-size: -webkit-xxx-large; " onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-vSokwcPaKeo/TwTh0wMEikI/AAAAAAAADv8/HQST9m4y0DY/s400/406840_10150434611092751_651752750_8844369_725948532_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5693924125308127810" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 266px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 16.0px Georgia"&gt;&lt;span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px"&gt;Valentine's Adaption:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 16.0px Georgia; min-height: 19.0px"&gt;&lt;span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 16.0px Georgia"&gt;&lt;span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px"&gt;menu: Valentine candy, heart shaped cookies, fruit, cheese cut out with heart cookie cutters, hot cocoa, and fruit infused water&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 16.0px Georgia; min-height: 19.0px"&gt;&lt;span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 16.0px Georgia"&gt;&lt;span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px"&gt;activities: Making Valentine's for people with scrapbook paper; mini garland using mainly pink, red, and white; Valentine day story&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-4482384828629812087?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/4482384828629812087/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/twist-on-tradition.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/4482384828629812087'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/4482384828629812087'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/twist-on-tradition.html' title='A Twist on a Tradition'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Bj5w1ChjnMY/TwUxgjCN9VI/AAAAAAAADxw/GpACjISNWDI/s72-c/hot-cocoa-4-450.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-1327394741212704011</id><published>2012-01-02T10:05:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-02T10:47:00.478-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tips'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='general'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parties'/><title type='text'>Best of 2011</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-2Rs4nOJlTM8/TwHRHm3PGEI/AAAAAAAADvI/L8sWNfUPbAs/s1600/0659.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 267px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-2Rs4nOJlTM8/TwHRHm3PGEI/AAAAAAAADvI/L8sWNfUPbAs/s400/0659.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5693061332594530370" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Happy New Year!  I can't believe that we're already in 2012.  I thought it might be fun to revisit some of my favorite posts from this past year.  You may have already seen these, but just in case you missed them, here were some of my favorites! &lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/01/best-surprise.html"&gt;The Best Surprise&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/02/oh-party-youll-throw.html"&gt;Oh the Party You'll Throw!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/03/adding-to-beauty.html"&gt;Adding to the Beauty&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/04/if-you-give-melissa-minute.html"&gt;If You Give Melissa a Minute&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/03/unexpected-fairy-tale.html"&gt;Unexpected Fairy Tale&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/05/sweetest-sip-and-see.html"&gt;Sweetest Sip N See&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/09/many-books-were-harmed-in-making-of.html"&gt;Book Party at the Nester's&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-17-way-of-wedding.html"&gt;The Way of a Wedding&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-26-loveliness.html"&gt;Loveliness&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-31-philosophy-of-celebration.html"&gt;Philosophy of Celebration&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/gratefull.html"&gt;Grate{full}&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It truly is remarkable to see how this business has grown, how I've been blessed because of it, and how much has happened even in just a year. I love being able to celebrate with you!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-1327394741212704011?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/1327394741212704011/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/best-of-2011.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/1327394741212704011'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/1327394741212704011'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2012/01/best-of-2011.html' title='Best of 2011'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-2Rs4nOJlTM8/TwHRHm3PGEI/AAAAAAAADvI/L8sWNfUPbAs/s72-c/0659.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-1514556440171984696</id><published>2011-12-30T07:00:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-30T07:00:03.236-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weddings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ooh la la'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tips'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entertaining'/><title type='text'>Ooh, La, La...</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-t8JF6FiVBnY/Tv1J3CaLjII/AAAAAAAADu8/xDbVDkSLoM8/s1600/stress-less-party-5_300.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-hzNzSCOKmq4/Tv1IoiIxinI/AAAAAAAADus/s3rV4iUq7iM/s1600/bali-destination-wedding-16.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-hzNzSCOKmq4/Tv1IoiIxinI/AAAAAAAADus/s3rV4iUq7iM/s400/bali-destination-wedding-16.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5691785365261748850" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-uBb-2g8vV9E/Tv1IokTKywI/AAAAAAAADuk/im1xdPysqQY/s1600/RuffledKiki023.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div&gt;Welcome to the final post of 2011.  For any new brides and grooms to be, first let me say, CONGRATS!!!  It's such an exciting time of year to get engaged.  While I'm enjoying my week of vacation with my family, I thought I would tell you about some fun goodies I've stumbled across.  Plus, an "Ooh, La, La!" post would be a fun way to end the year.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;1. Make Your Own Monogram!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;padding-bottom: 2px; line-height: 0px; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/281543696377270/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img src="http://media-cdn.pinterest.com/upload/257831147386618974_eB1iO1g8_c.jpg" border="0" width="553" height="716" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="float: left; padding-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px;"&gt;&lt;p style="font-size: 10px; color: #76838b;"&gt;Source: &lt;a style="text-decoration: underline; font-size: 10px; color: #76838b;" href="http://www.weddingchicks.com/freebies/custom-monograms/mini-antique-monogram/"&gt;weddingchicks.com&lt;/a&gt; via &lt;a style="text-decoration: underline; font-size: 10px; color: #76838b;" href="http://pinterest.com/terese_guerrero/" target="_blank"&gt;Terese&lt;/a&gt; on &lt;a style="text-decoration: underline; color: #76838b;" href="http://pinterest.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Pinterest&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Go see how easy it is to make your own monogram...and the best part is, it's free!!  This would be a great way to personalize something for a party or wedding...definitely nice freebie!  Just print it out in whatever color scheme you're looking for, and you have a lovely sophisticated monogram.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;A few ideas:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;personalize stationary&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;favors&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;invitation labels&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;save the dates&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;place cards&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;wine charms&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;hang them framed on the bride and grooms chairs&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;personalized guest book&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;2. &lt;a href="http://ruffledblog.com/best-of-2011-bouquets/"&gt;Ruffled Best of 2011 Lists&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-uBb-2g8vV9E/Tv1IokTKywI/AAAAAAAADuk/im1xdPysqQY/s400/RuffledKiki023.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5691785365842217730" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 293px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://ruffledblog.com/"&gt;Ruffled&lt;/a&gt; published their favorites from this past year, and it was so fun to look back through.  I will say, start with the bouquets, and go from there.  The &lt;a href="http://ruffledblog.com/best-of-2011-fashion/"&gt;fashion&lt;/a&gt;, flowers, and glam will have you oohing and ahhing for a while.  Also,&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:130%;"&gt; finding the flowers and fashion you love can many times lead you to the perfect style for your wedding.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;3.  Less Stress Entertaining&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Then, finally, I saw this cute article over at Real Simple about the &lt;a href="http://www.realsimple.com/holidays-entertaining/entertaining/everyday-celebrations/stress-less-dinner-party-10000001720977/index.html"&gt;Less Stress Dinner party&lt;/a&gt;.  I thought it might be encouraging if any of you are wanting to have guests over in the New Year, but struggle to feel like it's do-able.  With these tips, you just might be willing to throw that bash after all.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); font-size: 16px; -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-t8JF6FiVBnY/Tv1J3CaLjII/AAAAAAAADu8/xDbVDkSLoM8/s400/stress-less-party-5_300.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5691786713954487426" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 357px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I can't wait to start a new year.  I'll have some fun surprises in the New Year to share with you that hopefully will only increase your love of joining me here.  Thank you for all your support and love.  It truly is a gift to be able share life in this little space.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Blessings to each of you as you start 2012!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-1514556440171984696?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/1514556440171984696/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/ooh-la-la.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/1514556440171984696'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/1514556440171984696'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/ooh-la-la.html' title='Ooh, La, La...'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-hzNzSCOKmq4/Tv1IoiIxinI/AAAAAAAADus/s3rV4iUq7iM/s72-c/bali-destination-wedding-16.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-6186515009019420821</id><published>2011-12-25T23:54:00.008-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-26T00:36:54.560-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='faith'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Christmas'/><title type='text'>Wonder.</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-EhkeCSRJuYM/TvgGAfPaw0I/AAAAAAAADuY/PPKWN4LYSWA/s1600/IMG_2169.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 299px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-EhkeCSRJuYM/TvgGAfPaw0I/AAAAAAAADuY/PPKWN4LYSWA/s400/IMG_2169.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5690304734638555970" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-GKkCwyB0siw/TvgFXrbeXvI/AAAAAAAADuQ/4nlwHHeNwpQ/s1600/IMG_2140.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;A few weeks ago, when I realized Christmas was on Sunday, I sighed, and thought how difficult Sunday mornings can sometimes be, with rushing out the door to get to church on time (or not so on time).  I almost had decided to not go to the service, until my 7 year old said with enthusiasm...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;"Mom, can we go to service all together today?"&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I almost reluctantly reminded her that we had just been the night before, but she persisted. I'm so thankful she did.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;As we hurried in, it felt different. Less chaos, more space in hearts and minds to worship. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;We sat down in some available seats a few rows back, but my little girl quickly said to me in a pleading voice, "I can't see back here. Can we move up front?" So, to the front row we hustled.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;As our children followed along with the carols, I thought how grateful I am that they desire to know Him.  They long to know His love, and have a wonder that is unyielding.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Our pastor spoke of a &lt;a href="http://www.aholyexperience.com/"&gt;message and a messenger&lt;/a&gt; that blesses my heart often, and as we pondered all that we are grateful for, I saw with new eyes the blessings from His hand.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Children with faith like gold and hearts to mold and shape, and please God, let me do it in grace.  A beautiful marriage that continues to grow in love.  A family who loves and cares for us.  A church that loves all and speaks truth to faint hearts.  A life with gratitude that I am so completely blessed to live. I couldn't let today slip away without giving praise to the Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;For to us a child is born...to us a Son is given.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-GKkCwyB0siw/TvgFXrbeXvI/AAAAAAAADuQ/4nlwHHeNwpQ/s1600/IMG_2140.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-GKkCwyB0siw/TvgFXrbeXvI/AAAAAAAADuQ/4nlwHHeNwpQ/s400/IMG_2140.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5690304033535713010" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-6186515009019420821?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/6186515009019420821/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/wonder.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6186515009019420821'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6186515009019420821'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/wonder.html' title='Wonder.'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-EhkeCSRJuYM/TvgGAfPaw0I/AAAAAAAADuY/PPKWN4LYSWA/s72-c/IMG_2169.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-8882572406189997201</id><published>2011-12-20T07:00:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-20T07:31:11.729-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='faith'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Christmas'/><title type='text'>true story.</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-yCU0emZ_QAY/Tu9TewcGKHI/AAAAAAAADtc/-x0ifm-vpcA/s1600/IMG_2324.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 299px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-yCU0emZ_QAY/Tu9TewcGKHI/AAAAAAAADtc/-x0ifm-vpcA/s400/IMG_2324.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5687856642256152690" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;When my husband and I first had children, we talked in depth about what traditions we would celebrate at Christmas time.  We knew that we wanted to focus more on Jesus coming to earth than a fictitious character giving gifts out, but I held tight to my Christmas traditions.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;We loved that my older sister and her family made birthday cake for Jesus, and thought that was a great way to focus on the real meaning of the day.  We started the Jesse Tree, and welcomed advent.  When we knew that we would have to take a stance of whether or not to "do Santa", I was saddened at the thought of not having the mystery and magic of Old St. Nick coming on Christmas Eve.  Though my husband was great with hanging stockings and surprising with little gifts, there was something he couldn't get past.  I remember listening, and it hitting me hard.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;He said, "But the story of Christ is &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;true&lt;/span&gt;.  It's not made up or just a myth...&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;He really came&lt;/span&gt;, God made flesh...born of a virgin...and the mystery of that is so much greater than any man giving gifts.  I want them to &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;marvel at what is true.&lt;/span&gt;"&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;In the hustle and bustle of the season, it's so easy to miss that He really came.  He really showed up for us, and gave us the greatest gift imaginable.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;This past weekend I went to see my &lt;a href="http://andrew-peterson.com/behold/"&gt;favorite Christmas concert&lt;/a&gt;. The first time I went to this concert, I thought I was going to see Christmas carols sung by &lt;a href="http://andrew-peterson.com/index.php"&gt;Andrew Peterson&lt;/a&gt;.  I had no idea what I was about to encounter, and why some of my friends would travel hours every year to attend.  Last year, I took my stepmom to the show for her Christmas present, so this year, she treated my little sister and I to see it at the Cove this year, which was amazing.  &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The talent of this concert is incredible.  It's become one of my very favorite holiday traditions, because it's a night devoted to focusing on the &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;true story&lt;/span&gt; of Christmas.  As Andrew teared up talking about this at the beginning of the show, he reminded me of my husband's words so many years ago...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;"You see, the best thing about this Story is - it's &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;true&lt;/span&gt;." &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;~ The Jesus Storybook Bible&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Linking up with &lt;a href="http://www.chattingatthesky.com/"&gt;Tuesdays Unwrapped&lt;/a&gt; over at Chatting at the Sky...join us for the last one!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-8882572406189997201?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/8882572406189997201/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/true-story.html#comment-form' title='8 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/8882572406189997201'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/8882572406189997201'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/true-story.html' title='true story.'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-yCU0emZ_QAY/Tu9TewcGKHI/AAAAAAAADtc/-x0ifm-vpcA/s72-c/IMG_2324.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>8</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-6631795102316248448</id><published>2011-12-19T07:33:00.007-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-19T08:48:08.230-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='DIY'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='design'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='holidays'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Christmas'/><title type='text'>EASY DIY Christmas Garland</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-MVQ-XW18V7U/Tu8_Le1PUUI/AAAAAAAADtU/Cj8a5cqlNiY/s1600/IMG_2258.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 299px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-MVQ-XW18V7U/Tu8_Le1PUUI/AAAAAAAADtU/Cj8a5cqlNiY/s400/IMG_2258.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5687834320879702338" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;A few years ago, I had all these excess fabric remnants and scraps.  I knew that a little love could turn them from trash to treasure, but I wasn't exactly sure what I wanted to make.  It was around Christmas time, and I had been wanting to find a new way to display Christmas cards...thus the idea to make a &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Christmas garland&lt;/span&gt; came about.  I made several, and sold out at a local Christmas bazaar, and totally forgot about them.  &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Until just a few weeks ago, one of my friends who had bought one, asked for me to make 10 for Christmas gifts for her.  I brought &lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/08/no-sew-bunting.html"&gt;Krista&lt;/a&gt; over to help cut, rip, and tie, and in a couple hours, we had it knocked out.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-a9sGx5UW6GU/Tu87qa0O6EI/AAAAAAAADrk/6CwZjleJjf0/s400/IMG_2195.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5687830454331172930" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;They are super easy (just a little time consuming), and don't require any sewing or glueing, which in my book means a true DIY project!!   (see how lazy I am?!)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-iwjDaaaaV0Q/Tu87rpLK9PI/AAAAAAAADsM/AMqcUrPEUvA/s400/IMG_2370.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5687830475365348594" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;1. First, &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;gather scraps&lt;/span&gt;, ribbons, yarn, whatever fabric you have lying around, and decide on your color scheme for your garland.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;div style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-tKLRyuUNvwc/Tu87q5gvodI/AAAAAAAADr8/RGbA-naSZHU/s400/IMG_2372.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5687830462570930642" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;2.  Cut your fabric into 6-8 in. strips, each being about 1-2 inches wide.  If you like the &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;rustic, whimsical look&lt;/span&gt;, you can tear some to leave the ragged edges exposed.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;3.  Choose your base...my client wanted the rustic look, so I stuck with &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;twine&lt;/span&gt; for her.  You could do a wider ribbon, or any long piece of fabric you wanted.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;4. Cut your base string at 8-10 feet.  This is long enough to hang in a doorway, or over a mantle.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-7D36u6scPLE/Tu8_KqwASII/AAAAAAAADs4/ae4Hf8ZkNlc/s400/IMG_2384.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5687834306899101826" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;5. Space out your bows about a foot apart (I wanted to make sure that I had plenty of room between each little fabric tuft to hang either ornaments, cards, greenery, (insert whatever you'd like to hang).  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-KwHOboRN5IE/Tu8_K8zn7xI/AAAAAAAADtE/qYBHfcQIYiM/s400/IMG_2404.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5687834311746121490" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;6.  Continue &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;layering and tying fabric&lt;/span&gt; and ribbon until you have the size bow you'd like.  I usually ended up having about 5-6 strips of fabric each bow.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-QR56aGUmY3I/Tu87sabJqiI/AAAAAAAADsU/pnR_9qLHy_Q/s400/IMG_2387.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5687830488585710114" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-NN72JYKic9Q/Tu89l3WXhXI/AAAAAAAADss/5e5xZ9JJSvs/s400/IMG_2412.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5687832575114446194" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;7.  Wrap up as a great gift, or hang in your house to have a fun festive garland to use over and over again!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-sDyq0AyMzTI/Tu87qlSzhZI/AAAAAAAADrs/Y-Rc8tEIpGQ/s400/IMG_2253.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5687830457143756178" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Some ways to use these: &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;mantle decor&lt;/span&gt;, wrap around your tree, place over doorway, use to hang Christmas cards from, hang ornaments over a window...the list goes on!  Also, it's a great way to &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;repurpose old fabric&lt;/span&gt;, clothes, ribbons, and bows!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;happy trimming!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-6631795102316248448?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/6631795102316248448/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/easy-diy-christmas-garland.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6631795102316248448'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6631795102316248448'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/easy-diy-christmas-garland.html' title='EASY DIY Christmas Garland'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-MVQ-XW18V7U/Tu8_Le1PUUI/AAAAAAAADtU/Cj8a5cqlNiY/s72-c/IMG_2258.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-2777567841993626</id><published>2011-12-14T20:03:00.007-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-14T20:50:02.695-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='design'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Christmas'/><title type='text'>2011 Christmas Tour</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-BlUwAiR10R4/TulNDw1ajeI/AAAAAAAADrc/y66IUzRybzA/s1600/IMG_2214.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-y45slQZyT1s/TulIvLcaZcI/AAAAAAAADok/fUW5tLK-fNg/s1600/IMG_2182.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-vwn06sCX5yw/TulItKY2KGI/AAAAAAAADnw/c1MpLQNH6Mk/s400/IMG_2204.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5686155945251842146" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-vwn06sCX5yw/TulItKY2KGI/AAAAAAAADnw/c1MpLQNH6Mk/s1600/IMG_2204.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Welcome to the Christmas Tour! &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; I'm so excited to have you stop by.  I love this time of year, and it's super fun to be able to share and get ideas from others lovely homes.  I'll keep the words few and let the pictures speak today...&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;This year, I kept our Christmas decor more &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;rustic and simple&lt;/span&gt;.  Natural and somewhat vintage.  It was fun to switch where we have our tree, and do a few new things.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-DFpp0gWrfsA/TulIt1Nj_9I/AAAAAAAADoE/FLL83ocngpQ/s1600/IMG_2201.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-DFpp0gWrfsA/TulIt1Nj_9I/AAAAAAAADoE/FLL83ocngpQ/s400/IMG_2201.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5686155956747239378" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-fZftgLzsPaE/TulLX2CmkPI/AAAAAAAADqE/i5YxmZysdPA/s1600/IMG_2153.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-fZftgLzsPaE/TulLX2CmkPI/AAAAAAAADqE/i5YxmZysdPA/s400/IMG_2153.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5686158877547466994" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-htaXcCnogrE/TulLXvVC9vI/AAAAAAAADp0/UUeljhALAYY/s1600/IMG_2158.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-htaXcCnogrE/TulLXvVC9vI/AAAAAAAADp0/UUeljhALAYY/s400/IMG_2158.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5686158875745777394" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-cXPalaM8aTs/TulLXcjrHbI/AAAAAAAADps/STupgNLcvLg/s1600/IMG_2081.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-cXPalaM8aTs/TulLXcjrHbI/AAAAAAAADps/STupgNLcvLg/s400/IMG_2081.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5686158870706855346" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ZB-CoEUn21A/TulLZBFx7YI/AAAAAAAADqc/U1NrMqfuq54/s400/IMG_2164.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5686158897693453698" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-0k5x0ukYNWQ/TulKPZSLsNI/AAAAAAAADpE/Pu1nr40NHRE/s1600/IMG_2199.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-94G-B_6NvKs/TulKPVU0oXI/AAAAAAAADo0/Hu66hlO68Es/s1600/IMG_2211.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-94G-B_6NvKs/TulKPVU0oXI/AAAAAAAADo0/Hu66hlO68Es/s400/IMG_2211.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5686157631814934898" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-5MsLsnJTOI4/TulKPAxF9KI/AAAAAAAADos/fnI9ss0rPC0/s1600/IMG_2209.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-5MsLsnJTOI4/TulKPAxF9KI/AAAAAAAADos/fnI9ss0rPC0/s400/IMG_2209.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5686157626296366242" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-_i3SaST8-EU/TulItdYo_EI/AAAAAAAADn8/vL4G4TAeYq4/s1600/IMG_2187.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-_i3SaST8-EU/TulItdYo_EI/AAAAAAAADn8/vL4G4TAeYq4/s400/IMG_2187.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5686155950351252546" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-MLAH9_FDCUQ/TulLYtMr6qI/AAAAAAAADqQ/4O01R8RVbvM/s400/IMG_2142.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5686158892353710754" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-BlUwAiR10R4/TulNDw1ajeI/AAAAAAAADrc/y66IUzRybzA/s1600/IMG_2214.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-BlUwAiR10R4/TulNDw1ajeI/AAAAAAAADrc/y66IUzRybzA/s400/IMG_2214.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5686160731575848418" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-7MDOABr1Sxg/TulNDlWdlLI/AAAAAAAADrM/GtoMyG--oKg/s1600/IMG_2137.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-7MDOABr1Sxg/TulNDlWdlLI/AAAAAAAADrM/GtoMyG--oKg/s400/IMG_2137.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5686160728493233330" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-7leNsHJl_aA/TulNCnzLV7I/AAAAAAAADrE/OoQ6yk41T6A/s1600/IMG_2149.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-7leNsHJl_aA/TulNCnzLV7I/AAAAAAAADrE/OoQ6yk41T6A/s400/IMG_2149.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5686160711970674610" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-SDlEPu6h0MA/TulNCYsHF2I/AAAAAAAADq0/0fGQNCia2dw/s1600/IMG_2140.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-SDlEPu6h0MA/TulNCYsHF2I/AAAAAAAADq0/0fGQNCia2dw/s400/IMG_2140.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5686160707914504034" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 299px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Blessing of &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;peace and joy&lt;/span&gt; to your home today!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thenester.com/2011/12/2011-christmas-tour-of-homes-2.html"&gt;Linking up with the Nester's Christmas Tour.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-_i3SaST8-EU/TulItdYo_EI/AAAAAAAADn8/vL4G4TAeYq4/s1600/IMG_2187.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-2777567841993626?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/2777567841993626/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/2011-christmas-tour.html#comment-form' title='8 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/2777567841993626'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/2777567841993626'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/2011-christmas-tour.html' title='2011 Christmas Tour'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-vwn06sCX5yw/TulItKY2KGI/AAAAAAAADnw/c1MpLQNH6Mk/s72-c/IMG_2204.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>8</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-1037901756105772716</id><published>2011-12-13T07:35:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-13T07:58:49.196-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='good eats'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Christmas'/><title type='text'>The Simplest of Gifts</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-LRqcVGvTMME/TudLybMMpTI/AAAAAAAADnk/BR9UdrQ3PX0/s1600/IMG_2087.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 299px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-LRqcVGvTMME/TudLybMMpTI/AAAAAAAADnk/BR9UdrQ3PX0/s400/IMG_2087.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5685596384243000626" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-vF9C0uQgtLA/TudLB11G6xI/AAAAAAAADnY/pfwV8Df-seM/s1600/2109323579_0711f28d3d.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Their eyes were giddy with excitement at the thought of cookie dough.  I had them each pull up a stool to help mix the ingredients.  Such simple ways to celebrate the season.  All I had said was, &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;"Let's put on some Christmas music and make cookies!" &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;With cheers of delight they scurried down the stairs, so ready to soak in the joy of the moment.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It challenges me to see their eager hearts and open hands, ready to receive a gift.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Do I so willingly rush to the manger to see the child?  Do we find the gift in even the smallest of joys?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;As we rolled our favorite holiday cookies, I thought of how precious of a memory we were forming in our own lives.  To see the gifts of the season, in the simplest of ways...lights on the houses, bells ringing out front of grocery stores, people humming carols to themselves as they look for treats for the under the tree... might I find these gifts today.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.chattingatthesky.com/"&gt;Linking up with Tuesdays Unwrapped today.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;..........................................................................................................................................................&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;As promised the recipes from this weekend's dessert:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;noel nut balls&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;(a.k.a. Snowballs, Mexican Wedding Cakes)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;2 cups all purpose flour&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;1/4 cup sugar&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;1/2 tsp. salt&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;1 cup butter (2 sticks)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;2 tsp. vanilla&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;2 cups finely chopped pecans&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;1/2 cup powdered sugar&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Sift flour, sugar, and salt together. Work in butter and vanilla. Add 2 cups of pecans and mix well. Form into 1/2 in. balls and place on greased cookie sheets. Bake at 350 for 8-10 min. Roll in powdered sugar while still warm.  So cute in cupcake liners and wrapped up for a gift!  Or beautiful set out on trays.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;MY NEW FAVORITE HOLIDAY TREAT!!!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;(i love this recipe, because they are divine and only 3 ingredients!!)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238);  -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; font-size:16px;"&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-vF9C0uQgtLA/TudLB11G6xI/AAAAAAAADnY/pfwV8Df-seM/s400/2109323579_0711f28d3d.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5685595549580323602" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238);  -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; font-size:16px;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;mint oreo truffles&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;1 package mint oreos (finely crushed)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;1 package cream cheese (softened)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;2 packages of semi sweet chocolate squares, melted (chips work fine as well)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Crush oreos in plastic bag (or food processor) and place in large mixing bowl. Add softened cream cheese and mix well.  Form into 1 in. balls. Then roll (or dip) in melted chocolate.  (this is the only tricky part...using a spoon and kind of rolling it in the chocolate was easiest for us). Refrigerate for at least 20 min. to harden.  (NO BAKING REQUIRED!)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;chocolate covered strawberries&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;melt semi sweet chocolate chips, and dip strawberries in chocolate. stick in the fridge until time for party...then put on a pretty tray, and voila! your party just got fancy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;(picture credits: http://www.goodeatsblog.com/2007/12/oreo-truffles.html)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-1037901756105772716?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/1037901756105772716/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/simplest-of-gifts.html#comment-form' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/1037901756105772716'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/1037901756105772716'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/simplest-of-gifts.html' title='The Simplest of Gifts'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-LRqcVGvTMME/TudLybMMpTI/AAAAAAAADnk/BR9UdrQ3PX0/s72-c/IMG_2087.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>9</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-4718740008982215736</id><published>2011-12-12T06:00:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-12T06:00:02.723-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='design'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Christmas'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parties'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entertaining'/><title type='text'>An Island Makeover</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-sO2JL3268Ng/TuWRTMGlF-I/AAAAAAAADm0/9hUQF2hQ6zg/s1600/IMG_2041.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 299px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-sO2JL3268Ng/TuWRTMGlF-I/AAAAAAAADm0/9hUQF2hQ6zg/s400/IMG_2041.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5685109863477483490" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;This past weekend, we had a really fun gathering in our home. Some of the families in our neighborhood did a progressive dinner last December. I had always wanted to attend a progressive dinner, but we were out of town last year on the night it was held. All year I've been waiting, and this year we hosted part of it. After guests enjoyed being at a couple other fabulous houses down the street, we ended the party here at our home for dessert...my favorite.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;When I was thinking about the flow of the evening, I knew that I wanted to have stations around the house. Stations are a big thing with me...I love styling my receptions that way, because it makes for such great flow. It means no bottlenecks around the food, which is always a good thing! Another reason, is that we don't have a large dining room table...lots of smaller tables, and one big island. So, when planning where food would be, I had a couple thoughts in mind.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-6OnByIGvJik/TuWQn-6k4pI/AAAAAAAADmc/sNlSMbzVRjk/s1600/IMG_2055.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 299px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-6OnByIGvJik/TuWQn-6k4pI/AAAAAAAADmc/sNlSMbzVRjk/s400/IMG_2055.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5685109121203102354" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I wanted to make sure I had a main food table set up with most of the desserts, but then trays with dessert options set around at different places throughout the house as well.   I decided that the island in our kitchen would be the best place for our main table...except I didn't really want it to look like our island.  I wanted it to look like an elegant dining room table.  So, in about three steps, I gave my island a weekend makeover.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;First step...cover it!  I used a vintage ivory tablecloth with lace around the edges, and then layered with a piece of fabric for a runner, and doilies over top around the sides.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Next, I brought in two large candlesticks as a prominent centerpiece.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-TU6vYs7uDnQ/TuWQnAs2uII/AAAAAAAADmU/tE02O5_tmaI/s400/IMG_2051.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5685109104502552706" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Finally, to keep a more elegant look, I scattered an assortment of white, clear, and silver platters around the island.  By choosing varying heights and sizes, it kept the look interesting while still being functional to what we were serving.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-7w-HnwcpDw0/TuWQmkzqpJI/AAAAAAAADmE/RgOIgq7OAjo/s400/IMG_2046.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5685109097014928530" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;Just because it's Christmas doesn't mean that everything has to be red and green. I love a simple monochromatic look of mixing winter whites with silver and gold.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;The end result was great.  I wish I had a picture of all the food that adorned this spread, but I was too busy stuffing my face with treats to take pictures.   However, stay tuned...tomorrow I'm going to tell you what I served on these pretty platters...complete with recipes for all your parties coming up!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-4718740008982215736?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/4718740008982215736/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/island-makeover.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/4718740008982215736'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/4718740008982215736'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/island-makeover.html' title='An Island Makeover'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-sO2JL3268Ng/TuWRTMGlF-I/AAAAAAAADm0/9hUQF2hQ6zg/s72-c/IMG_2041.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-1273810480947981602</id><published>2011-12-09T06:00:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-09T06:00:10.163-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='photo shoot'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weddings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='nature'/><title type='text'>New Venue and Photo Shoot!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Z9fimpC_dQI/TuGfx9XSCaI/AAAAAAAADkY/7FJAW-p6v2k/s400/0008_Timberlake.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5683999885352896930" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 266px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;A few weeks ago I was asked to style a wedding photo shoot for a brand new venue in the Triad. This sweet couple is so in love, and they had a blast doing their photo shoot. When the bride said to me that she wanted an enchanted, romantic, but natural feel to her wedding, I knew she'd love being at this exquisite location. It was a beautiful Fall day and a perfect time of year to be at Timberlake.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ed01Q4Pjm-g/TuGoFFSzuJI/AAAAAAAADlg/nLEHmXe2Sb8/s1600/0159_Timberlake.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ed01Q4Pjm-g/TuGoFFSzuJI/AAAAAAAADlg/nLEHmXe2Sb8/s400/0159_Timberlake.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5684009009992153234" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Timberlake/135732819861670"&gt;Timberlake&lt;/a&gt; is an amazing venue, full of natural beauty and elegance. There are so many places to be able to enjoy... from an amazing orchard, to lakeside settings, gardens, wheat fields, to a pasture with an old water tower...and plenty of trails to explore all over! It really is completely picturesque and gorgeous.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-bQxGnm3oADE/TuGdRxEMVtI/AAAAAAAADj0/aJPgyQTY6vc/s400/0141_Timberlake.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5683997133272536786" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 266px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-yZayQDkUaZ8/TuGnuz2vG-I/AAAAAAAADlU/UDVh3k5WToI/s1600/0095_Timberlake.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-yZayQDkUaZ8/TuGnuz2vG-I/AAAAAAAADlU/UDVh3k5WToI/s400/0095_Timberlake.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5684008627353885666" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The amazing &lt;a href="http://www.beckidickinsonphoto.com/"&gt;Becki Dickinson&lt;/a&gt; captured the beauty of the day, and Julie from &lt;a href="http://www.simplyscrumptiousbakeshop.com/"&gt;Simply Scrumptious&lt;/a&gt; made a gorgeous cake. One of my favorite florists, &lt;a href="http://www.farmandfiligree.com/"&gt;Farm and Filigree&lt;/a&gt; designed beautiful bouquets and floral arrangements for our photo shoot.  We had a terrific line up of talent, and I must say, it came off splendidly.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-hO6OWfY5ta4/TuGnSoA-PRI/AAAAAAAADlI/p5Ru3QWMrOk/s1600/0149_Timberlake.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-hO6OWfY5ta4/TuGnSoA-PRI/AAAAAAAADlI/p5Ru3QWMrOk/s400/0149_Timberlake.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5684008143139257618" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/--0A35H6S79Y/TuGmUMtgszI/AAAAAAAADk8/8PiZyaC4Y5Y/s1600/0045_Timberlake.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/--0A35H6S79Y/TuGmUMtgszI/AAAAAAAADk8/8PiZyaC4Y5Y/s400/0045_Timberlake.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5684007070657983282" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-VzeyspFVvzo/TuGjTff6BeI/AAAAAAAADkw/skhzB6yLE5U/s1600/0089_Timberlake.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-VzeyspFVvzo/TuGjTff6BeI/AAAAAAAADkw/skhzB6yLE5U/s400/0089_Timberlake.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5684003759986443746" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Not your average sweetheart table.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Uae0flaEKMw/TuGgrAg5tXI/AAAAAAAADkk/-i2Zq9QXCg0/s1600/0067_Timberlake.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 266px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Uae0flaEKMw/TuGgrAg5tXI/AAAAAAAADkk/-i2Zq9QXCg0/s400/0067_Timberlake.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5684000865451095410" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-3XwgiWl0IAA/TuGY5DNSEaI/AAAAAAAADjQ/nKUYAGlRVjM/s400/0069_Timberlake.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5683992310599258530" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 266px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Z9fimpC_dQI/TuGfx9XSCaI/AAAAAAAADkY/7FJAW-p6v2k/s1600/0008_Timberlake.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-fEG6MormIUI/TuGfFvnBJXI/AAAAAAAADkM/NtSHnqIlX8c/s1600/0076_Timberlake.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-fEG6MormIUI/TuGfFvnBJXI/AAAAAAAADkM/NtSHnqIlX8c/s400/0076_Timberlake.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5683999125746558322" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-8ozpw9ealoo/TuGeFOuuUbI/AAAAAAAADkA/O6N7QB_kx24/s1600/0063_Timberlake.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 266px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-8ozpw9ealoo/TuGeFOuuUbI/AAAAAAAADkA/O6N7QB_kx24/s400/0063_Timberlake.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5683998017408881074" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-bQxGnm3oADE/TuGdRxEMVtI/AAAAAAAADj0/aJPgyQTY6vc/s1600/0141_Timberlake.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 266px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-YqcC7HjPbNc/TuGcZOdB-eI/AAAAAAAADjo/Log5XZd9Kns/s400/0070_Timberlake.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5683996161908799970" /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;The cake table was gorgeous with these colors in the background.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-KyQo9XIpNJE/TuGanu6X1mI/AAAAAAAADjc/maneRZTjfcw/s400/0031_Timberlake.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5683994212116715106" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 266px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-nQVZuHsJtLY/TuGrNFiZq_I/AAAAAAAADl4/a7DHQft49WM/s400/0042_Timberlake.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5684012446031391730" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 266px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I loved every minute of being a part of this wedding. There's something about being around people in love. They seem to make everything more magical, to which I am always grateful.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-vBAPDIiCcFM/TuGqrf0391I/AAAAAAAADls/rmkRnduQPR4/s400/0003_Timberlake.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5684011868972644178" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 266px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-1273810480947981602?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/1273810480947981602/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/new-venue-and-photo-shoot.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/1273810480947981602'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/1273810480947981602'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/new-venue-and-photo-shoot.html' title='New Venue and Photo Shoot!'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Z9fimpC_dQI/TuGfx9XSCaI/AAAAAAAADkY/7FJAW-p6v2k/s72-c/0008_Timberlake.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-491694260506720198</id><published>2011-12-05T08:18:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-05T08:49:17.022-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='faith'/><title type='text'>Reality Check</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-IdfDfraAgQU/TtzLpkNXpOI/AAAAAAAADjE/40XhoROFBDw/s1600/IMG_0969.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 299px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-IdfDfraAgQU/TtzLpkNXpOI/AAAAAAAADjE/40XhoROFBDw/s400/IMG_0969.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5682640744789550306" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Let me just disband any notions that an event planner has her own life well planned and put together.  My tree is finally up, but we can't find the tree topper.  I only have enough outdoor lights to light up half of our bushes.  And, we have a neighborhood gathering at our house this weekend.  Oh, and I still have pumpkins out...lovely, I know.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I think it's funny how sometimes we have these thoughts that "this person" probably has it all together.  Or "I bet they already have everything done"...or what have you.  But, in reality, what makes us more relatable is the pulling together of strands of life.  Not the finished product.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;When I helped a client with her son's party this weekend, she asked if she should move the boxes of her grandmother's bookcase that were still unpacked in her dining room.  I told her I didn't think it made a bit of difference.  She sighed and was grateful to be able to do one less thing.  I told her we all had boxes of stuff, and it would help others to feel like they didn't have to have "everything done" in order to have people in their home.  She chuckled, and said, "Yea, sometimes if your house looks too good, it makes other people feel bad about theirs."  I laughed, because she was so right.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The times when I have felt the most encouraged about my house is not when I go and see an amazing design accomplished at a friend's house...it's when the laundry is piled on their couch just like at my house.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Or when I can help wash some of their dishes and see that their kitchen looks as messy as mine.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;When there aren't enough places to store things, and we encourage each other to trust the Lord while we wait for contentment to come to our hearts.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;So, today, I am grateful for the tree that we do have.  Even if it's going topless for a bit.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And, I'm thankful for the clothes we have, even though they're piled high on the couch waiting to be folded.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I'm thankful for the food in our fridge, though the dishes seem never ending.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I'm grateful for the game pieces out everywhere, because it means we've played.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I'm thankful for being tired today, because I stayed up late listening to a friend's heart.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Choosing to celebrate is not just a suggestion, it's a must for me.  Without it, my heart gets focused on the wrong things, and squelches out any grace available.  So, today I'm thankful for living...a real life, with those I love.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-491694260506720198?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/491694260506720198/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/reality-check.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/491694260506720198'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/491694260506720198'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/reality-check.html' title='Reality Check'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-IdfDfraAgQU/TtzLpkNXpOI/AAAAAAAADjE/40XhoROFBDw/s72-c/IMG_0969.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-609723084260126272</id><published>2011-12-01T23:40:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-02T00:36:55.749-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fun things'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='gifts'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='holidays'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parties'/><title type='text'>All I Want for Christmas...</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/--9HZY6a_QGY/Tthgh0DaeLI/AAAAAAAADis/5QTERBNqCEI/s1600/il_570xN.289570314.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-_SUAgeXEKnY/Tthd8exv_JI/AAAAAAAADh8/cSmZiMDeEqo/s1600/IMG_1978.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-R3EWPkb9D6U/Tthd7IGauJI/AAAAAAAADhY/19PTjyrrqX0/s1600/IMG_1977.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 396px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-R3EWPkb9D6U/Tthd7IGauJI/AAAAAAAADhY/19PTjyrrqX0/s400/IMG_1977.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5681394200295946386" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, how can I go from not wanting anything for Christmas, to doing  a Favorite Things Party post?!?  Because I'm a sucker for a good party, that's why.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;So, this &lt;a href="http://www.thetinytwig.com/"&gt;cutie pie of a girl&lt;/a&gt; I met at Relevant posted over at &lt;a href="http://www.thenester.com/2011/11/favorite-thiiiiiinnnnnnngs-and-a-linky.html"&gt;Nester's yesterday&lt;/a&gt;.  She posted about what I've wanted to do ever since she first brought it up at Relevant....and I. want. to. THROW. this. PARTY!!!  I know you're shocked.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Since I don't know if it will happen in real life this season, I wanted to at least join in with the fun over at the linky.  Check it out!  Lots of fun stuff...but beware, you'll leave wanting to throw a party! (or maybe it's just me...hmmm.)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Prepare yourself for a corny photo shoot...it's late, I'm not a great photographer, and I'm feeling a bit punchy at the moment.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;1. Light Up Lip Gloss ($15)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ece9uBC2qVo/Tthd7z0vYXI/AAAAAAAADhw/yEYo8OV3ErI/s400/IMG_1976.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5681394212032962930" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 329px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Ok, so this lip gloss...yeah, it's pretty much amazing.  It's like lip gloss for a girl MacGyver (I just had to google how to spell MacGyver).  It lights up, it has a mirror on the side, AND it has a minty tingle to it.  Not to mention my lips are ever so thankful.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;2.  &lt;a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/handmaderecess?ref=seller_info"&gt;Handmade Recess Goodies&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;first of all, how much cuter could you get...but wait...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-8YQR5FYOGkM/TthghKZgmNI/AAAAAAAADiI/Xpvl71_VObk/s1600/il_570xN.269253867.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-8YQR5FYOGkM/TthghKZgmNI/AAAAAAAADiI/Xpvl71_VObk/s400/il_570xN.269253867.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5681397052771178706" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 267px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;look inside!!!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-fI5io4uWP_c/TthghbfdtsI/AAAAAAAADiU/bGmqDpXDVi8/s1600/il_570xN.269286420.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-fI5io4uWP_c/TthghbfdtsI/AAAAAAAADiU/bGmqDpXDVi8/s400/il_570xN.269286420.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5681397057359558338" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 267px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/--9HZY6a_QGY/Tthgh0DaeLI/AAAAAAAADis/5QTERBNqCEI/s1600/il_570xN.289570314.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/--9HZY6a_QGY/Tthgh0DaeLI/AAAAAAAADis/5QTERBNqCEI/s400/il_570xN.289570314.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5681397063952791730" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 267px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-aP5fVjH0g5I/TthghiDgipI/AAAAAAAADic/G8VTjjZyi8w/s1600/il_570xN.289443163.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-aP5fVjH0g5I/TthghiDgipI/AAAAAAAADic/G8VTjjZyi8w/s400/il_570xN.289443163.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5681397059121351314" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 267px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Anything that comes out of this girl's shop is amazing.  She uses vintage fabrics that she's found all over, and then hand makes her bags, wallets, and clutches, and more.  She's the sweetest gal, and such an encouragement to be around, and does amazing work! I've already done a little Christmas shopping from her, and already am wanting a few more!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;3. My new &lt;a href="http://christawells.storenvy.com/products/65383-how-emptiness-sings-ep"&gt;favorite CD&lt;/a&gt;  ($10)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Uelne1VFWfA/TthgmWm7iAI/AAAAAAAADi4/01Ocvj_zyag/s400/christacoverweb_large.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5681397141948041218" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 361px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;I had so much fun hanging out with Christa at Relevant, and she is a beautiful songwriter.  I love how she weaves justice and grace through her songs.  Her words have been blaring out of my CD player non stop.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Ok, new sunglasses...$2 at Rue 21.  Yes, $2. I love them.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;And, last, but not least, my mother in law got me this fun scarf the other day.  It was at the same little hole in the wall place where we got her tree... $11 of happiness is around my neck.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;And yes, I did make a heart with my scarf around my favorite things.  I told you I was punchy.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-_SUAgeXEKnY/Tthd8exv_JI/AAAAAAAADh8/cSmZiMDeEqo/s1600/IMG_1978.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-_SUAgeXEKnY/Tthd8exv_JI/AAAAAAAADh8/cSmZiMDeEqo/s400/IMG_1978.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5681394223563144338" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ece9uBC2qVo/Tthd7z0vYXI/AAAAAAAADhw/yEYo8OV3ErI/s1600/IMG_1976.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-TYM52LyKQ-o/Tthd7RFiK2I/AAAAAAAADhk/nWt0BhzsCDs/s1600/IMG_1981.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-TYM52LyKQ-o/Tthd7RFiK2I/AAAAAAAADhk/nWt0BhzsCDs/s400/IMG_1981.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5681394202708159330" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-609723084260126272?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/609723084260126272/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/all-i-want-for-christmas.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/609723084260126272'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/609723084260126272'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/all-i-want-for-christmas.html' title='All I Want for Christmas...'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-R3EWPkb9D6U/Tthd7IGauJI/AAAAAAAADhY/19PTjyrrqX0/s72-c/IMG_1977.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-4255509710874725735</id><published>2011-12-01T06:48:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-01T07:11:44.513-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='advent'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='faith'/><title type='text'>Advent...a Conspiracy?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;We've been telling our kids for a while now, "Christmas is going to be different this year." Partly because with one of us in grad school and another being a small business owner, there's just not a lot that we &lt;i&gt;can&lt;/i&gt; do this year.  But, more importantly, we want Christmas to be different.  Even though we've focused each year on the true meaning of Christmas, we still have felt the pull of our kids to focus more and more on materialism, and less on giving.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I told you on &lt;a href="http://www.eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/ready-and-waiting.html"&gt;Monday&lt;/a&gt; that I wanted to write a few posts this week that would encourage you to enter the season with rest and renewal. Instead of rushing into the madness with little thought of what Christmas is truly about, slowing down and &lt;a href="http://www.eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/what-child-is-this.html"&gt;listening for love coming down&lt;/a&gt;.  With today being December 1st, I really couldn't think of a better way to encourage you this Christmas than what the following video is about.  Maybe you've already seen this, done this, or heard about this.  I hadn't until a few weeks ago, and it blessed me beyond measure to realize that just a few changes in our spending patterns, could literally &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;change the world&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;iframe src="http://player.vimeo.com/video/30556886?color=f9f2e0" width="400" height="225" frameborder="0" webkitallowfullscreen="" mozallowfullscreen="" allowfullscreen=""&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://vimeo.com/30556886"&gt;[AC] Promo 2011&lt;/a&gt; from &lt;a href="http://vimeo.com/adventconspiracy"&gt;Advent Conspiracy&lt;/a&gt; on &lt;a href="http://vimeo.com"&gt;Vimeo&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Welcome to December...the &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;season of giving&lt;/span&gt;.  I can't wait to see the gifts we unwrap this year.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-4255509710874725735?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/4255509710874725735/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/adventa-conspiracy.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/4255509710874725735'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/4255509710874725735'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/12/adventa-conspiracy.html' title='Advent...a Conspiracy?'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-5767527963583852715</id><published>2011-11-29T00:00:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2011-11-29T00:15:10.880-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Christmas'/><title type='text'>Listening for Love</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-s4NhsOcIfVI/TtRqEc9941I/AAAAAAAADhM/OnV81jIMt7k/s1600/IMG_1638.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 299px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-s4NhsOcIfVI/TtRqEc9941I/AAAAAAAADhM/OnV81jIMt7k/s400/IMG_1638.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5680281654749160274" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;As he patiently waited for me to finish up my &lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/ready-and-waiting.html"&gt;post yesterday&lt;/a&gt; morning, he couldn't wait to begin our game that he had set up. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;We've gotten into a fun pattern in the mornings.  After my 2nd grader heads out the door with Daddy, my little boy and I have just enough time to get a quick game in before leaving for Preschool.  Memory is his favorite, and I almost beat him yesterday...and I was really trying.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It's funny how things like playing games with children can bring to mind the most simple of truths.  We spend so much time trying to find out the profound answers to life, when in actuality, they can very many times be standing right beside us, with a hand resting on our leg.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;We found this in his bag from school just the other day.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-vu5a1kXCyrU/TtPa_cZ28nI/AAAAAAAADg0/TyEiRUUsFFM/s400/photo.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5680124338535592562" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 348px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Such a simple list of gratitude...so necessary for my heart.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I find such comfort in knowing that Christ came as a little child.  That he was willing to be a little boy, in need of a mother's lap.  A boy of a carpenter, who learned from faithful Joseph. A brother to a few.  A friend to many, and teacher to all...one with God, and yet, that He was willing to become a little child, to show His love for you and I.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;As you think on the &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;little child&lt;/span&gt; of Christ this season, may we take lessons from the little ones in our own lives this Christmas.  Might we stop long enough to hear their hearts, and be challenged by their faith.  May their simple gratitude charge us to speak out of ours even more boldly.  Might we slow down enough to see who they really are, who they've been created to be.  For, I believe &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;love still speaks&lt;/span&gt; the loudest many times when we stop to listen to them.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Linking up with &lt;a href="http://www.chattingatthesky.com/"&gt;Tuesdays Unwrapped&lt;/a&gt; today. I'm looking forward to celebrating with you there.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-5767527963583852715?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/5767527963583852715/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/what-child-is-this.html#comment-form' title='10 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/5767527963583852715'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/5767527963583852715'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/what-child-is-this.html' title='Listening for Love'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-s4NhsOcIfVI/TtRqEc9941I/AAAAAAAADhM/OnV81jIMt7k/s72-c/IMG_1638.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>10</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-5913494753720571066</id><published>2011-11-28T07:04:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2011-11-28T07:47:29.378-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='faith'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Christmas'/><title type='text'>Ready and Waiting.</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bCoGlgNcxwo/TtN_c_to0OI/AAAAAAAADgo/wyx3gE6dNsI/s1600/DSCF1072.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bCoGlgNcxwo/TtN_c_to0OI/AAAAAAAADgo/wyx3gE6dNsI/s400/DSCF1072.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5680023691160244450" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The holiday music has started, the Christmas trees have started going up, and the neighborhoods are starting to light up the streets.  The only thing is, I don't feel ready to celebrate Christmas.  Don't get me wrong, I'm very excited that the season is already here, it just has a way of sneaking up on me. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;We went to pick up our Christmas tree yesterday, and we realized that we didn't have our stand anywhere.  So instead of being already set up in our living room, it's waiting on the back porch.  It's just a little thing, but it felt like it was more representative than just a missing tree stand.  You might remember how &lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2010/12/peeking-out-from-under.html"&gt;we moved into this house, just about a year ago&lt;/a&gt;, and our life has seemed like a whirlwind since.  With my hubby in grad school, and then, running my business, not to mention normal family life, it's wild to see time slip through your hands.  I feel myself being passed from one season to the next without much thoughtful participation on my part.  Without &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;fully entering the season with celebration&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Call this a confession, or maybe it's more of a proclamation, but either way, what I want more than anything this holiday season, is to be fully present.  Present to my family, my friends...present to the&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt; mystery and miracle &lt;/span&gt;of what my God did for me. For us.  All of us.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Love has come down&lt;/span&gt;, and I for one, don't want to miss what that means this season.  May we celebrate what the season is truly about this year, and resist the temptation to be swept away with pretty decorations and busy shopping. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;This week, my hope is to write a few posts that will help you enter this season with rest and renewal, being able to celebrate His coming in a new way.  O, Come, &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;let us adore&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-5913494753720571066?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/5913494753720571066/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/ready-and-waiting.html#comment-form' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/5913494753720571066'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/5913494753720571066'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/ready-and-waiting.html' title='Ready and Waiting.'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-bCoGlgNcxwo/TtN_c_to0OI/AAAAAAAADgo/wyx3gE6dNsI/s72-c/DSCF1072.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-6404089373730695715</id><published>2011-11-23T10:13:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2011-11-23T10:37:55.797-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='thanksgiving'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fall'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='good eats'/><title type='text'>Twas the Night Before Thanksgiving...</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;Ok, so is it just me, or are there way too many favorite foods to try to cram into one meal on a Thursday in November?&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Last week, when I asked my kids what what they were wanting to see on our Thanksgiving table, I started to feel a little overwhelmed. Their favorite Thanksgiving meal is a little different than my family's menu plan, and even though I have tried to cram it all in in the past, I think I'm past that point. For the amount of work that's involved, but also because there's just too much food when we try to cram it all into one meal. Why stuff so much in to one day?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Thus the development for another holiday meal plan at our abode. This year, we're going to have some of our favorites (mainly my kids favs) and then tomorrow, we'll take our traditional sides and desserts to our families feasts.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Here's our plan...feel free to start your own new tradition! I'd love to hear what your Thanksgiving Eve line up would be!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-fxpkAFgZT3c/Ts0SXX5YYfI/AAAAAAAADgc/1CeZ1LYVi9U/s1600/OLjKy0.jpeg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 346px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-fxpkAFgZT3c/Ts0SXX5YYfI/AAAAAAAADgc/1CeZ1LYVi9U/s400/OLjKy0.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5678214897945043442" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-6404089373730695715?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/6404089373730695715/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/twas-night-before-thanksgiving.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6404089373730695715'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6404089373730695715'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/twas-night-before-thanksgiving.html' title='Twas the Night Before Thanksgiving...'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-fxpkAFgZT3c/Ts0SXX5YYfI/AAAAAAAADgc/1CeZ1LYVi9U/s72-c/OLjKy0.jpeg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-8157847036823007359</id><published>2011-11-22T16:09:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2011-11-22T16:36:02.897-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='friends'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fall'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='good eats'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='faith'/><title type='text'>Twice as Good</title><content type='html'>I put my Mom's shirt on today.  Partly because it's one of those that looks so fallish that it has to be worn at least once a year during this time of year.  And, partly because there's some part of me that longs to be close to those who know me at this time of year.&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I made &lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2010/11/stc-before-mentioned-amazing-muffins.html"&gt;pumpkin chocolate chip muffins&lt;/a&gt; today, as my children played in the backyard with a sweet friend who came over for a playdate. It was such a warm fall day, that I could have the window open to hear as they laughed and played.  I baked, and they played...and there seemed to be a sort of celebration in the air.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;While I was pouring batter into the pan, Pandora faithfully played my Sara Groves station, as it does most days, and this song came on. (video to follow for email readers)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;iframe src="http://player.vimeo.com/video/7672956?title=0&amp;amp;byline=0&amp;amp;portrait=0" width="400" height="225" frameborder="0" webkitallowfullscreen="" mozallowfullscreen="" allowfullscreen=""&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://vimeo.com/7672956"&gt;Sara Groves - Twice As Good&lt;/a&gt; from &lt;a href="http://vimeo.com/user2649133"&gt;Sara Groves Music&lt;/a&gt; on &lt;a href="http://vimeo.com"&gt;Vimeo&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Every time, no matter how many times I've heard this song, this line makes me tear up...&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;with my good news, you're dancing on the table.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Ever since Emily wrote about paying attention to &lt;a href="http://www.chattingatthesky.com/2011/10/12/change-the-world-day-12-know-what-makes-you-cry/"&gt;what makes you cry&lt;/a&gt;, I have been.  And, this sentence puzzles me.  Why would such a seemingly simple phrase touch such a place in my heart.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I think the answer comes in watching my daughter and a best friend jumping on our trampoline in delight, or taking muffins to dear friends, laughing with my sister about life, or thanking a teacher for their gift to my child.  I find joy in celebration.  Life in sharing the burden together. Knowing I have friends who would stand up on a table and cheer for me...or sit there and cry with me, when I make a mess in my own life.  Life is not always easy to celebrate, but with the gifts of friends around us, we are able to join each other as we walk this path, in celebration.  And I am so grateful.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-8157847036823007359?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/8157847036823007359/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/twice-as-good.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/8157847036823007359'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/8157847036823007359'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/twice-as-good.html' title='Twice as Good'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-2195006519314197725</id><published>2011-11-18T22:56:00.007-05:00</published><updated>2011-11-21T08:33:15.973-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='thanksgiving'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tips'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='good eats'/><title type='text'>Remember the Veggies...</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-slszt3P-oG4/TspQZKXBpjI/AAAAAAAADgE/tlLf6L4Lftk/s1600/living_stuffedsweetpotato_p_xl.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-slszt3P-oG4/TspQZKXBpjI/AAAAAAAADgE/tlLf6L4Lftk/s400/living_stuffedsweetpotato_p_xl.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5677438673461814834" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;I've been kind of quiet ever since 31 days.  Partly because I feel like I said everything in the world that I could ever say about celebrating.  But, partly because of birthdays and drama.  Either way, all of a sudden, I realized Thanksgiving is this week, and I've barely chatted about it here!&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;As I looked for Thanksgiving recipes the other night, my husband standing over my shoulder asked, "Why is it always turkey?" Which is actually a great question.  I love having turkey for Thanksgiving, and look forward to the traditional meal every year.  However, for those of you who would rather not have the same old thing every year (or for you vegetarians like my hubby), I came across these fun ideas for more meatless dishes to have at your Thanksgiving.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-eJTDySf9iR0/TspQYR237oI/AAAAAAAADfg/iFCleBW7NTY/s400/med100860_1110_pie_broccoli_feta_xl.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5677438658294574722" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I can't tell if I like the recipes or the pictures better, but either way &lt;a href="http://www.marthastewart.com/274911/meatless-thanksgiving-recipes/@center/276949/everything-thanksgiving"&gt;Martha Stewart knows her stuff&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Iw-O1YdOsz8/TspQYq6sQXI/AAAAAAAADf4/qq3iTIfa3g4/s1600/1205_edf_mushroomtart_xl.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Iw-O1YdOsz8/TspQYq6sQXI/AAAAAAAADf4/qq3iTIfa3g4/s400/1205_edf_mushroomtart_xl.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5677438665021473138" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-IZbb1LRYgbY/TspQYqHrM6I/AAAAAAAADfo/tLwMcv83FfI/s1600/mld105013_1009_pumsoupcard1_xl.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-IZbb1LRYgbY/TspQYqHrM6I/AAAAAAAADfo/tLwMcv83FfI/s400/mld105013_1009_pumsoupcard1_xl.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5677438664807494562" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;There aren't as many pretty pictures here, but there are a ton of &lt;a href="http://www.vegkitchen.com/tips/vegetarian-thanksgiving/"&gt;vegan and vegetarian dishes&lt;/a&gt; to peruse.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And, here's a great article about &lt;a href="http://vegetarian.about.com/od/specialoccasionrecipe1/qt/vegguests.htm"&gt;how to accomodate both vegetarian and vegan guests&lt;/a&gt; without having to recreate your entire dinner.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Sometimes it gets intimidating to think in "vegetarian" terms when it comes to meal planning...especially if you're like me, who feels like it's a foreign word. But, the more I've lived with the meat "constraints", the less I feel like it's a complication.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;In the spirit of helping you celebrate this week, please check out my tips from last year's &lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2010/11/something-to-celebrate-thanksgiving-101.html"&gt;Thanksgiving 101&lt;/a&gt;... there's a whole week of tips on celebrating one of my favorite holidays!  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Giving thanks for you this week!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-2195006519314197725?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/2195006519314197725/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/remember-veggies.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/2195006519314197725'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/2195006519314197725'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/remember-veggies.html' title='Remember the Veggies...'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-slszt3P-oG4/TspQZKXBpjI/AAAAAAAADgE/tlLf6L4Lftk/s72-c/living_stuffedsweetpotato_p_xl.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-7322422433454771443</id><published>2011-11-18T08:26:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2011-11-18T08:45:46.732-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fun things'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tips'/><title type='text'>Guilty Pleasures</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-C0jiduwg9RY/TsZf3MR_hYI/AAAAAAAADfE/u2iQeDCHLKU/s1600/225743000041543999_c178yhfP_c.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-lnHq77ee_BM/TsZf3Fy_nKI/AAAAAAAADe8/pnL3RK6GiuI/s1600/225743000041529068_sneeFlNk_c.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 382px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-lnHq77ee_BM/TsZf3Fy_nKI/AAAAAAAADe8/pnL3RK6GiuI/s400/225743000041529068_sneeFlNk_c.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5676329780400594082" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Not sure if you're on &lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/"&gt;Pintrest&lt;/a&gt; or not, but it's probably my favorite new hobby.  That and Words with Friends.  Yes, today is guilty pleasure day...didn't you know?  Where am I going with these random confessions?  &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;Come and follow me on &lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/eventdesignnc/"&gt;pinterest&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;/span&gt;  It's such a great way to be able to see what your style is, give ideas to others, and share pics that you love.&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-C0jiduwg9RY/TsZf3MR_hYI/AAAAAAAADfE/u2iQeDCHLKU/s400/225743000041543999_c178yhfP_c.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5676329782141224322" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;(picture from style love board)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;If you're already on, come find me so I can see all your awesome ideas.  But, if you're reading this going, "What is she talking about?" c&lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/"&gt;ome on and join the fun&lt;/a&gt;.  You won't be sorry.  My favorite way to describe what it is, is by saying, "Remember how we used to find pictures in magazines, and cut them out and put them in folders or notebooks? It's like doing that online, without all the paper cuts."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;(picture from holiday fun board)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-UuQ937IuGUs/TsZf3ZeNl2I/AAAAAAAADfY/gH6NyR-ETiU/s400/225743000041561953_bMNHD9fn_c.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5676329785682138978" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 333px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It's really easy once you get the hang of it, and will be great for holidays coming up...great gift ideas, recipes, style, and on and on.  Can't wait to see you there!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-7322422433454771443?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/7322422433454771443/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/guilty-pleasures.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/7322422433454771443'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/7322422433454771443'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/guilty-pleasures.html' title='Guilty Pleasures'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-lnHq77ee_BM/TsZf3Fy_nKI/AAAAAAAADe8/pnL3RK6GiuI/s72-c/225743000041529068_sneeFlNk_c.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-1348205749958585269</id><published>2011-11-14T07:56:00.008-05:00</published><updated>2011-11-15T08:18:51.590-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='kids'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='birthdays'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='faith'/><title type='text'>Grate{full}</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-BYPs_I8zn8k/TsEZbvwDm5I/AAAAAAAADew/n-R5c3VWLRc/s1600/IMG_1585.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 299px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-BYPs_I8zn8k/TsEZbvwDm5I/AAAAAAAADew/n-R5c3VWLRc/s400/IMG_1585.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5674844969928727442" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-LbyUxuGIigU/TsEX2ArT5oI/AAAAAAAADdA/H-vnyHus9hg/s1600/IMG_1562.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;With costume pieces flying around and presents being wildly unwrapped, we successfully managed to have a fabulous carnival for the birthday boy, and celebrate three great performances with our little star.  I say "we managed", but really, I had nothing to do with it.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-LbyUxuGIigU/TsEX2ArT5oI/AAAAAAAADdA/H-vnyHus9hg/s400/IMG_1562.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5674843222125569666" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Bwdtflr2bXo/TsEX3tPNE5I/AAAAAAAADdo/E-z78DTykAQ/s1600/IMG_1594.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-wus7P2lP_c8/TsEX3I8g0II/AAAAAAAADdY/FFV5ME2jMdc/s1600/IMG_1605.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-wus7P2lP_c8/TsEX3I8g0II/AAAAAAAADdY/FFV5ME2jMdc/s400/IMG_1605.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5674843241525072002" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;As I arranged the pumpkins on the back table for the {Paint Your Own Pumpkin!} activity, I caught myself almost taking for granted how the day had turned out to be such a glorious fall day.  It was warm and sunny, and not a hint of chill. Back when I decided to start planning this party, I remember thinking to myself so confidently, how November is still a really nice time of year here. Being confident that the weather wouldn't interfere with our plan to have an outdoor carnival. But, really, I was forgetting the many pasts November 12ths that were full of cold wind, rain, and even snow.  I begin to think of my ideal as my expectation, rather than being suprised with &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;appreciation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-PUbnA1Nhw6w/TsEZbUl700I/AAAAAAAADek/7qhJPjA544U/s400/IMG_1569.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5674844962638517058" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I think sometimes we are so eager to see things our own way that we forget to thank the giver of all &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;good gifts&lt;/span&gt;.  We become focused on what we have, and almost expect to have things go our way.  Then, when it doesn't go our way, we become bent out of shape, like how could it not go our way?!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Bwdtflr2bXo/TsEX3tPNE5I/AAAAAAAADdo/E-z78DTykAQ/s400/IMG_1594.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5674843251267146642" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-oeogmeixYe4/TsEX2huPVpI/AAAAAAAADdM/IHf6ID2zT4Y/s400/IMG_1588.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5674843230996223634" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;As I continued to place things outside and prepare for our party, I realized how much of a gift the day was.  As I watched little ones playing games and saw parents chatting and enjoying a minute of friendship amongst crazy preschool days, I found myself so grateful for the gift of &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;celebration&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-7dTcagHJJpQ/TsEYaSINNRI/AAAAAAAADeA/G5sZLybRTak/s400/IMG_1606.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5674843845285459218" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-5MTJ443dRXE/TsEYakUQXDI/AAAAAAAADeQ/dxeUpj8T9kE/s400/IMG_1607.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5674843850167835698" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;That as much as I had wanted a fun party for my little boy, my Father had even greater plans of celebration in store for us.  And even if it had rained, sleeted, or snowed, I wonder what &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;gifts&lt;/span&gt; we would have found inside our home, waiting to unwrap.  I wonder if I had been so willing to give Him praise even when my plans got "messed" up?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ZOkCIfczpxg/TsEYbrEnOmI/AAAAAAAADeY/zUpqmLdcQ2s/s1600/IMG_1603.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ZOkCIfczpxg/TsEYbrEnOmI/AAAAAAAADeY/zUpqmLdcQ2s/s400/IMG_1603.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5674843869161142882" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;My challenge to you over the next few weeks, as Thanksgiving approaches, is that you would find the goodness in your day.  That you would see even trials as gifts, and that somehow you could celebrate the time you have been given.  That we would be &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;grateful&lt;/span&gt;, today.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-1348205749958585269?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/1348205749958585269/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/gratefull.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/1348205749958585269'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/1348205749958585269'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/gratefull.html' title='Grate{full}'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-BYPs_I8zn8k/TsEZbvwDm5I/AAAAAAAADew/n-R5c3VWLRc/s72-c/IMG_1585.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-3607900627513775439</id><published>2011-11-08T21:58:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2011-11-08T23:24:28.905-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='birthdays'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='faith'/><title type='text'>On Your Birthday...</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-YcEJ_mKFYNs/Trn_cKuMFcI/AAAAAAAADc0/DN8sEIEV8HM/s1600/IMG_1515.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 294px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-YcEJ_mKFYNs/Trn_cKuMFcI/AAAAAAAADc0/DN8sEIEV8HM/s400/IMG_1515.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5672846065029354946" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sweet Asher,&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;After working most of the weekend, I decided to spend yesterday morning trying to straighten out our crazy house.  Rearranging furniture and cleaning here and there, until you came home from preschool.  Immediately you commented on how great it looked, but then, you couldn't wait to tear apart the sofas and take all the pillows you could find to build a fort.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I refrained myself from stopping you, though (unfortunately) it was my first instinct.  Rather, as I saw your excitement about the fort, I realized in that moment, it was more important to build the fort than to have my house straight.  It was more of a gift for both of us, to let the messy take up residence for a bit so that we could simply play.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It could very well be, that in just a few short years you won't care so much about the forts I make.  You might not even ask me to make them...mine aren't usually the best anyway...but you would never guess by how enthusiastic you were about it.  You complimented me on how I was stretching out the blankets, and were so encouraging when I would give an idea of how to structure your secret abode. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It seems that the light of God's love has already taken up such a home in you, that it shines out to all you are around.  I love how kind you are to others. How willing you are to share even your most treasured possessions.  How you ask if the man on the corner with the sign has enough food to eat, and if we have any we could share.  I love that you are already the man that you will become one day.  And, more than anything, I love that I get to see that happen.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Ash, you are such a blessing to our family in ways that I can't even explain or understand.  You have only lived with us for five years, and yet, your fullness of life seems to expand to a lifetime of joy.  You are the most precious son I could ever have, and I am so grateful to be able to be called your Mama.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I love you always.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Mama&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-3607900627513775439?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/3607900627513775439/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/on-your-birthday.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/3607900627513775439'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/3607900627513775439'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/on-your-birthday.html' title='On Your Birthday...'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-YcEJ_mKFYNs/Trn_cKuMFcI/AAAAAAAADc0/DN8sEIEV8HM/s72-c/IMG_1515.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-2817412828970494305</id><published>2011-11-07T09:19:00.008-05:00</published><updated>2011-11-07T10:52:20.086-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fall'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='faith'/><title type='text'>The Discovery</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;(this week, I'll be following &lt;a href="http://www.throughaglass.net/"&gt;my friend's example&lt;/a&gt; and writing a few letters to my little ones in celebration of who they are.)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;.....................................................................................................................................&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Sweet River,&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I woke you before sunrise and whispered, "Today's the day you're on TV!" As your sleepy eyes began to open, you became excited at the thought.  We quickly pulled on your tights and leotard, and hurried out the door into the darkness.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It's been such a fun few weeks of preparation, and this is the final week before the show. As you have counted down the days, now you only have a few to go.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;A few years ago, we weren't sure what your "thing" would be.  You would have thought with all the theatrics in our home, we would have known right away.  But, we didn't.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;We tried soccer, but you quickly let us know that you, " didn't really like running that much".  I can't say I blame you.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;We've tried dance, and as much as I wanted it to be your thing it still seemed like something was missing for you.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;We've always thought your voice was beautiful, but it wasn't until other people started stopping us in halls to ask if you were on a stage somewhere, or in voice lessons, that we realized your gifting was not just a normal 7 year old voice.  As you started singing out more boldly with that big beautiful voice, we finally knew what it was.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;You &lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/09/and-now-forthe-juggling-act.html"&gt; conquered fear and auditioned&lt;/a&gt;, we knew that even though it was difficult, it would only give you more confidence.  Then, when you were called back, we couldn't believe that you had been narrowed down to a specific part!  When you were cast in the role you were hoping for, it turned into a grand celebration.   &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I wish I could tell you that it will always be that easy.  But the truth is, I know first hand that it won't be.  I walked this path, and I know how painful it can be to not see your name up on that list.  Or to see it on the list in the spot you wished it wasn't.  There will be many tears along this path...I'm sure. But, as GiGi and Grandma Beth told me, when you really love doing something, than you have to choose to press on, through the disappointment, through the pain.  It doesn't matter if other people think you're the best at it, or if they always see how special you are. Regardless of what others think, without living out of your gifts, you miss part of who God has made you to be.  You choose to operate out of your gifts, not because it's always easy, but because it's &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;who you are&lt;/span&gt;.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;As you began rehearsals a few weeks ago, you realized more and more how perfect it was for you.  You even said to me in excitement after one of the first practices, "Mom! It has singing and acting AND dancing! But, singing's my favorite!"  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I'm so proud of you, River Elizabeth.  You are a blessing to so many, and your beautiful smile couldn't have beamed any brighter under your pink fluffy hat this morning.  I'm so excited to have discovered this part of who you are.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Love,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Mama&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;p.s. Here's the &lt;a href="http://www.myfox8.com/videobeta/?watchId=9be6cd6d-c26a-4887-850d-92741256ca73"&gt;story from this morning&lt;/a&gt;...see if you can spot your little pink-ballerina-munchkin self on the right!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" salign="l" flashvars="&amp;amp;titleAvailable=true&amp;amp;playerAvailable=true&amp;amp;searchAvailable=false&amp;amp;shareFlag=N&amp;amp;singleURL=http://wghp.vidcms.trb.com/alfresco/service/edge/content/9be6cd6d-c26a-4887-850d-92741256ca73&amp;amp;propName=wghp.com&amp;amp;hostURL=http://www.myfox8.com&amp;amp;swfPath=http://wghp.vid.trb.com/player/&amp;amp;omAccount=triblocaltvglobal&amp;amp;omnitureServer=myfox8.com" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" menu="true" name="PaperVideoTest" bgcolor="#ffffff" devicefont="false" wmode="transparent" scale="showall" loop="true" play="true" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" quality="high" src="http://wghp.vid.trb.com/player/PaperVideoTest.swf" align="middle" height="450" width="300"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-2817412828970494305?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/2817412828970494305/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/discovery.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/2817412828970494305'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/2817412828970494305'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/11/discovery.html' title='The Discovery'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-5792921791651830759</id><published>2011-11-04T08:28:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2011-11-04T08:41:00.972-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fall'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='good eats'/><title type='text'>i heart (veggie) soup</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-zVcvYcutCFU/TrPcein1DsI/AAAAAAAADco/0lADgcBnEUk/s1600/069.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-zVcvYcutCFU/TrPcein1DsI/AAAAAAAADco/0lADgcBnEUk/s400/069.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5671118773037633218" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I never intended on taking a bloggy hiatus, but alas it was needed.  It's been so fun doing &lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/31-days-to-artful-event.html"&gt;31 Days to an Artful Event&lt;/a&gt;, but I was ready to take a little break.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Last year, I posted every day of November, and it was such a fun way to celebrate last fall.  I've been craving soup lately, so it seemed appropriate to leave you with a few great recipes for the weekend.  Especially with how crazy our nights seem lately, soup is the perfect recipe to double or triple, and then just freeze the extra batches for a rainy day...or snowy...or windy...you get the picture.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;All of these soups can be made vegetarian by just leaving out the meat, and they are still fabulous.  Perfect for my family...a hearty meal, that's quick and easy...and everyone loves!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;One of my favorite things to eat in the fall is soup. Especially on Sundays. This year, I decided that every week I would make a different pot of soup or stew, as a small way (and cheap way) to enjoy the cooler weather.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;Here are a few of my favorites:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:x-large;"&gt;Hearty Vegetable Soup&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;2 tbsp. olive oil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;1 lg. onion (diced)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;2 cloves garlic (minced)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;1 tsp. ground cumin&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;2-3 tsp. italian spices&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;1 tsp. salt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;1-2 tbsp. sugar&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color: rgb(51, 0, 0); font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;4 baking potatoes (diced)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;2 carrots (sliced)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;frozen peas, lima beans, corn (or whatever veggies you like)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;46 oz. tomato juice&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;1 can beef broth&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;2 cups water&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;Heat olive oil over medium heat in your soup pot. Sauté your onion in olive oil until soft and translucent. Add garlic and spices. Cook until fragrant (couple minutes). Add rest of ingredients. Bring to boil, and then turn down to simmer on low for at least 45 min. (I have been known to let cook on low for several hours, and it just gets better!) Serve this with grilled cheese for a great meal!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:x-large;"&gt;Chili&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;(Many times I make this vegetarian friendly, and leave out the beef...still very yummy!)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;1 lb. ground beef&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;1 onion (chopped)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;2 cans kidney beans (drained)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;2 cans diced tomatoes&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;1 can tomato soup&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;1 pkt. chili seasoning&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;2 tbsp. chili powder&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;2 tbsp. sugar&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;2 tsp. salt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;Fry your ground beef and onion together until beef is browned (10 min. on med heat). Drain excess grease. Add in diced tomatoes, kidney beans, chili packet, tomato soup, salt, and sugar. Let simmer for 1 1/2 hrs. stirring often. Garnish with cheddar cheese and sour cream and serve over rice. Delicious on a cold winter day!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:x-large;"&gt;Quick Potato Chowder&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;2 stalks celery (diced)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;3 tbsp. butter&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;2 tbsp. flour&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;1 14 oz. can chicken broth&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;*2 cups refrigerated diced potatoes with onions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;1 1/2 cups milk&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;1 cup half and half&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;4 slices bacon, crisp cooked and crumbled&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;salt and pepper&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;*can use fresh potatoes and onions also. just add the sauté the onion with the celery, and cook your potatoes in boiling water until soft.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;In a saucepan cook celery in hot butter over med heat until tender. Stir in flour until combined. Stir in broth; bring to boil, stirring constantly. Add potatoes; return to boiling. Reduce heat and simmer, uncovered 15 min. or until tender. Slightly mash potatoes. Stir in milk, half and half, and bacon. Heat through. Salt and pepper to taste.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:x-large;"&gt;Spicy Black Bean and Corn Stew&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;4 tsp. olive oil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;1 med. onion (chopped)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;4 garlic cloves (minced)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;2 tsp. ground cumin&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;2 cans black beans (drained and rinsed)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;1 can diced tomatoes&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;*1 can diced tomatoes with green chiles&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;2 cups water&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;1 tsp. salt&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;1 pkg. frozen corn (10 oz.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;(*to make a more mild stew you can substitute a can of regular diced tomatoes)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;In large saucepan heat oil over med. heat. Add onion and cook until softened. Add garlic and cumin, and cook, stirring often, until fragrant (another minute or so). Add beans, tomatoes, water, and salt to the pot. Bring mixture to a boil, then reduce heat to med-low and simmer, until slightly thickened, about 20 min. Add corn to stew and allow to heat through. Garnish with cheddar cheese, sour cream, and cilantro. Serve with heated tortillas or quesadillas.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:Georgia, serif;"&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:x-large;"&gt;Chicken Taco Soup&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;(&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;probably my favorite and many times i leave out the chicken to have a vegetarian option for my hubs...it's still delicious!)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:Verdana, Arial, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;ul  style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; outline-style: initial; list-style-position: initial; list-style-image: initial; color:initial;"&gt;&lt;li class="plaincharacterwrap"  style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; outline-style: initial; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; line-height: 16px; color:initial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;1 onion, chopped&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="plaincharacterwrap"  style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; outline-style: initial; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; line-height: 16px; color:initial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;1 (16 ounce) can kidney or chili beans&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="plaincharacterwrap"  style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; outline-style: initial; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; line-height: 16px; color:initial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;1 (15 ounce) can black beans (I sometimes do 2 cans of black and no chili)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="plaincharacterwrap"  style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; outline-style: initial; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; line-height: 16px; color:initial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;1 (15 ounce) can whole kernel corn, drained&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="plaincharacterwrap"  style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; outline-style: initial; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; line-height: 16px; color:initial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;1 (8 ounce) can tomato sauce&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="plaincharacterwrap"  style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; outline-style: initial; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; line-height: 16px; color:initial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;1 (12 fluid ounce) can or bottle beer OR chicken broth (I usually just do the broth, and it's wonderful)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="plaincharacterwrap"  style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; outline-style: initial; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; line-height: 16px; color:initial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;2 (10 ounce) cans diced tomatoes with green chilies, undrained&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="plaincharacterwrap"  style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; outline-style: initial; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; line-height: 16px; color:initial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;1 (1.25 ounce) package taco seasoning&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="plaincharacterwrap"  style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; outline-style: initial; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; line-height: 16px; color:initial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;3 whole skinless, boneless chicken breasts&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="plaincharacterwrap"  style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; outline-style: initial; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; line-height: 16px; color:initial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;shredded Cheddar cheese (optional)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="plaincharacterwrap"  style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; outline-style: initial; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; line-height: 16px; color:initial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;sour cream (optional)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="plaincharacterwrap"  style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; outline-style: initial; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; line-height: 16px; color:initial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;crushed tortilla chips (optional)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="plaincharacterwrap"  style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; outline-style: initial; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; line-height: 16px; color:initial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="plaincharacterwrap"  style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; outline-style: initial; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; line-height: 16px; color:initial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;1. Place the onion, chili beans, black beans, corn, tomato sauce, beer, and diced tomatoes in a slow cooker. Add taco seasoning, and stir to blend. Lay chicken breasts on top of the mixture, pressing down slightly until just covered by the other ingredients. Set slow cooker for low heat, cover, and cook for 5 hours.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="plaincharacterwrap"  style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; outline-style: initial; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; line-height: 16px; color:initial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li class="plaincharacterwrap"  style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; outline-style: initial; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: hidden; line-height: 16px; color:initial;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;2. Remove chicken breasts from the soup, and allow to cool long enough to be handled. Stir the shredded chicken back into the soup, and continue cooking for 2 hours. Serve topped with shredded Cheddar cheese, a dollop of sour cream, and crushed tortilla chips, if desired.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 16px; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:medium;"&gt;*ok, because i'm not a huge rule follower, i deviate from the shredding chicken step on this recipe, and just wait til the end, and then stir it around while it falls apart. it's delicious. i'm getting hungry.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 16px; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: normal; "&gt;&lt;div class="recipe-details-lg" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; position: relative; float: left; "&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; list-style-type: none; list-style-position: initial; list-style-image: initial; "&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;Super cute blog &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://armommy.blogspot.com/2010/10/tgiff.html"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt;Armommy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'trebuchet ms';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#330000;"&gt; has a great post about her menu a few weeks ago. 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I haven't done a book proposal, and I barely know how to use my iPhone.  Truly.  So, me, coming to &lt;a href="http://therelevantconference.com/"&gt;Relevant&lt;/a&gt;, doesn't actually make sense.  Except that being an &lt;a href="http://www.eventsbydesignnc.com/"&gt;event planner&lt;/a&gt;, lends itself to many different faces.  So when my &lt;a href="http://www.chattingatthesky.com/"&gt;dear friend&lt;/a&gt; asked if I could be her event assistant at Relevant, I couldn't wait.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I only had one fear...that I would spend the entire weekend feeling out of place and battling the fear that I wasn't good enough. That my blog wasn't funny enough or meaningful enough.  That my follower numbers were nothing &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;compared with the greatness of others&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And there it was...waiting to steal my joy.  The thief called comparison waiting in the darkness to swallow whole my excitement and enthusiasm.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;But, I could ignore all those dreaded fears because my job was going to be focusing on assisting my friend with her event.  I put on my event planner hat, and determined to only care about that role.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The only problem is that you can't really ignore your heart.  So, even though I was ecstatic about assisting my sweet friend, the truth is I still wanted to matter to those around me.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;So, as I was preparing to leave, I asked my friends to pray.  Pray that I wouldn't fall prey to the lies that would keep me bound to my insecurities.  Pray that I wouldn't compare myself or my blog to those around me.  Or my clothes.  Or my hair.  Or (as stupid as it sounds) my laptop bag.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;My hope was that instead of being anxious about not measuring up, that I could &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;celebrate&lt;/span&gt; with my sisters.  That I would be able to move towards others in freedom, free from what they might think.  Free from the masks that we so easily pick up and wear out of fear of being rejected.  To celebrate what a good God is doing around the world through this crazy thing called blogging. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And guess what happened.  Instead of meeting famous writers, bloggers, and songwriters, I met amazingly genuine people, who love writing to encourage others.  I saw real people who are gifted in incredible ways, and are sharing who they are with the world around them.  I laughed until my sides hurt with people that I never knew existed.  I cried at the words of the most profound thinkers.  I ate lots of cupcakes and drank like 18 million cups of coffee.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;More than any of that though, I met beautiful friends and was blessed beyond measure by their authenticity.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;When we are able to move towards others with freedom and love, I believe we are finally able to celebrate.  We are able to throw an outrageously awesome event, without fear that it might not be good enough.  We are able to invite family over for dinner without being so neurotic about our house being clean that we wound our children in the process.  We can plan a wedding without the thoughts that the next planner over has just done a better one.  As we allow the fullness of who God is into our hearts, we are able to &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;celebrate artful events&lt;/span&gt;, in every part of our lives.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-6007270570602384233?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/6007270570602384233/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-31-philosophy-of-celebration.html#comment-form' title='11 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6007270570602384233'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6007270570602384233'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-31-philosophy-of-celebration.html' title='Day 31: Philosophy of Celebration'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-blQw7qr9v_Q/Tq3MzKjOC1I/AAAAAAAADaE/BxGKX9ll8GU/s72-c/8R6YDf.jpeg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>11</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-6736277582184022565</id><published>2011-10-30T06:00:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-30T06:00:07.008-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='centerpieces'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fall'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='flowers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entertaining'/><title type='text'>Day 30: Entertaining at Home</title><content type='html'>&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-rGq0ej34NN8/Tqsj6ao0v1I/AAAAAAAADWQ/LD4UQpmxxSE/s400/550_101321843.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668664042465836882" /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;If you're planning on entertaining at home this fall, you may find yourself turning your decorations up a notch. It's okay to glam it up once in a while, just make sure to stay true to yourself. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-yuKsVrDM4U4/Tqsj37uSl3I/AAAAAAAADWE/8etOzwCk0H8/s1600/real-parties-rustic-fall-celebration.jpeg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-yuKsVrDM4U4/Tqsj37uSl3I/AAAAAAAADWE/8etOzwCk0H8/s400/real-parties-rustic-fall-celebration.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668663999807526770" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-UnnCRTvn3TQ/Tqsj0YSq7sI/AAAAAAAADV4/wI2InLHc4WU/s1600/Screen%2Bshot%2B2011-10-26%2Bat%2B7.20.31%2BPM.png" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 208px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-UnnCRTvn3TQ/Tqsj0YSq7sI/AAAAAAAADV4/wI2InLHc4WU/s400/Screen%2Bshot%2B2011-10-26%2Bat%2B7.20.31%2BPM.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668663938756832962" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-UnnCRTvn3TQ/Tqsj0YSq7sI/AAAAAAAADV4/wI2InLHc4WU/s1600/Screen%2Bshot%2B2011-10-26%2Bat%2B7.20.31%2BPM.png" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-UnnCRTvn3TQ/Tqsj0YSq7sI/AAAAAAAADV4/wI2InLHc4WU/s1600/Screen%2Bshot%2B2011-10-26%2Bat%2B7.20.31%2BPM.png" style="text-align: left; " onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 360px; height: 360px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-FmOi-K1zKOA/Tqsj_9q84BI/AAAAAAAADWc/ovNiaU2e2ws/s400/fall-pumpkin-roses-centerpiece.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668664137769345042" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Using things that you already have to create centerpieces may seem mundane to you because you see these items all the time. The trick is to use your imagination! Place a gorgeous bouquet of flowers in a pitcher or a couple of clustered mason jars instead of a vase. Make a bouquet of cinnamon sticks to accompany the bouquet, or sprinkle a couple of nuts and/or cranberries around. Or even, put a bouquet of flowers inside of the pumpkin you just carved out (to make &lt;a href="http://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/pumpkin-pie-recipe/index.html"&gt;pie filling&lt;/a&gt;, of course)! &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-astzcigPeYw/TqsjrOyDuzI/AAAAAAAADVg/a4cWYv-t36M/s1600/dining5%2Bcopy.jpeg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 278px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-astzcigPeYw/TqsjrOyDuzI/AAAAAAAADVg/a4cWYv-t36M/s400/dining5%2Bcopy.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668663781585304370" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 285px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-WglNsQ5AN5Y/TqsjiA7BMJI/AAAAAAAADVI/9A25E2L8cQM/s400/155447052.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668663623245967506" /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Casual centerpieces, with the use of candles or lanterns, are great for setting a comfortable and intimate tone. Turn up the volume with some sparkle and glam by using glitter pumpkins instead of  plain gourds.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-yHcDwQyqNHc/TqsjlOu1SwI/AAAAAAAADVU/Eb4WAp63qPo/s1600/Pinned%2BImage.jpeg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-yHcDwQyqNHc/TqsjlOu1SwI/AAAAAAAADVU/Eb4WAp63qPo/s400/Pinned%2BImage.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668663678492560130" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;Images: &lt;a href="http://www.bhg.com/decorating/seasonal/fall/easy-fall-decorating-projects/#page=7"&gt;1&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.hostessblog.com/2010/11/real-parties-rustic-fall-celebration/"&gt;2&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.potterybarn.com/products/harvest-leaf-terra-cotta-vases-bowls-pitchers/?pkey=cbook-club-dinner-guide&amp;amp;cm_src=autumnal_guide"&gt;3&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.bhg.com/decorating/seasonal/autumn/fall-harvest-decorating-ideas/#page=30"&gt;4&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://lifeasathrifter.blogspot.com/2011/10/fall-dining-room.html"&gt;5&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://jessicaralph.blogspot.com/2009/09/fall-home-decor.html"&gt;6&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.twigandthistle.com/blog/2010/10/diy-pumpkin-candle-holders-for-bhg/"&gt;7&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-6736277582184022565?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/6736277582184022565/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-30-entertaining-at-home.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6736277582184022565'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6736277582184022565'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-30-entertaining-at-home.html' title='Day 30: Entertaining at Home'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-rGq0ej34NN8/Tqsj6ao0v1I/AAAAAAAADWQ/LD4UQpmxxSE/s72-c/550_101321843.jpeg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-4881664704053879180</id><published>2011-10-29T06:00:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-29T06:00:07.354-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fall'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='holidays'/><title type='text'>Day 29: Showcase Your Home</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-f4Lki3Oqnjw/Tqsf7aRdyHI/AAAAAAAADUw/Hn0YnF-pNbc/s1600/Screen%2Bshot%2B2011-10-26%2Bat%2B7.18.39%2BPM.png" style="text-align: left; " onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 202px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-f4Lki3Oqnjw/Tqsf7aRdyHI/AAAAAAAADUw/Hn0YnF-pNbc/s400/Screen%2Bshot%2B2011-10-26%2Bat%2B7.18.39%2BPM.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668659661501220978" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Mantels and front porches are the most prominent places to decorate year round, for special occasions and for holidays. Since these are usually focal points in a home, they do deserve special attention.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-NFsh4E9zq58/Tqsfe11aOEI/AAAAAAAADUk/2dN6L6veaOA/s1600/img44o.jpeg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 360px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-NFsh4E9zq58/Tqsfe11aOEI/AAAAAAAADUk/2dN6L6veaOA/s400/img44o.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668659170683533378" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Displaying family pictures in your seasonal decor makes them more personal and tells a story, rather than just being there to look pretty. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; cursor: pointer; width: 219px; height: 240px; " src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-TZoQwtiPSR0/Tqsf-Ritt6I/AAAAAAAADU8/QfdjdzCvu-g/s400/Screen%2Bshot%2B2011-10-26%2Bat%2B7.18.59%2BPM.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668659710697256866" /&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px; " src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-v4rA21MHN5Y/TqsRgUCsi9I/AAAAAAAADTc/WFDOf3KNQc4/s400/p_CTH623936.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668643802809404370" /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;If you like to lean towards holiday decor rather than seasonal decor, try to incorporate natural seasonal items (rather than fake greenery, gourds, pine combs and nuts) to keep your decor simple.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px; " src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-z1y3Li6HaAA/TqsRcFUGBeI/AAAAAAAADTQ/q-UfPgggmwA/s400/p_101068557.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668643730136368610" /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-SJQlfq6VGSw/TqsRVxIgAsI/AAAAAAAADTE/lUsppxI1mKU/s1600/p_100367906.jpeg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 360px; height: 360px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-SJQlfq6VGSw/TqsRVxIgAsI/AAAAAAAADTE/lUsppxI1mKU/s400/p_100367906.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668643621639815874" /&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; cursor: pointer; width: 267px; height: 400px; " src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-hjMUuQSAd_0/TqseJxqlU9I/AAAAAAAADUY/6OLBUMqp0JM/s400/fall-mantle.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668657709275501522" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Instead of buying decorations, make some with your kids. The decorations will mean that much more to you, knowing that they were made with love. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-_uGpuvtcfmY/TqsRRV5ykxI/AAAAAAAADS4/1m4aA6j8XMA/s1600/p_101343292.jpeg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-_uGpuvtcfmY/TqsRRV5ykxI/AAAAAAAADS4/1m4aA6j8XMA/s400/p_101343292.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668643545610883858" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;If you don't have a mantel or a front porch (apartment living?), focus on areas in your home that are highly visible (your television console, kitchen island, windows, dining table). &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;Images: &lt;a href="http://www.potterybarn.com/shop/accessories-decor/fall-entertaining-guide/coming-home-guide/?cm_src=autumnal_guide"&gt;1&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.potterybarn.com/shop/accessories-decor/fall-entertaining-guide/simple-displays-guide/?cm_src=autumnal_guide"&gt;2&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.potterybarn.com/shop/accessories-decor/fall-entertaining-guide/coming-home-guide/?cm_src=autumnal_guide"&gt;3&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.bhg.com/decorating/seasonal/autumn/fall-harvest-decorating-ideas/#page=27"&gt;4&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.bhg.com/decorating/seasonal/autumn/fall-harvest-decorating-ideas/#page=16"&gt;5&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.bhg.com/decorating/seasonal/autumn/fall-harvest-decorating-ideas/#page=12"&gt;6&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://sweetsomethingdesign.blogspot.com/2010/09/fall-mantle.html"&gt;7&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.bhg.com/decorating/seasonal/autumn/fall-harvest-decorating-ideas/#page=25"&gt;8&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-4881664704053879180?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/4881664704053879180/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-29-showcase-your-home.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/4881664704053879180'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/4881664704053879180'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-29-showcase-your-home.html' title='Day 29: Showcase Your Home'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-f4Lki3Oqnjw/Tqsf7aRdyHI/AAAAAAAADUw/Hn0YnF-pNbc/s72-c/Screen%2Bshot%2B2011-10-26%2Bat%2B7.18.39%2BPM.png' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-620172498703058576</id><published>2011-10-28T06:00:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-28T06:00:02.664-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fall'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><title type='text'>Day 28: The Heart of The Home</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;For most people, the kitchen is the heart of the home. To add warmth and comfort to your home this time of year, incorporate your senses to create an inviting fall atmosphere in the most important room of your home.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-StaK_2Pp3M0/Tqm2y092aAI/AAAAAAAADR8/gfYilr1ICYo/s1600/p_101536035.jpeg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 360px; height: 300px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-StaK_2Pp3M0/Tqm2y092aAI/AAAAAAAADR8/gfYilr1ICYo/s400/p_101536035.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668262590350256130" /&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-RibTTwIh2pY/Tqm217152BI/AAAAAAAADSI/xXHrImsOGng/s400/p_101536036.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668262643735582738" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;You can start off with simple solutions. Switch out hand towels, kitchen mats, and rearrange your china cabinet to display harvest colors. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; cursor: pointer; width: 267px; height: 400px; " src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-gYVAuiYs278/Tqm7CbfsJeI/AAAAAAAADSg/15ghUe3cb84/s400/l30.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668267256437286370" /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 267px; " src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-VqpDe5p2KCU/Tqm6_lyPx0I/AAAAAAAADSU/IU2CiSwmyFQ/s400/l34.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668267207659865922" /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;But the simplest solution to bring fall into your kitchen is (duh!) by showing off fall's gorgeous seasonal veggies and fruits. (Don't just display your gourds, &lt;a href="http://www.shutterbean.com/fall-air/"&gt;use them&lt;/a&gt; too!)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-eBn3jw7GEaI/Tqmz_ZJbniI/AAAAAAAADRM/Hha-l1cT5Iw/s400/036.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668259507686055458" /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-du2pGekYr10/Tqm2u179YwI/AAAAAAAADRw/ETUdAzQoVLY/s1600/235440826.jpeg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-du2pGekYr10/Tqm2u179YwI/AAAAAAAADRw/ETUdAzQoVLY/s400/235440826.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668262521891283714" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Candles are, of course, one of those sensory items you can use just as well; be sure to choose a food/fruit scent for the kitchen! (Floral scents compete with the natural smell of food cooking in your kitchen!)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-sA7dBP5p0Fs/Tqm0J-Zb08I/AAAAAAAADRY/mou0ZXX6QAk/s1600/quick-easy-fall-home-accents.jpeg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-sA7dBP5p0Fs/Tqm0J-Zb08I/AAAAAAAADRY/mou0ZXX6QAk/s400/quick-easy-fall-home-accents.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5668259689483981762" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Just remember, there's no need to go &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TlzL6pvXFIg&amp;amp;noredirect=1"&gt;over-the-top&lt;/a&gt; in your home, just make it special to you and your family- sometimes simplicity is the best way to achieve happiness. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;images: &lt;a href="http://www.bhg.com/decorating/decorating-style/modern/ranch-home-with-natural-touches/#page=5"&gt;1&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.bhg.com/decorating/decorating-style/modern/ranch-home-with-natural-touches/#page=7"&gt;2&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://theoldpaintedcottage.com/pages/cotm-oct-10.htm"&gt;3&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://theoldpaintedcottage.com/pages/cotm-oct-10.htm"&gt;4&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-VqVNLz_AuQw/ToQJ7SmV1gI/AAAAAAAAD1k/07eYVT1SECc/s1600/036.JPG"&gt;5&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.bhg.com/halloween/outdoor-decorations/gourds-pumpkins-uses/"&gt;6&lt;/a&gt;,&lt;a href="http://www.bhg.com/decorating/seasonal/fall/quick-easy-fall-home-accents/#page=18"&gt; 7&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-620172498703058576?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/620172498703058576/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-28-heart-of-home.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/620172498703058576'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/620172498703058576'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-28-heart-of-home.html' title='Day 28: The Heart of The Home'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-StaK_2Pp3M0/Tqm2y092aAI/AAAAAAAADR8/gfYilr1ICYo/s72-c/p_101536035.jpeg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-509421732239799846</id><published>2011-10-27T06:00:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-27T17:06:42.674-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fall'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='holidays'/><title type='text'>Day 27: Trigger Your Senses</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;&lt;p class="p1" style="text-align: center;"&gt;When fall starts rolling around, you can really feel it. It becomes chilly out and the leaves start turning colors... those senses that you associate with fall start coming back to you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="p1" style="text-align: center;"&gt;In order to celebrate your home, it needs to be personal to you and your family. Using obvious and over-the-top holiday decorations may not necessarily be the way to go, for you. Some great ways to bring fall into your home can be achieved by triggering your senses.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ny8GoX3Sl3E/TqihelZNPPI/AAAAAAAADQ0/iA9NRXPVj0Q/s1600/Screen%2Bshot%2B2011-10-26%2Bat%2B8.10.00%2BPM.png" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 265px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ny8GoX3Sl3E/TqihelZNPPI/AAAAAAAADQ0/iA9NRXPVj0Q/s400/Screen%2Bshot%2B2011-10-26%2Bat%2B8.10.00%2BPM.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5667957677851753714" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Texture&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Cozy knits, pillows, and throw blankets in your home are the sweaters, scarves and boots of your fall wardrobe! Why not wrap yourself up in a cozy blanket while enjoying some good family time? &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-judCF6uCRFA/TqicBL5ryGI/AAAAAAAADPs/aFk-ntIwT88/s1600/p_100098809.jpeg" style="text-align: left; " onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-5iqSuwaC5mY/TqieJFtJVSI/AAAAAAAADQE/d4CshpYjbRg/s400/pumpkin%252Bspice%252Blatte.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5667954010033313058" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Taste &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;You know you've been excited about the return of the Pumpkin Spice Latte! Try out some recipes on your own with seasonal gourds and spices; you might end up with a drink or dish that'll become a new fall tradition.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-20rtI41N7bo/Tqib44igwHI/AAAAAAAADPU/aXqrfmRPV60/s1600/IMG_3349_thumb%255B2%255D.jpeg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 274px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-20rtI41N7bo/Tqib44igwHI/AAAAAAAADPU/aXqrfmRPV60/s400/IMG_3349_thumb%255B2%255D.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5667951532597887090" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Scent&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Pumpkin Spice, Apple Cinnamon, Orange Clove.... whichever scents take you back to fall as a child or remind you of your favorite fall holiday, can really transform the way you feel in your home. Try burning candles in your fireplace or creating your own perfect potpourri mixture! &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-jKEyalY0_MI/TqibtSRDihI/AAAAAAAADO8/K2R4mNHqclk/s1600/id10311.jpeg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 386px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-jKEyalY0_MI/TqibtSRDihI/AAAAAAAADO8/K2R4mNHqclk/s400/id10311.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5667951333345561106" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Colors &lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;If you like to rotate your home decor (ie. switching out throw pillows, artwork, hand towels, etc.) you might want to try out a seasonal color palette. Use whichever colors come to mind when you think of fall- the colors that make you happy. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Decorating your home for the holidays (and any occasion) should be a direct reflection of who your and your family are, by incorporating your senses, you'll feel at home in your home. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;Images &lt;a href="http://www.bhg.com/decorating/color/schemes/cozy-color-schemes-for-every-room/#page=5"&gt;1&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.bhg.com/decorating/seasonal/autumn/fall-harvest-decorating-ideas/#page=29"&gt;2,&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.tumblr.com/tagged/pumpkin+spice+latte"&gt;3&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://janeandeugene.blogspot.com/2010/09/light-candle-and-settle-in-from-rain.html"&gt;4&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.creaturecomfortsblog.com/home/2011/10/3/inspiration-daily-10-03-11.html"&gt;6&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-509421732239799846?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/509421732239799846/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-27-trigger-your-senses.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/509421732239799846'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/509421732239799846'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-27-trigger-your-senses.html' title='Day 27: Trigger Your Senses'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ny8GoX3Sl3E/TqihelZNPPI/AAAAAAAADQ0/iA9NRXPVj0Q/s72-c/Screen%2Bshot%2B2011-10-26%2Bat%2B8.10.00%2BPM.png' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-3457461102223047161</id><published>2011-10-26T06:00:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-26T06:00:16.124-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='faith'/><title type='text'>Day 26: Loveliness</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-1LmGSpEVQcw/TqduEKTF0tI/AAAAAAAADOk/ia6mFmcZCnA/s1600/056.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-1LmGSpEVQcw/TqduEKTF0tI/AAAAAAAADOk/ia6mFmcZCnA/s400/056.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5667619673832018642" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I think back to my childhood, my picture of "home" was many things.  It wasn't always warm chocolate chip cookies when I got home from school, but it was sometimes.  There weren't tons of presents at Christmas, but there were still so many surprises.  It was a rugged picture of real life...joy, brokenness, chaos, struggle, support...but there was always love.  &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Being from a broken home, I convinced myself early on that I had it made...two families, two houses, two Christmases, two birthdays...you get the picture.  It wasn't until later that I realized I would have told myself anything just to get through it. But, even as difficult as the split was, I always knew deep down, that the love in my home(s) was genuine.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Through the years, I have seen how easy it is to portray the picture of joy and celebration, hope and faith.  But much more difficult to "celebrate" the failings. The hurt.  The pain.  The doubt and fear.  It almost sounds like an oxymoron to even say that "c" word when you think of those wounds from the past.  Though, I believe that when we join our voices together, we are truly encouraging and celebrating our lives, be it good or bad. Fun or...not so fun (for lack of a better word).  There is good that comes through it, even though just to admit that sometimes brings tears to my eyes.  I would have chosen a much different road to walk down if I could have, but yet, I wouldn't change a thing about where I am now.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Today is my mom's birthday. I'm celebrating her life, in ways that I can't even explain, but I know it's true.  Last night while I was getting dinner ready, I told the kids that Grandma Beth's birthday would be today.  It was the first year that my daughter started asking me questions about it.  She's heard all the answers before, but never asked with such sincere interest.  Here's the recap.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Me: Tomorrow is Grandma Beth's birthday.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;River: Awww.  How old would she have been?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Me: 61.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;River: That's young! Did she die young?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Me: Yes.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;River: How old was she again?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Me: 48.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;River: 48?? That is young!!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Me: I was 21 and had just married Daddy.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;River: Right after you got married?!  That must have been really hard. Really painful.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Me: Yes, it was. But, God was with me, and even though it was really hard, he helped me get through it.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;River: We'll have to sing her happy birthday to her tomorrow!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Me: I think so, too.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I know this doesn't really have to do anything with an artful event, except that I don't really believe that you can have an artful event in your home, without having love.  If you just throw everything together, and even if it looks beautiful, without love, you'll be missing the most important thing of all.  So here's my tip for today on artful events in your home...don't forget about love...even when it brings a tear to your eye to remember.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-3457461102223047161?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/3457461102223047161/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-26-loveliness.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/3457461102223047161'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/3457461102223047161'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-26-loveliness.html' title='Day 26: Loveliness'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-1LmGSpEVQcw/TqduEKTF0tI/AAAAAAAADOk/ia6mFmcZCnA/s72-c/056.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-8958729634278216044</id><published>2011-10-25T06:00:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-25T06:00:15.220-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fall'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><title type='text'>Day 25: It Has to be You</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-I33rfjXMQQw/TqY2R1QQvvI/AAAAAAAADOM/v5ksB0H5zmA/s1600/RLIgfL_2.jpeg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-597qUsEFVOk/TqYvAH5EaPI/AAAAAAAADOA/UJwnGZPy_ss/s1600/IMG_0975.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 299px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-597qUsEFVOk/TqYvAH5EaPI/AAAAAAAADOA/UJwnGZPy_ss/s400/IMG_0975.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5667268860257265906" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The most important element of any event is that it represents you.  If you feel stuffy and uncomfortable, than it's not really you.  If it's not you, you're not going to be able to &lt;i&gt;really&lt;/i&gt; enjoy it.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The most important place to &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;celebrate&lt;/span&gt; is in your own home.  It doesn't have to happen through a party, though it definitely could.  It doesn't have to happen through elegant and extravagant decor.  It doesn't have to be through a grand dinner with all your friends and family.  It can be in the simplest and smallest ways. But, it has to be you. Real. Honest. You. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Not your best friend.  Not your favorite designer.  Not your favorite DIY blogger.  You.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I'm a lefty, and so as you might imagine, my handwriting has never been beautiful.  I remember when I went to a Creative Memories class years ago, hearing that it didn't matter if you had pretty handwriting or not...all that mattered was that it was yours.  I didn't really like this "rule" because I wanted my pages to look pretty.  And unless I wanted to sit there until Christmas, my &lt;i&gt;handwritten&lt;/i&gt; story page was not going to look "pretty".  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;However, I think about my silver serving platters.  Every time I use them, I turn them over to see an old handwritten label that my mom had placed on them over 30 years ago.  I see her handwritten name on that old faded white label, and every time it makes me smile.  It really does.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;So, I have to go back to sticking with the rule myself.  It has to be you.  If your home does not feel like you when you look around, find out what will make it feel that way.  Talk to your spouse or loved ones.  Take some time to listen to your own interests and likes.  Then, begin to showcase it in your own home.  You'll be surprised at how your home will open into a new phase of celebration, and burst forth with artful events!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-I33rfjXMQQw/TqY2R1QQvvI/AAAAAAAADOM/v5ksB0H5zmA/s400/RLIgfL_2.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5667276861073309426" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 290px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Catch up on the previous 31 days posts starting &lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/31-days-to-artful-event.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-8958729634278216044?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/8958729634278216044/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-25-it-has-to-be-you.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/8958729634278216044'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/8958729634278216044'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-25-it-has-to-be-you.html' title='Day 25: It Has to be You'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-597qUsEFVOk/TqYvAH5EaPI/AAAAAAAADOA/UJwnGZPy_ss/s72-c/IMG_0975.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-6159645766104346464</id><published>2011-10-24T11:10:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-24T15:52:10.235-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='thanksgiving'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fall'/><title type='text'>Day 24: Worth the Wait</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;Sometimes without knowing it, I'll catch myself humming a familiar Christmas tune. Then, I hear myself, and gasp, and tell myself to wait! &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I think I've always been one to savor the moment. On trips I always want my last day of vacation to be spent going out one more time to enjoy wherever we were. I hate just packing up and leaving...it feels like wasting the entire "day" that you could have still been wherever it was you were.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The holidays are no different for me. Last year, I did a &lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2010/10/something-to-celebrate.html"&gt;whole series on this principle&lt;/a&gt;! So, yes, I agree 100% with Nordstrom's policy, and am glad they took my advice last year.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-UZavj0-swcA/TqXAtAWEgQI/AAAAAAAADN0/iH6U9qSABiE/s1600/14763_179287978027_500063027_2825465_1497414_n.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 298px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-UZavj0-swcA/TqXAtAWEgQI/AAAAAAAADN0/iH6U9qSABiE/s400/14763_179287978027_500063027_2825465_1497414_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5667147585534853378" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All this to say, that this last week of our 31 days journey, I'll be sharing some fun tips to fall festivities around the home.  To celebrate this wonderful season we're in, and to encourage you not to miss the glory of Fall around your home.  See you tomorrow!&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-6159645766104346464?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/6159645766104346464/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-24-worth-wait.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6159645766104346464'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6159645766104346464'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-24-worth-wait.html' title='Day 24: Worth the Wait'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-UZavj0-swcA/TqXAtAWEgQI/AAAAAAAADN0/iH6U9qSABiE/s72-c/14763_179287978027_500063027_2825465_1497414_n.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-529165984900971706</id><published>2011-10-23T20:58:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-23T21:51:20.181-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='faith'/><title type='text'>Day 23: The Stuff of Amazement</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-KA89dSRGQj4/TqTEHGZ5RmI/AAAAAAAADNo/pypzI4ZWavw/s1600/sc009d9c70.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 374px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-KA89dSRGQj4/TqTEHGZ5RmI/AAAAAAAADNo/pypzI4ZWavw/s400/sc009d9c70.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5666869857396278882" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today is Sunday, and even though I'm getting to it late, I wanted to have my weekly inspirational post.  Now, I originally was going to have a fun storyboard about weddings to wrap up this week, but after our weekend, I couldn't think of anything more inspirational than what I'm going to share with you.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Sometimes you hear the words, "they're an amazing person." Or, "They're really a good guy." But this weekend we celebrated the life of possibly the most amazing man I've ever known.  Not just because he was my husband's sweet grandfather, and not even because he treated me like his own granddaughter, though, those things did make him wonderful.  But, because, his story is one like I've never known, and their truly do not seem to be men like him anymore.  And, as my father in law said at the memorial service, if he could even be half the man he was, than, he'd be doing pretty well.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The stories of Grandpop's life, are stories that sound almost made up.  And words like "integrity" and "honor" almost feel too watered down to use for him.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Being born to a young couple who had recently stepped off a boat from Poland, meant that you didn't exactly have it made.  Growing up outside of Philadelphia, he worked with his dad at the steel mill, after school to be able to help provide for the family.  Losing his father at an early age, meant that he had to continue working at the mill for pennies an hour.  He rode a horse to school, and then back home in the afternoon.  In the cold Philadelphia winters, there were times when he and other boys would go down to the railroad and jump aboard moving trains just to knock a few handfuls of coal off the train cars, so that they wouldn't freeze to death.  As he continued working and living in this small outside town of Philly, he met a pretty Polish girl, who with much persistence finally said yes to going out on a date with him.  He fell in love, and as many stories go, was married before the war.  Even though he was playing in the basketball league that became what we know as the NCAA, he went on and enlisted in the service to protect our country during WWII.  He fought on a ship in the South Pacific for 3 years of excruciating combat...and in his own words said felt like a nightmare.  Upon arriving home, he returned to work at the steel mill for 9 hours a day, then went to night school to get a degree.  And oh yeah, while he literally built his 3 bedroom 1 bath house with his bare hands and simple hand tools.  He stayed there the rest of his life...as content as a millionaire in a mansion.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;He was a man committed to doing things exceedingly well, and without an ounce of compromise.  He was always faithful to his wife, loving to his children, and was always a man of character.  This past January, he finally became complete.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;He had always struggled with how a loving God could allow so much evil to persist in our world.  Being exposed to what he had been, I can't blame him for a second for the struggle. He had always asked why, and wondered about faith.  He was willing to wrestle with God.  And, this past January, about 45 min. before he turned 91, he finally surrendered the match.  He chose to give up his fight to understand it all, and simply believed the good news and received a good God into his heart and life.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The past few months were not easy for this sweet man, as he battled cancer til the end.  But finally, after such a long journey, he is at rest.  And now, he can fully see, even as he is fully known.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;"For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then we shall see face to face.  Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known."  1 Corinthians 13:12&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-529165984900971706?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/529165984900971706/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-23-stuff-of-amazement.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/529165984900971706'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/529165984900971706'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-23-stuff-of-amazement.html' title='Day 23: The Stuff of Amazement'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-KA89dSRGQj4/TqTEHGZ5RmI/AAAAAAAADNo/pypzI4ZWavw/s72-c/sc009d9c70.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-8608578402805837388</id><published>2011-10-22T06:00:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-22T06:00:08.318-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weddings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><title type='text'>Day 22: Weddingland Wrap Up</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-XiahWfNmiUg/Tpua3AeoacI/AAAAAAAADL8/RBSN7J8PaHk/s400/1440_1944_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664291226160490946" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 301px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;We had a blast pulling this wedding together. It came together beautifully, and I'm so glad I had the opportunity to work with Abby and Allan to make their day become a reality.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-zuIBUGCidvE/TpubxBPHOSI/AAAAAAAADNc/nckA_kV3rlY/s1600/3649_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-AywCcEQpoYU/Tpubwc_JAuI/AAAAAAAADNU/RtxdEca_xnM/s1600/2536_2590_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-AywCcEQpoYU/Tpubwc_JAuI/AAAAAAAADNU/RtxdEca_xnM/s400/2536_2590_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664292213065581282" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 301px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-PaMR9wuF4D8/TpubwCteqtI/AAAAAAAADNA/13x5M_9lq-k/s1600/2548_2621_2652_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-PaMR9wuF4D8/TpubwCteqtI/AAAAAAAADNA/13x5M_9lq-k/s400/2548_2621_2652_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664292206012181202" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 199px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-nRrMgAG0DUc/TpubvyTncTI/AAAAAAAADM4/4B0ycHHnBD8/s1600/2834_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-nRrMgAG0DUc/TpubvyTncTI/AAAAAAAADM4/4B0ycHHnBD8/s400/2834_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664292201608737074" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 271px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-5mlcNDl5vE4/Tpua4Oa7miI/AAAAAAAADMs/mTPVla7-f2U/s1600/2603_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-5mlcNDl5vE4/Tpua4Oa7miI/AAAAAAAADMs/mTPVla7-f2U/s400/2603_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664291247082936866" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 271px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-XEjoZvY-HT8/Tpua308pa1I/AAAAAAAADMc/1dvlIbiALno/s1600/2560_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-XEjoZvY-HT8/Tpua308pa1I/AAAAAAAADMc/1dvlIbiALno/s400/2560_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664291240245029714" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 271px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-LePkEPVhXRI/Tpua3cbzlBI/AAAAAAAADMU/_jGc6ikoO7s/s1600/1806_1844_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-LePkEPVhXRI/Tpua3cbzlBI/AAAAAAAADMU/_jGc6ikoO7s/s400/1806_1844_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664291233664832530" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 301px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-DzK1TfT3kzU/Tpua3TvsX9I/AAAAAAAADME/N3ZycZt93eI/s1600/1465_3022_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-DzK1TfT3kzU/Tpua3TvsX9I/AAAAAAAADME/N3ZycZt93eI/s400/1465_3022_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664291231332327378" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 301px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-zuIBUGCidvE/TpubxBPHOSI/AAAAAAAADNc/nckA_kV3rlY/s400/3649_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664292222796249378" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 271px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663333;"&gt;I loved watching them ride off together. They are such a sweet couple, who (as you can tell) have a blast together!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;The amazing photographer who stepped in just hours before the wedding, truly saved the day. She tells more of the story with her creative genius &lt;a href="http://almondleafstudios.com/blog/?p=6122"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-8608578402805837388?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/8608578402805837388/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-22-weddingland-wrap-up.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/8608578402805837388'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/8608578402805837388'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-22-weddingland-wrap-up.html' title='Day 22: Weddingland Wrap Up'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-XiahWfNmiUg/Tpua3AeoacI/AAAAAAAADL8/RBSN7J8PaHk/s72-c/1440_1944_abby_allen.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-1367239488543597515</id><published>2011-10-21T04:00:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-21T04:21:58.079-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weddings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='design'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='flowers'/><title type='text'>Day 21: Decor &amp; Design</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-zM3xpEAbse0/TpuWIAah1xI/AAAAAAAADLw/ZEKdNB52rjA/s1600/3073_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 271px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-zM3xpEAbse0/TpuWIAah1xI/AAAAAAAADLw/ZEKdNB52rjA/s400/3073_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664286020642920210" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;One thing that Abby really wanted were balloons.  She mentioned it in one of our first meetings, and I knew it was the "thing" she wanted the most...that and frozen yogurt, which we also accomplished.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;We rented a helium tank, and ordered a bunch jumbo balloons, (begged WinMock to let us use them!) and for hours on the day of, blew up her big beautiful balloons.  And, they really were fabulous.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-FZ5-G1VA1Ao/TpuWHTp5mTI/AAAAAAAADLY/hR1HNaxiomA/s1600/3058_3050_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 301px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-FZ5-G1VA1Ao/TpuWHTp5mTI/AAAAAAAADLY/hR1HNaxiomA/s400/3058_3050_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664286008627796274" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;That gray sky was perfect for those pictures...and thankfully the reception was inside the barn.  Those dark clouds soon turned to a tornado warning, but we just kept right on dancing!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Abby and Allan had a poster board with their silhouettes holding balloon strings, where guests used stamp pads to stamp in their thumb print as the balloons.  So cute and personable!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-4C1l9Tgtfig/TpuWHiNQiQI/AAAAAAAADLo/E65yytK74_o/s1600/2952_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-4C1l9Tgtfig/TpuWHiNQiQI/AAAAAAAADLo/E65yytK74_o/s400/2952_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664286012534196482" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 271px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;For the tables we used a collection of wine bottles and antique milk jugs to display fresh wildflowers.  We had twine globes, so I stuck mason jars into the middle of the globe, and had the candles inside for a different version of a votive.  We scrunched a little burlap under each centerpiece to give it some texture and interest.  They turned out great!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-pp38KlsxWjc/TpuMjyJ4DLI/AAAAAAAADKo/AvFPcdGKg8E/s1600/1060_1069_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 301px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-pp38KlsxWjc/TpuMjyJ4DLI/AAAAAAAADKo/AvFPcdGKg8E/s400/1060_1069_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664275502735035570" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Remember all those beautiful bridesmaids?  Well, we put their bouquets to good use and repurposed them as centerpieces on our smaller hi-boy tables.  They were just the right size, and allowed us to save a little, too!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-0Hv5ziYu860/TpuWHdDxM7I/AAAAAAAADLM/LOqv2nNM53s/s1600/1913_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-0Hv5ziYu860/TpuWHdDxM7I/AAAAAAAADLM/LOqv2nNM53s/s400/1913_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664286011152217010" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 271px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;My favorite florist, &lt;a href="http://www.farmandfiligree.com/"&gt;Farm and Filigree&lt;/a&gt;, did a great job designing the bouquets!  They were rustic enough to go with the barn feel, but still extremely elegant.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;We loved all the little touches that made this wedding feel like Abby and Allan.  All day, I kept hearing people say,"It's just so Abby!" Unknowingly, they were giving the perfect compliment to me.  It was such a fun design scheme, and yet maintained the sophistication we wanted for their wedding.  Mission accomplished!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Linking up today with &lt;a href="http://studiojru.com/blog/"&gt;In the Studio&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-1367239488543597515?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/1367239488543597515/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-21-decor-design.html#comment-form' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/1367239488543597515'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/1367239488543597515'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-21-decor-design.html' title='Day 21: Decor &amp; Design'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-zM3xpEAbse0/TpuWIAah1xI/AAAAAAAADLw/ZEKdNB52rjA/s72-c/3073_abby_allen.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-7084357629843250590</id><published>2011-10-20T06:00:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-20T06:00:14.315-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weddings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><title type='text'>Day 20: Now for the Gals!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ciCIm2cEWnI/TpuNCluiXjI/AAAAAAAADLA/Vs9Y7zNy9_o/s1600/girls%2Bstoryboard.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Mn9uXWR-viI/TpuJkLjaOlI/AAAAAAAADKc/d_ZFgzbxXDw/s1600/1094_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-r0oapUm4AC8/TpuHjAhEVBI/AAAAAAAADJ0/_KCff24M6h0/s1600/1633_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-r0oapUm4AC8/TpuHjAhEVBI/AAAAAAAADJ0/_KCff24M6h0/s400/1633_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664269991852397586" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 271px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Yesterday, I showed you all about the guys dapper outfits, but today, we'll see how cute those bridesmaids were...all 13 of them!!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-kRV0S5EZEkE/TpuHjd5jX7I/AAAAAAAADKI/-K2iKXm0U2s/s400/1533_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664269999739723698" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 271px; " /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Abby requested for the girls to get a black dress that they liked and would feel comfortable wearing. And, as you might have guessed with the theme thus far, she requested that they all wear cowboy boots.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;It was cute as pie, and they pulled them off beautifully!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-bbcDN_8gDaE/TpuHj2w6y3I/AAAAAAAADKQ/RqkqY-uSI4g/s1600/1911_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-bbcDN_8gDaE/TpuHj2w6y3I/AAAAAAAADKQ/RqkqY-uSI4g/s1600/1911_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-ciCIm2cEWnI/TpuNCluiXjI/AAAAAAAADLA/Vs9Y7zNy9_o/s400/girls%2Bstoryboard.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664276031975087666" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 392px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;My sweet friend and her daughter were the maid of honor and flower girl. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Both are beauties!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-bbcDN_8gDaE/TpuHj2w6y3I/AAAAAAAADKQ/RqkqY-uSI4g/s400/1911_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664270006414396274" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 271px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Abby's shoes were the exception. Her shoes of choice were a pair of white glittery &lt;a href="http://www.toms.com/womens/glitters/bridal-white-women-s-glitter"&gt;Toms&lt;/a&gt;!  So fun...and definitely her!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Mn9uXWR-viI/TpuJkLjaOlI/AAAAAAAADKc/d_ZFgzbxXDw/s400/1094_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664272211018136146" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 271px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;We'll continue unwrapping this wedding tomorrow. We only have 11 days left on our 31 day series...can't wait to continue celebrating with you!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-7084357629843250590?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/7084357629843250590/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-20-now-for-gals.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/7084357629843250590'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/7084357629843250590'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-20-now-for-gals.html' title='Day 20: Now for the Gals!'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-r0oapUm4AC8/TpuHjAhEVBI/AAAAAAAADJ0/_KCff24M6h0/s72-c/1633_abby_allen.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-6870038656995027830</id><published>2011-10-19T06:00:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-19T06:00:04.019-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weddings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><title type='text'>Day 19: Dapper Guys</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Ht-maTayn7g/TpuMyGjTUoI/AAAAAAAADK0/zQrRFmd1XHk/s1600/guys%2Bstoryboard.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 392px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Ht-maTayn7g/TpuMyGjTUoI/AAAAAAAADK0/zQrRFmd1XHk/s400/guys%2Bstoryboard.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664275748728558210" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;With so little time, we knew that we had to get attire done...and quick!  I already told you how she wanted sunflowers and girls in black dresses, so that was an easy answer for her "colors".  However, sometimes ordering attire can take more time than what you would expect.  And, I don't know about your wedding, but most of the grooms and groomsmen that I know aren't exactly the most prompt with getting their fittings done and orders placed. *ahem*&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;All that said, this groom did a great job!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-iM68gE-WDNc/TptYJVxrSQI/AAAAAAAADJc/3X5P1JrwysY/s1600/1377_1386_1389_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 199px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-iM68gE-WDNc/TptYJVxrSQI/AAAAAAAADJc/3X5P1JrwysY/s400/1377_1386_1389_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664217873836099842" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;He coordinated with his guys and they came up with the most clever attire.  It was still elegant, but such a fun twist on the average black suit.  Totally kept with the theme.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-lb3BzAm8J9Y/TptYJFF1kjI/AAAAAAAADJI/I3DujCIly8g/s400/1210_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664217869357257266" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 271px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;The groomsmen rocked out their Chucks and argyle socks.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-a8FI_7jlijI/TptYJOwgsQI/AAAAAAAADJU/C3J96nqaoGU/s1600/1296_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 271px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-a8FI_7jlijI/TptYJOwgsQI/AAAAAAAADJU/C3J96nqaoGU/s400/1296_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664217871952163074" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-6870038656995027830?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/6870038656995027830/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-19-dapper-guys.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6870038656995027830'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6870038656995027830'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-19-dapper-guys.html' title='Day 19: Dapper Guys'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Ht-maTayn7g/TpuMyGjTUoI/AAAAAAAADK0/zQrRFmd1XHk/s72-c/guys%2Bstoryboard.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-7067810135825439908</id><published>2011-10-18T06:00:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-18T06:00:10.379-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weddings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><title type='text'>Day 18: Where to Begin?!?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;As you can well imagine, Abby was totally excited, but totally overwhelmed with knowing even where to begin. She knew that she loved the &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:100%;"&gt;country and &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;sunflowers&lt;/span&gt;.   She knew that she wanted her girls to wear black. But, more than anything, she wanted a wedding that would be &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;fun and comfortable&lt;/span&gt; for her friends and family and would &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;glorify God&lt;/span&gt; while they celebrated.  Using those couple of details, we developed the &lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/31-days-to-artful-event.html"&gt;vision&lt;/a&gt; for her wedding.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;The first step to knock out was the question of &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;where?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-o043jEUuP_g/TptTMFgOQII/AAAAAAAADJA/Y6BQk_mBqAI/s1600/1021_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 271px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-o043jEUuP_g/TptTMFgOQII/AAAAAAAADJA/Y6BQk_mBqAI/s400/1021_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664212423449395330" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div&gt;Her family's home is just up the road from WinMock at Kinderton, and we knew that this location would be an exceptional choice for what she was envisioning for her wedding.  After visiting this wonderful venue, we knew it was the perfect place for her big day!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-oOvLUHgibLY/TptTL0aS_1I/AAAAAAAADIw/-lbxNy1gXhE/s1600/1016_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 271px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-oOvLUHgibLY/TptTL0aS_1I/AAAAAAAADIw/-lbxNy1gXhE/s400/1016_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664212418861137746" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;Continue with us tomorrow as we continue to walk through how we made this wedding an artful event!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-7067810135825439908?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/7067810135825439908/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-18-where-to-begin.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/7067810135825439908'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/7067810135825439908'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-18-where-to-begin.html' title='Day 18: Where to Begin?!?'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-o043jEUuP_g/TptTMFgOQII/AAAAAAAADJA/Y6BQk_mBqAI/s72-c/1021_abby_allen.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-3987394521101863097</id><published>2011-10-17T06:00:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-17T06:00:08.803-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weddings'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><title type='text'>Day 17: The Way of a Wedding</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;You may or may not have noticed, but weddings are getting more and more personalized, and more and more fabulous.  I love how much creativity there can be in designing a wedding.  It's not just a grand celebration, though it is that indeed.  It's also a representation of the couple's personality.  What has made them who they are, and who they are together.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;When you consider how to bring in all of the detail to a wedding, you might think about how long it would take, and how complicated it could be to pull together.  To make it &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;artful&lt;/span&gt;, you would imagine, you would have to have months and months!  However, this precious bride, did not have much time at all.  I met Abby just after she had gotten engaged, and we had about...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;7 weeks to plan her wedding!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Bomat-1pKpc/TptNwPRrqeI/AAAAAAAADIo/43YRflUhVYQ/s1600/1012_1023_1087_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-X-ukgcSdoAw/TptNwEeaigI/AAAAAAAADIY/zf5KR6iXb2Y/s1600/1007_1176_abby_allen.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 301px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-X-ukgcSdoAw/TptNwEeaigI/AAAAAAAADIY/zf5KR6iXb2Y/s400/1007_1176_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664206444578900482" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;There are some people who would have called her and her sparkly-eyed groom-to-be crazy.  But, I looked at her with smiling eyes, and said, "We've got a lot of work to do, but we can absolutely do this!"  With tears in her eyes, she said how excited she was, which was clear as day already.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Bomat-1pKpc/TptNwPRrqeI/AAAAAAAADIo/43YRflUhVYQ/s400/1012_1023_1087_abby_allen.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664206447478286818" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 199px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663333;"&gt;I can't wait to walk you through how this wedding became an exceptionally fun day, bursting with creativity and personality.  Join me this week as we continue our 31 day journey to an artful event!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663333;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663333;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;Previous 31 Day Posts:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/31-days-to-artful-event.html"&gt;Day 1: 31 Days to an Artful Event&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/haves-and-have-nots.html"&gt;Day 2: The Haves and the Have Nots&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/few-of-my-favorite-things.html"&gt;Day 3: A Few of My Favorite Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/thinking-outside-of-berry-box.html"&gt;Day 4: Thinking Outside of the (Berry) Box&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-5-its-little-things.html"&gt;Day 5: It's the Little Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-6-layering-is-good-thing.html"&gt;Day 6: Layering is a Good Thing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-7-allowing-it-to-be.html"&gt;Day 7: Allowing it to Be&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-8-finished-product.html"&gt;Day 8: The Finished Product&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-9-indulging-on-sunday.html"&gt;Day 9: Indulging on a Sunday&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-10-greatest-show-on-earth.html"&gt;Day 10: The Greatest Show on Earth&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-11-come-one-come-all.html"&gt;Day 11: Come One, Come All!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-12-could-it-get-any-better.html"&gt;Day 12: Could it Get Any Better?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-13-drink-be-merry.html"&gt;Day 13: Drink &amp;amp; Be Merry!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/more-sweetness-to-come.html"&gt;Day 14: More Sweetness to Come&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-15-let-games-begin.html"&gt;Day 15: Let the Games Begin&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-16-things-of-glory.html"&gt;Day 16: Things of Glory&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-3987394521101863097?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/3987394521101863097/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-17-way-of-wedding.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/3987394521101863097'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/3987394521101863097'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-17-way-of-wedding.html' title='Day 17: The Way of a Wedding'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-X-ukgcSdoAw/TptNwEeaigI/AAAAAAAADIY/zf5KR6iXb2Y/s72-c/1007_1176_abby_allen.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-215122700654143225</id><published>2011-10-16T08:47:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-16T09:03:08.521-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fall'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='faith'/><title type='text'>Day 16: Things of Glory</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-V6YxjVkCcTg/TprVp-iibbI/AAAAAAAADIM/mN9vKznWE-M/s1600/P1020582.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-V6YxjVkCcTg/TprVp-iibbI/AAAAAAAADIM/mN9vKznWE-M/s400/P1020582.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5664074398511033778" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Today, I'm finding inspiration in the most mundane, &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;and yet miraculous things of all.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Spotting a woodpecker from my kitchen window.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Hearing the sweetest words from a child.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;A hot breakfast with lots of laughter to share.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Somewhere Over the Rainbow streaming through the house sung so beautifully.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;The leaves giving their curtain call.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;The faith of a child.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;May we find the grace today to see glory all around us in the littlest of ways.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;What are the things inspiring you today?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-215122700654143225?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/215122700654143225/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-16-things-of-glory.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/215122700654143225'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/215122700654143225'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-16-things-of-glory.html' title='Day 16: Things of Glory'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-V6YxjVkCcTg/TprVp-iibbI/AAAAAAAADIM/mN9vKznWE-M/s72-c/P1020582.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-6616986497914742796</id><published>2011-10-15T06:00:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-15T06:00:09.105-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='kids'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='ideas'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parties'/><title type='text'>Day 15: Let the Games Begin!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Last but not least, a circus party should always include some fun games!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-KklbqwYuGdc/TpkSfhsRekI/AAAAAAAADIE/U6XW2WaaOtI/s1600/carnival%2Bparty%2B005.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 267px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-hM9oiuL35oM/TpkSejeTMpI/AAAAAAAADHo/KdkYBykXTEI/s400/carnival%2Bparty%2B012.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5663578322522813074" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think the most fun part of a carnival or circus themed party is the games that you can plan.  You can create a unique atmosphere simply by having several areas set up with interactive games, varied to the age group of the guests coming.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;For a preschool aged carnival, you could have some simple stations, such as "Bean Bag Toss", "Knock Down", "Pin the Tail on the Lion" or even a "Dress Like a Clown" dress up area.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;At a preschool carnival party I did a while back, the guests enjoyed decorating their prize bags as they arrived.  It was a simple way to get the kids engaged from the beginning!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-KklbqwYuGdc/TpkSfhsRekI/AAAAAAAADIE/U6XW2WaaOtI/s400/carnival%2Bparty%2B005.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5663578339224418882" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 267px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Or for older kids or adults, you could have more interactive and challenging areas set up.  You can tweak it to your age group, child's personality, or simply what you want the party to feel like.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;To give the party that carnival feel you can make signs for each game, &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;so the kids feel like they're visiting each station and game of the carnival.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Q-GAFNn0fWA/TpkSe3uU0QI/AAAAAAAADH0/Xa01ELp22Xw/s400/carnival%2Bparty%2B019.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5663578327958737154" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 267px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Here's a pretty &lt;a href="http://www.schoolcarnivals.com/Games/alphabetical.htm"&gt;extensive list of carnival games and activities&lt;/a&gt; that have variations and ideas for each game.  Or you can come up with your own. The possibilities are endless!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;We're half way through our 31 Days to an Artful Event.  I hope that you'll join me this coming week as we enter into week three of our journey!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Previous 31 Day Posts:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/31-days-to-artful-event.html"&gt;Day 1: 31 Days to an Artful Event&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/haves-and-have-nots.html"&gt;Day 2: The Haves and the Have Nots&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/few-of-my-favorite-things.html"&gt;Day 3: A Few of My Favorite Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/thinking-outside-of-berry-box.html"&gt;Day 4: Thinking Outside of the (Berry) Box&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-5-its-little-things.html"&gt;Day 5: It's the Little Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-6-layering-is-good-thing.html"&gt;Day 6: Layering is a Good Thing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-7-allowing-it-to-be.html"&gt;Day 7: Allowing it to Be&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-8-finished-product.html"&gt;Day 8: The Finished Product&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-9-indulging-on-sunday.html"&gt;Day 9: Indulging on a Sunday&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-10-greatest-show-on-earth.html"&gt;Day 10: The Greatest Show on Earth&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-11-come-one-come-all.html"&gt;Day 11: Come One, Come All!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-12-could-it-get-any-better.html"&gt;Day 12: Could it Get Any Better?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-13-drink-be-merry.html"&gt;Day 13: Drink &amp;amp; Be Merry!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/more-sweetness-to-come.html"&gt;Day 14: More Sweetness to Come&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-6616986497914742796?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/6616986497914742796/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-15-let-games-begin.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6616986497914742796'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6616986497914742796'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-15-let-games-begin.html' title='Day 15: Let the Games Begin!'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-hM9oiuL35oM/TpkSejeTMpI/AAAAAAAADHo/KdkYBykXTEI/s72-c/carnival%2Bparty%2B012.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-6247532778789140437</id><published>2011-10-14T00:00:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-15T01:14:47.456-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='favors'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='design'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='good eats'/><title type='text'>Day 14: More Sweetness to Come!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Cydr_Zrqpxk/TopzoJP-OuI/AAAAAAAADEg/K-t7J4rRIT0/s1600/carnival_07.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Cydr_Zrqpxk/TopzoJP-OuI/AAAAAAAADEg/K-t7J4rRIT0/s400/carnival_07.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5659463015259323106" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 358px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;So, just when you thought there wouldn't be any more sugar added to this party...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-3nLehWA0W_Y/TpULqp69_-I/AAAAAAAADHM/4iHMylzFIx0/s1600/Candy%2BBar%2Bwith%2Bbags.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-3nLehWA0W_Y/TpULqp69_-I/AAAAAAAADHM/4iHMylzFIx0/s400/Candy%2BBar%2Bwith%2Bbags.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5662444933923864546" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left; "&gt;Instead of a traditional birthday cake, the candy bar buffet is such a cute way to continue the carnival theme. Buy candy in bulk, and then display it in glass containers.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-dAChZE6DCYg/TpULqhYM7tI/AAAAAAAADHE/__zDl53My-g/s1600/old-fashioned-wedding-candy-bar.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 305px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-dAChZE6DCYg/TpULqhYM7tI/AAAAAAAADHE/__zDl53My-g/s400/old-fashioned-wedding-candy-bar.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5662444931630558930" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;Set out bags for guests to fill as they'd like. The candy buffet can be the prizes for the games, and also a tasty favor to take with them.  Enjoy the sweetness for days to come!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;Catch up on all the 31 Day Posts!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/31-days-to-artful-event.html"&gt;Day 1: 31 Days to an Artful Event&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/haves-and-have-nots.html"&gt;Day 2: The Haves and the Have Nots&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/few-of-my-favorite-things.html"&gt;Day 3: A Few of My Favorite Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/thinking-outside-of-berry-box.html"&gt;Day 4: Thinking Outside of the (Berry) Box&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-5-its-little-things.html"&gt;Day 5: It's the Little Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-6-layering-is-good-thing.html"&gt;Day 6: Layering is a Good Thing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-7-allowing-it-to-be.html"&gt;Day 7: Allowing it to Be&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-8-finished-product.html"&gt;Day 8: The Finished Product&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-9-indulging-on-sunday.html"&gt;Day 9: Indulging on a Sunday&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-10-greatest-show-on-earth.html"&gt;Day 10: The Greatest Show on Earth&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-11-come-one-come-all.html"&gt;Day 11: Come One, Come All!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-12-could-it-get-any-better.html"&gt;Day 12: Could it Get Any Better?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-13-drink-be-merry.html"&gt;Day 13: Drink &amp;amp; Be Merry!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-6247532778789140437?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/6247532778789140437/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/more-sweetness-to-come.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6247532778789140437'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6247532778789140437'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/more-sweetness-to-come.html' title='Day 14: More Sweetness to Come!'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Cydr_Zrqpxk/TopzoJP-OuI/AAAAAAAADEg/K-t7J4rRIT0/s72-c/carnival_07.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-9039175128073815546</id><published>2011-10-13T00:00:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-13T00:00:00.913-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='beverages'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tips'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><title type='text'>Day 13: Drink &amp; Be Merry!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;Drinks are easy to forget about when you're planning a party.  You get so focused on food and games, that they can easily go by the way side.  However, planning for them is another step to making your event a great one!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-PZG_MbfMLQs/To0gY5LNdII/AAAAAAAADFo/n9n3iyaLeAI/s1600/4592789238_dcc2e8f7cf_o.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ASMgOZfTYVc/Topx3ZNh22I/AAAAAAAADDg/_-vpVuwL2gY/s1600/il_570xN.259531255.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 289px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ASMgOZfTYVc/Topx3ZNh22I/AAAAAAAADDg/_-vpVuwL2gY/s400/il_570xN.259531255.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5659461078218824546" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;How cute are these straws?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;I think cute drinking straws are one the most fun new party trends. I  mean, so simple, but so fun...it's like every time you take a sip, you get to have a little party (and you wonder why I'm an event designer).&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2010/06/friday-finds-outdoor-parties.html"&gt;Remember how much I love tins&lt;/a&gt; to hold drinks? &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;This circus themed beverage station caught my eye!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-aHPdSzE1z6w/Topx3hSVjVI/AAAAAAAADDo/HWrvH9LK1gc/s400/DSC_7432.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5659461080386473298" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 267px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;The beverages for an event are almost as important to plan for as the food. People may not always want to eat, but they almost always enjoy a beverage of some type.  And, drinks can add so much to your decor and atmosphere. Not to mention, it's just another way to continue carrying out the theme.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-PZG_MbfMLQs/To0gY5LNdII/AAAAAAAADFo/n9n3iyaLeAI/s400/4592789238_dcc2e8f7cf_o.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5660215918711370882" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 266px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;So, drink and be merry!  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Continue with us on our 31 Day Journey to an Artful Event tomorrow!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-9039175128073815546?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/9039175128073815546/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-13-drink-be-merry.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/9039175128073815546'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/9039175128073815546'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-13-drink-be-merry.html' title='Day 13: Drink &amp; Be Merry!'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ASMgOZfTYVc/Topx3ZNh22I/AAAAAAAADDg/_-vpVuwL2gY/s72-c/il_570xN.259531255.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-567274390807730811</id><published>2011-10-12T00:00:00.011-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-12T00:00:06.415-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fall'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='good eats'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parties'/><title type='text'>Day 12: Could it Get Any Better?</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-M1avtQWkhxg/TpUNv1QAkmI/AAAAAAAADHc/6RPojOzBQ9A/s1600/msw_fall_06_gt_mini_l.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-bJW9NMjL75Y/TpUDPH0iHBI/AAAAAAAADG4/sd6o5g5KWkY/s1600/ynTWTd.jpeg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 309px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-bJW9NMjL75Y/TpUDPH0iHBI/AAAAAAAADG4/sd6o5g5KWkY/s400/ynTWTd.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5662435664820575250" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;I told you about how I &lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-10-greatest-show-on-earth.html"&gt;bribed my son with visions of popcorn&lt;/a&gt; and other carnival goodies. But I didn't tell you that really I was just tempting myself with all my favorite carnival food.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Ok, you might think, CARNIVAL FOOD?!? That's so much work!!!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;But, really, carnival food is the easiest of all to plan for...(not necessarily the healthiest, but just add some &lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-5-its-little-things.html"&gt;fruit and veggie trays to the spread&lt;/a&gt;...remember the trick!)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;1. Hot Dogs. Throw them in a &lt;a href="http://www.food.com/recipe/hot-dogs-in-slow-cooker-312348"&gt;crock pot&lt;/a&gt; for a couple hours on high. Set out fixings near the crock pot, so people can design their own dog. Done.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;2. Popcorn...Easy!  Either pop it ahead of time, or have it popping in a popcorn machine while the carnival is in progress (always adds to the carnival atmosphere!)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;3. Cotton Candy...so pretty and a carnival favorite!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;4. Old Fashion Donut Holes!  They are so yum...especially cute with fun bags.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;5. Another fair favorite are those big soft pretzels.  This &lt;a href="http://allrecipes.com/recipe/mall-pretzels/detail.aspx"&gt;recipe&lt;/a&gt; looks pretty great!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;6. Snow Cones! Rent a snow cone machine or even get your own machine to enjoy for several parties to come.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;7.  And last, but definitely not least, splurge with some delicious candy or caramel apples to really give it that carnival feel. You could wrap them up individually and give as favors, or just have them as another treat during the party.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;*side note: Candy Apples are also very popular for&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;fall weddings for a creative and &lt;a href="http://www.daffyapple.com/default.aspx"&gt;fun twist on a favor&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-M1avtQWkhxg/TpUNv1QAkmI/AAAAAAAADHc/6RPojOzBQ9A/s400/msw_fall_06_gt_mini_l.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5662447221887504994" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 225px; height: 281px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#663300;"&gt;Check back tomorrow for the next step in the planning of our Vintage Carnival Party!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;Catch up on all the 31 Day Posts!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/31-days-to-artful-event.html"&gt;Day 1: 31 Days to an Artful Event&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/haves-and-have-nots.html"&gt;Day 2: The Haves and the Have Nots&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/few-of-my-favorite-things.html"&gt;Day 3: A Few of My Favorite Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/thinking-outside-of-berry-box.html"&gt;Day 4: Thinking Outside of the (Berry) Box&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-5-its-little-things.html"&gt;Day 5: It's the Little Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-6-layering-is-good-thing.html"&gt;Day 6: Layering is a Good Thing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-7-allowing-it-to-be.html"&gt;Day 7: Allowing it to Be&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-8-finished-product.html"&gt;Day 8: The Finished Product&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-9-indulging-on-sunday.html"&gt;Day 9: Indulging on a Sunday&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-10-greatest-show-on-earth.html"&gt;Day 10: The Greatest Show on Earth&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-11-come-one-come-all.html"&gt;Day 11: Come One, Come All!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-567274390807730811?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/567274390807730811/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-12-could-it-get-any-better.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/567274390807730811'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/567274390807730811'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-12-could-it-get-any-better.html' title='Day 12: Could it Get Any Better?'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-bJW9NMjL75Y/TpUDPH0iHBI/AAAAAAAADG4/sd6o5g5KWkY/s72-c/ynTWTd.jpeg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-3733806892470142004</id><published>2011-10-11T00:00:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-11T00:00:00.693-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='kids'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='birthdays'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fall'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parties'/><title type='text'>Day 11: Come One, Come All...</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ijrMMc3w7fo/To0WlL0dxTI/AAAAAAAADFg/Y5CKgmHBeC8/s1600/il_570xN.274813938.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 368px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ijrMMc3w7fo/To0WlL0dxTI/AAAAAAAADFg/Y5CKgmHBeC8/s400/il_570xN.274813938.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5660205134758397234" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;After having been &lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-10-greatest-show-on-earth.html"&gt;inspired by a pack of stickers&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;I went on a hunt to find &lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;an artful invitation&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rrptwO_-znc/To0Wk7-tMrI/AAAAAAAADFY/gsj1qpCrKCM/s1600/il_570xN.247015935.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 286px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-rrptwO_-znc/To0Wk7-tMrI/AAAAAAAADFY/gsj1qpCrKCM/s400/il_570xN.247015935.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5660205130506384050" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt; I knew &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/www.etsy.com"&gt;Etsy&lt;/a&gt; would have more than enough options to find the perfect one. I simply searched for my theme ("vintage circus invitation") and up came a ton of choices.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-dqAWEtb3sX4/To0Wkl10fJI/AAAAAAAADFQ/P1dRIsTSFt4/s1600/il_570xN.272449392.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 286px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-dqAWEtb3sX4/To0Wkl10fJI/AAAAAAAADFQ/P1dRIsTSFt4/s400/il_570xN.272449392.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5660205124563532946" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;I always love supporting a fellow artist, and it's so fun to be able &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;to carry out the theme of the event.  To me, the invitation is like a &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large; "&gt;sneak peek into the event!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Ag2XexgEqY0/To0WkWibAuI/AAAAAAAADFI/yOsN7xr3FZc/s1600/il_570xN.213370351.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 317px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Ag2XexgEqY0/To0WkWibAuI/AAAAAAAADFI/yOsN7xr3FZc/s400/il_570xN.213370351.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5660205120455639778" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;We were well on our way to making this circus party a grand celebration!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Catch up on the 31 Day Posts!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/31-days-to-artful-event.html"&gt;Day 1: 31 Days to an Artful Event&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/haves-and-have-nots.html"&gt;Day 2: The Haves and the Have Nots&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/few-of-my-favorite-things.html"&gt;Day 3: A Few of My Favorite Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/thinking-outside-of-berry-box.html"&gt;Day 4: Thinking Outside of the (Berry) Box&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-5-its-little-things.html"&gt;Day 5: It's the Little Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-6-layering-is-good-thing.html"&gt;Day 6: Layering is a Good Thing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-7-allowing-it-to-be.html"&gt;Day 7: Allowing it to Be&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-8-finished-product.html"&gt;Day 8: The Finished Product&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-9-indulging-on-sunday.html"&gt;Day 9: Indulging on a Sunday&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-10-greatest-show-on-earth.html"&gt;Day 10: The Greatest Show on Earth&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-3733806892470142004?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/3733806892470142004/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-11-come-one-come-all.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/3733806892470142004'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/3733806892470142004'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-11-come-one-come-all.html' title='Day 11: Come One, Come All...'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ijrMMc3w7fo/To0WlL0dxTI/AAAAAAAADFg/Y5CKgmHBeC8/s72-c/il_570xN.274813938.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-6689636164265658231</id><published>2011-10-10T00:00:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-10T00:00:09.167-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='kids'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='birthdays'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='fall'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='home and family'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parties'/><title type='text'>Day 10: The Greatest Show on Earth</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 299px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-syOAVyEmv28/Totru3OEnzI/AAAAAAAADEw/_gg7stFoBzA/s400/IMG_0843.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5659735809562287922" /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Have you ever designed a party around a pack of stickers? &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Ok, maybe it's just me, but I love these.  I found them for about .14 cents each this summer, and decided that someway, somehow, I was going to design a vintage circus party.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;When we were first pregnant with my oldest (about 8 years ago), we decided that we would be surprised, and not find out if we were having a girl or a boy. I didn't want to just do the same old green or yellow, safe gender neutral colors.  I wanted to use reds and browns and amber, and sage. I wanted to use old antique toys and books to decorate.  I couldn't stand all the choices at all the big box stores, and so for a while, it felt like it would never come together.  But, then, we found this beautiful little blanket in the &lt;a href="http://www.maxieb.com/"&gt;most unsuspecting spot&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-iubGpf0MzUQ/TotzVolascI/AAAAAAAADE4/yjWeULrFYho/s400/IMG_0862.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5659744172229964226" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And it was perfect. It was all I needed to design the sweetest little nursery for the little one growing in my belly.  And she was a beautiful surprise when she came out.  From the beginning I could tell she was a star, so the vintage circus theme seemed just perfect for her.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Then, when we found out our second was going to be a boy, I saw no need to deter from using the same nursery things.  So my&lt;a href="http://www.chattingatthesky.com/"&gt; dear friend &lt;/a&gt;surprised me with this fun lamp she found.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-A1kf6wk4C_4/TotzVwHYu1I/AAAAAAAADFA/jk-kM64HxeA/s400/IMG_0851.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5659744174251490130" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 299px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;A show stopper indeed.  I remember pulling it out of the diaper box it had been wrapped in, and exclaiming...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;"This is so much better than diapers!!!"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;So, there you have it.  My love for vintage circus must run deep.  I'm not big on the cutsie animal themes, or the character clothes, but give me a bear drinking tea any day.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Since those days, my babies have grown, and almost outgrown any care for things circus related.  But, when I told my son we'd have fresh popcorn, tug o war, and relay races, he got pretty excited.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;So, off we go to have another adventure this week on our 31 day journey to an artful event.  Won't you come along?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;Previous 31 Days Posts:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/31-days-to-artful-event.html"&gt;Day 1: 31 Days to an Artful Event&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/haves-and-have-nots.html"&gt;Day 2: The Haves and the Have Nots&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/few-of-my-favorite-things.html"&gt;Day 3: A Few of My Favorite Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/thinking-outside-of-berry-box.html"&gt;Day 4: Thinking Outside of the (Berry) Box&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-5-its-little-things.html"&gt;Day 5: It's the Little Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-6-layering-is-good-thing.html"&gt;Day 6: Layering is a Good Thing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-7-allowing-it-to-be.html"&gt;Day 7: Allowing it to Be&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-8-finished-product.html"&gt;Day 8: The Finished Product&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-9-indulging-on-sunday.html"&gt;Day 9: Indulging on a Sunday&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-6689636164265658231?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/6689636164265658231/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-10-greatest-show-on-earth.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6689636164265658231'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/6689636164265658231'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-10-greatest-show-on-earth.html' title='Day 10: The Greatest Show on Earth'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-syOAVyEmv28/Totru3OEnzI/AAAAAAAADEw/_gg7stFoBzA/s72-c/IMG_0843.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-8320654378827913207</id><published>2011-10-09T00:00:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-09T08:06:17.412-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='art'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='inspiration'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='events'/><title type='text'>Day 9: Indulging on a Sunday</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;Today begins a new week in our 31 day journey!  I'm so glad to have you along with us in celebrating an artful event!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I've decided that Sunday will be our day of inspiration.  I love taking a few minutes on Sundays to be inspired. Sometimes it happens through &lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/09/ooh-la-lachartreuse.html"&gt;visits&lt;/a&gt; like this. Or sometimes it happens while I'm peeking at blogs. But, today, I found this show stopper.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-AOpnf4ImquQ/ToeMZJGsU1I/AAAAAAAADDY/OMjY548_JPA/s400/6115715717_0baee07350.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5658645820382925650" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 308px; height: 400px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="color:#0000ee;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Ok, maybe I'm the last to know (which wouldn't surprise me), but Oh My, HEAVEN!!! I couldn't be happier to find &lt;a href="http://issuu.com/asubtlerevelry/docs/styled._issue_autumn"&gt;Styled. It's an absolutely amazing online magazine&lt;/a&gt;. Drooling, I tell you. Their tagline is...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:180%;"&gt;design. create. celebrate.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Hello. Could you &lt;i&gt;be&lt;/i&gt; any more me?!? (sense the Chandler tone of voice)  I don't think it could be.  So, stop reading here, and go indulge!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-9v0S6bufY3A/ToeFAavJqwI/AAAAAAAADDQ/SpcGEr9vUZA/s400/RLIgfL_2.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5658637699037899522" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 290px; " /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;Previous 31 Days Posts:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/31-days-to-artful-event.html"&gt;Day 1: 31 Days to an Artful Event&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/haves-and-have-nots.html"&gt;Day 2: The Haves and the Have Nots&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/few-of-my-favorite-things.html"&gt;Day 3: A Few of My Favorite Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/thinking-outside-of-berry-box.html"&gt;Day 4: Thinking Outside of the (Berry) Box&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-5-its-little-things.html"&gt;Day 5: It's the Little Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-6-layering-is-good-thing.html"&gt;Day 6: Layering is a Good Thing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-7-allowing-it-to-be.html"&gt;Day 7: Allowing it to Be&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-8-finished-product.html"&gt;Day 8: The Finished Product&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-8320654378827913207?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/8320654378827913207/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-9-indulging-on-sunday.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/8320654378827913207'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/8320654378827913207'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-9-indulging-on-sunday.html' title='Day 9: Indulging on a Sunday'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-AOpnf4ImquQ/ToeMZJGsU1I/AAAAAAAADDY/OMjY548_JPA/s72-c/6115715717_0baee07350.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-4696401104821744499</id><published>2011-10-08T00:00:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-08T07:39:50.972-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tips'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='events'/><title type='text'>Day 8: The Finished Product</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-sIKD4-ENveE/To5ltNwmeKI/AAAAAAAADGI/VJRp33bSrx4/s1600/IMG_0741.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 299px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-sIKD4-ENveE/To5ltNwmeKI/AAAAAAAADGI/VJRp33bSrx4/s400/IMG_0741.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5660573609113319586" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;The mason jars held the utensils in the berry box, with some pumpkins and mums.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-n_cety0cOPM/ToYmoSJwXuI/AAAAAAAADCk/lA49sTFi4Dw/s1600/IMG_0750.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 299px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-n_cety0cOPM/ToYmoSJwXuI/AAAAAAAADCk/lA49sTFi4Dw/s400/IMG_0750.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5658252455346986722" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;I embellished the table with my rooster sign holder and chalkboard signs.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-TnONteNEMj4/ToYmoC8hPpI/AAAAAAAADCc/GAwFB19vgAQ/s1600/IMG_0746.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 299px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-TnONteNEMj4/ToYmoC8hPpI/AAAAAAAADCc/GAwFB19vgAQ/s400/IMG_0746.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5658252451264937618" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Simple. Casual. Comfortable. Good.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-I_NCfqxVcrY/ToYmn_HW_zI/AAAAAAAADCU/7nAzyQR5CxQ/s1600/IMG_0744.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 299px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-I_NCfqxVcrY/ToYmn_HW_zI/AAAAAAAADCU/7nAzyQR5CxQ/s400/IMG_0744.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5658252450236661554" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;Even as simple as I felt like it was, everyone raved about how great everything was.  You'd be surprised at what impresses people.  And the pulled pork sliders were amazing.  It was exactly what my client wanted, which was all I cared about.  Artful success!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;Previous 31 Days Posts:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/31-days-to-artful-event.html"&gt;Day 1: 31 Days to an Artful Event&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/haves-and-have-nots.html"&gt;Day 2: The Haves and the Have Nots&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/few-of-my-favorite-things.html"&gt;Day 3: A Few of My Favorite Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/thinking-outside-of-berry-box.html"&gt;Day 4: Thinking Outside of the (Berry) Box&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-5-its-little-things.html"&gt;Day 5: It's the Little Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-6-layering-is-good-thing.html"&gt;Day 6: Layering is a Good Thing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-7-allowing-it-to-be.html"&gt;Day 7: Allowing it to Be&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-4696401104821744499?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/4696401104821744499/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-8-finished-product.html#comment-form' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/4696401104821744499'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/4696401104821744499'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-8-finished-product.html' title='Day 8: The Finished Product'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-sIKD4-ENveE/To5ltNwmeKI/AAAAAAAADGI/VJRp33bSrx4/s72-c/IMG_0741.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-170051385383000581</id><published>2011-10-07T00:00:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-07T07:19:18.063-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='tips'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='events'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='entertaining'/><title type='text'>Day 7: Allowing it to Be</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-HdXGNUQxYHU/To5gJDVP73I/AAAAAAAADF4/VPW4nT1Fw2c/s1600/IMG_0287.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 370px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-HdXGNUQxYHU/To5gJDVP73I/AAAAAAAADF4/VPW4nT1Fw2c/s400/IMG_0287.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5660567490280812402" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;So, in my crazy mixed up brain, I had originally thought that I would juggle the normal kids afternoon transportation and activities along with handling the preparation and set up for this dinner.  However, thankfully, a few days before the event, my husband offered to handle picking up the kids and taking them to all their things so that I could simply focus on my work.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Later, I thanked him profusely, and screamed at myself, "What in the world were you thinking??!!  There would have been no way you could have done both!!!"  Even though I've been doing this for several years now, I still have to be reminded to fully devote time...solid time (not distracted time) to accomplish the task at hand.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Things always take longer than you think.  Give yourself plenty of time to gather supplies, carry things to and from the car, and everything in between.  Even if you have the best laid plans and preparations, but don't give yourself enough time to carry it out, you will not be able to fully enjoy setting everything up.  Instead of being able to artfully arrange a tray, or step back and decide how the table will look the best, and where all the food should go, you are rushing to simply get it on the table!  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The stress of not having enough time can easily suck all the joy out of the event design.  To allow the event to be artful...you have to allow for the time it takes to let it be.  Funny how that works.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Come back tomorrow to see the wrap up of this event.  Then we'll continue our 31 Days journey with a little inspiration on Sunday, and then enter into a new event on Monday!  If you want to catch up from previous days this week, check out the links below.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;Previous 31 Days Posts:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/31-days-to-artful-event.html"&gt;Day 1: 31 Days to an Artful Event&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/haves-and-have-nots.html"&gt;Day 2: The Haves and the Have Nots&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/few-of-my-favorite-things.html"&gt;Day 3: A Few of My Favorite Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/thinking-outside-of-berry-box.html"&gt;Day 4: Thinking Outside of the (Berry) Box&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; "&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-5-its-little-things.html"&gt;Day 5: It's the Little Things&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-6-layering-is-good-thing.html"&gt;Day 6: Layering is a Good Thing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;Linking up with &lt;a href="http://studiojru.com/blog/"&gt;In the Studio&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5658653109435414239-170051385383000581?l=eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/feeds/170051385383000581/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-7-allowing-it-to-be.html#comment-form' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/170051385383000581'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5658653109435414239/posts/default/170051385383000581'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://eventsbydesignnc.blogspot.com/2011/10/day-7-allowing-it-to-be.html' title='Day 7: Allowing it to Be'/><author><name>Melissa</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01284452629366968350</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='23' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q82n7IRA2Qk/TXV1iGQcrxI/AAAAAAAACaE/C4CeJ7lBpgQ/s220/IMG_0025_5X7_PRINT.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-HdXGNUQxYHU/To5gJDVP73I/AAAAAAAADF4/VPW4nT1Fw2c/s72-c/IMG_0287.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5658653109435414239.post-7558783487150979744</id><published>2011-10-06T00:00:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-10-06T00:00:01.919-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='31 days'/><category s
